Fury
Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult?
Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered?
Why does he walk off and disappear?
Here is the answer.
By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic.
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VERY good book! I can perfectly relate to that, saw my ex-narc and my dad, I saw their fury bubbling underneath, the restlessness, the aggression, the vitriol just waiting to be spit out. In the case of my dad it´s mostly heated fury (brutal verbal put-downs), while in the case of “my” middle mid range ex-narc who is extremely passive aggressive, it is mostly ice-cold fury.
I understand now why I was so scared of these people. I remember being extremely scared of my dad, never knowing when his fury will ignite. I was scared to death of “my” middle mid ranger, cause I saw the fury boiling underneath. All the time. I felt “extreme aggression” boiling underneath the surface. The really scared the sh*t out of me!
Ever see a mongoose mimic and mirror and hypnotise a king cobra and then box it wiv jabs and punches b4 it rips its throat out and kills it to take home to his missus and pups to eat? Incredible to watch. My point? The king cobra is the narc and the heyoka empath is the mongoose. Just as the narc mimics us, we mimic em to. But we mirror em also and that shows em their inner darkness which terrifies em. Like the mirror of truth in the film “the never ending story.” narcs r the heyoka empath prey see, and like a cat wiva mouse we like to play wiv em b4 we take em down. Not to hurt em though but to warn em off, belive me to They dont cum back to hoover either. Saint Anger.
The heyoka empath absorbs the hot and cold fury of the narc for example like grand jedi master yoda absorbs into his hands darth sidious’s darkside force lightning in star wars. Saint Anger.
A must read for everyone!!!
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