The Narc Days of Christmas – No. 12

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  1. lickemtomorrow says:

    On the 12th day of Christmas that’s exactly what he got from me.

    Couldn’t have done it without you, HG.

    And all the lovely supportive empaths gathered here <3

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Jolly good.

  2. Kiki says:

    HG , anyone I need help
    I was in no contact with Narc for weeks after a very sudden discard.
    I broke it a week before Christmas, got a cool response.
    Didn’t even get a Happy Christmas yesterday from him.
    I’m very very hurt , I was so hurt I emailed him , then shut down the email site and blocked from my phone.Not that he will try and contact but I couldn’t stand the silence, like I never existed.
    I fucking hate him
    I couldn’t take a no response which he is very good at .
    I feel I’m back to square one , I’m devastated and picking on my looks , personality everything.
    I want to cry but won’t .I’ve been here before but fell for a charming hoover last year.
    I need to speak with you HG , I’m a hopeless case I think due to deep seated issues of my own 😩🥲


  3. December Infinity says:

    Awesome! Merry no contact to me and to the rest of you if you have been able to rid yourself of the narc! I am enjoying peace and quiet and the true essence of no narc. He he he.

    1. Fiddleress says:

      Hi December Infinity
      “Happy no contact”: that’s an excellent wish, I’ll bear it in mind for the coming Christmas (I’ll tell everyone to wish me that instead of Christmas)!

      I have at last just changed my telephone number. I had only blocked the narcissist, thought that would do the trick since I don’t take calls from unknown numbers, but my phone reinitialised last month and somehow it erased the blocked numbers, so I found out. And sure enough, 11 months after my escape and after over 10 months of NC, I was hoovered on Christmas day. I was dismayed, shocked, pissed off and actually offended by his ‘lovely’ text message. Offended because with everything I know now thanks to narcsite, I very distinctly felt like an object. But the worst part is that it took all my strength not to respond. It took me the whole day to feel certain I would not.
      Replying to him would have been such a betrayal of everything I have learnt here, the support I have found here, and the hard work I put in all year.
      And there is no way I was going to cheat on the Ultra (well, your work, HG) with a Lower Mid-Ranger!

      Glad to know you are enjoying your no contact, DI.

      1. December Infinity says:

        Hi Fiddleress,

        I am definitely enjoying no contact from the last narc. I had to not only block the narc’s number but also change my phone number several months back. I am glad you changed your telephone number. Now you can continue to enjoy no contact. Good for you that you didn’t reply to the text message. The narc doesn’t deserve a reply of any sort.

  4. A Victor says:

    That is perfect.

  5. Asp Emp says:

    Very good, HG. This is the first day of Christmas – an overnight stay in A&E….. Merry Christmas, Santa Tudor X

  6. 1jaded1 says:


    11 months of sniping
    10 nights of not sleeping
    9 prospects he’s romancing
    8 ways of smearing
    7 weeks not speaking
    6 days of lying
    5 old things
    4 nasty words
    3 false friends
    2 violent shoves
    And an overnight stay in A and E

    Btw…today is the first day of Christmas. I love your 12th gift. It all ties in.

  7. The muse that was... says:

    He gave me text messages of words of Happy Holidays to you and your Family Sexy….While he was with his girlfriend, her family daughters or his family and son daughter. He ran to the bathroom and sent out many text to his supply, as we all have different names. AT least he did not do a mass text. We were his Ho Ho’s Hoes

    1. lisk says:

      Wow, this is triggering. Remembering arguments at the Thanksgiving and Christmas tables after he’d return from the bathroom or the coat room at his uncle’s house. Ugh.

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