A common question I am asked by readers and clients is this,
“Surely the narcissist can see what he is doing? So, why does he not stop?”
It is a frequent question which is asked through a lack of expertise and the cloud of emotional thinking. It is a source of confusion, misery and bewilderment and it keeps people trapped.
Not any longer.
If you understand the Narcissistic Perspective you will take a large leap forward in achieving freedom from narcissistic abuse.
One of the repeated failings that people make in their quest to understand what has happened to them is to not understand the narcissistic perspective.
This is not to empathise with it.
This is not to be sympathetic to it.
It is pure Logical Understanding.
This Logic Bulletin addresses
Clear explanations about the common mistakes that victims make when trying to understand the behaviour of the narcissist
The existence of the Majority Perspective and the Narcissistic Perspective, what that means and how they manifest.
Identification of the Strands of the Narcissistic Perspective, namely The Basic Narcissistic Perspective, The Cognitive Empathy Perspective and The Devil´s Perspective.
What each of those perspectives involves and means to the victim
Which school of narcissistic operates with which strand of the Narcissistic Perspective
What the perspectives do
Enabling you to make sense of why the narcissist behaves as he or she does and why previously you were unable to make sense of it.
The Baseline Scenario with regard to a common interaction between victim and narcissist to assist you in understanding how the perspectives apply to this interaction. The Baseline Scenario will apply to intimate and non-intimate interactions for primary, former primary and secondary sources, therefore this material is of use to those with a need for understanding about romantic, familial, social, work, business, client or neighbour ensnarements with one or more narcissists.
If you are serious about achieving freedom from the narcissist, you MUST understand the narcissistic perspective, until you do, you will not move forward.