Inside the Narcissist’s Head : Is it Planning?
One of the most common questions that the victim of the narcissist asks is “Does he know what he is doing?” or “Did she do that knowing what was actually going on?”
The answer leaves many surprised and often unable to understand.
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When does the narcissist plan?
Do all narcissists plan?
When does the narcissist not plan?
How can the narcissist not plan?
Why do I think the narcissist is planning?
What is the extent of the planning?
About the differences in approach between Lesser, Mid Range and Greater Narcissists
About the similarities and differences in approach between Lower Lesser, Middle Lesser, Upper Lesser Type A and Upper Lesser Type B
About the similarities and differences in approach between Lower Mid Range, Middle Mid Range Type A, Middle Mid Range Type B and Upper Mid Range
About the similarities and differences in approach between Lower Greater, Middle Greater and Upper Greater
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This thread 🙂 . Gawd. “stumped moments” = 404s, glitches, or, shit! the facade! moments 🙂
It shows that I understood some of my interactions with narcissists threatened their control. A lot! (grinning). I can also understand a great deal better about past work because of my analytical approach which challenged their systems, or, narcissist bosses (I’m laughing as I type this). It was actually a combination, me, not being understood and them being “difficult” – I was asserting my right to use my mind while they were asserting their control over me (or, at least trying to !!). 30 months of learning has achieved hell of a great deal. I’m so glad that I travelled this journey. Thank you, HG for this priceless gift xx
Yes. It is planning.
Not always.
One time he says to me “I don’t like surprises”, I’m assuming, in other words – narcissists don’t like being caught ‘unawares’ (? to avoid the ‘stumped’ moments? and not wanting to be seen as ‘reacting’ in a negative way – especially in front of other people). Lessers would react regardless.
Narcissists do not like having their control threatened, if the surprise does that, then the surprise will not be liked. If the surprise does not threaten control and you are painted white, the surprise will be lauded.
Ok, thank you for your response. I should have ignored his veiled ‘threat’ and done a few surprises 😉 What you do is FAB, thank you.