HG Mauls The Upper Mid Range Narcissist
Upper Mid Range Narcissist
HG Tudor as The Ultra has no allegiance to other narcissists and for you this is a good thing.
You are about to be educated and entertained as HG Tudor takes each sub school of narcissist and gives them a compact mauling for their failings and their collective disgrace to the narcissist brethren!
HG has summoned the various groups of narcissists before him as he delivers this compact mauling about their shortcomings which result in his visceral disgust for them. This mauling will enable you to understand far more about the characteristics of the relevant sub school of narcissist which includes the following
1. Appearance
2. Overall approach to the control of others
3. The nature of dynamics with romantic partners, friends, family and colleagues.
4. Levels of awareness
5. Differing styles of behaviour and how this manifests
6. The weaknesses of these narcissists
7. The self-perception adopted by these narcissists
8. How they approach manipulations
and more.
This collection will enable you to understand far more about what each sub school looks like and how they behave which adds to your armoury of knowledge. Even better, it is delivered in the form of a mauling from HG Tudor so you can gain a vicarious pleasure from his verbal volleys without any risk to you. Utilise this unrivalled information to understand the Upper Mid Range Narcissist to build your logic defences, to ensure you stay one step ahead of the narcissist and be entertained also.
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He gave me a chocolate bunny as a gift and then bolted off. Why? I explain it as his avoidant attachment. His mum somehow damaged him a lot. He is very very troubled.
Avoidance of intimacy.
All narcs reject intimacy. They are not capable of being really intimate. NPD is a self-defense overkill! Patri Narc hardly ever hugged me. He just gave brief hugs and then got disgusted, quickly stopped and went away doing something else. He´s disgusted of hugging his own child. So: Anything goes when it comes to intimacy avoidance.
My recent phone talk with Patri Narc (I´m ANC, almost no contact):
“Hello?”
“Hi dad, it´s me, Leela”
“Hey honey, how are you?” (Very convincing, wow!)
“I´m fine, thank you dad, and how are you?”
“We´re doing good too here” (My parents live abroad)
“And I can hear from your voice that you feel good” (Wow! Good job, old Narc)
“Yes, dad, but you know, I am really fed up with this COVID-lockdown stuff”
“We too! (*curse words*), politics is really (*curse words*)”
“You´re right dad” (I really agree)
“But don´t worry honey, it will be over soon…(*comforting words*)” (Good job!)
This old narc has really good cognitive empathy! He faked it very well.
Love it! Patri Narc accurately described. 🙂
Mine too. Except for the physical violence. That was all my mother.
Patri Narc applied mild physical violence like spanking but mainly gruesome verbal abuse.
My dad spanked me once. I remember it, it was very gentle, I knew I deserved it and it was effective. My mother’s many, many physical and verbal abuses all run into one big thought, hell on earth. My mind can’t separate any one incident from another, it just doesn’t do that. I believe it is my minds way of protecting me. But horrifically, I do remember many of the details, just in bits and pieces. I might not even believe some things had happened if my siblings did not also have memories that are consistent with mine. And the fact that they left and never came back is also reinforcement of how awful it was. My sister has still not responded to my dad’s death, 6 months later. Anyway, I am sad that both you and I had to go through these things but I am thankful that we are both who we are now. And that we are here, healing over our scars. 🙂
Firstly, no child “deserves” spanking! We did not deserve it! No, we didn´t. I blacked out a lot of memories too, but the hardest is that Patri Narc doesn´t love me. Never has. He just can´t. He can´t even see me as a person. I´m just an object! And it´s not even his fault! 🙁
We must focus on ourselves now. We came out as Empaths. We came out damaged but we can work on it. We can get better. People with NPD cannot, or not yet. More research and better treatments are needed.
No reason to be sad, but many reasons to work on our wounds and scars 😉 🙂 We can do it! 🙂
Well, no, you are correct, no one “deserves” spanking. But in the big scheme of my life, it was so mild, compared to other things, that it actually didn’t bother me even at the time. I think it was the only time he ever spanked any of us. And I was his golden child! Lol, but apparently not perfect!
I love your optimism! You are a breath of fresh air! Thank you!
You´re very welcome. I think one of my minority traits perfectly shows. 😉 I am a healer and fixer. And THIS is the right place 😉 Not with narcs, there is nothing we can do, but HERE! Helping other Emps to become and stay strong. 🙂
Leela, I agree. This may be an answer to a question I’ve been pondering. Thank you.
Why am I helping? Because I´m an Empath! 🙂 🙂 🙂
All of the sudden I need these.
Had a Narc added to my work life yesterday. Within 20 minutes of our first zoom meeting I was ensnared. Within 2 hours I was stopping myself from replying “I see what you did there!” to a baiting email message, telling myself, “I will not fuel. I will not fuel. I will not fuel this narcissist.” After work, I still kept checking my emails for something new. I woke up early this morning and I double-checked his webpage to see if he was married. Now I’m here at KTN because this is the right place to come to in my current state. I mean, a few years ago, I’d be calling a girlfriend and telling her, “I just met this guy! Blah. Blah. Blah.”
I totally recognize this internal response and behavior of mine. It is exactly how I felt and behaved when I met NarcX. It’s like a high. I didn’t understand what it was when it happened then. I know EXACTLY what is going on now. (“Oh, hi again, Emotional Thinking!”)
I knew this one was a Narc going in. I knew he was annoyed that he had to meet with me. His reputation is that he’s very smart and can’t be bothered with most people unless they’re in his inner circle.
So, at the start of our meeting he is unsmiling and all business (Attitude: “Let’s get this over with.”). As soon as I get one of his obscure references (FUEL!), he is smiley and engaged and then asking me where I live in the city and telling me about his teenage kids (NarcX did that, too. Message: “I am a good and loving father.”) and moving his left hand around his face and collar (“See, I am not wearing a wedding ring.”). Afterwards, I received about five work-related emails from somebody who makes everyone wait two days to two weeks to never for an email (no one likes to work with him for that reason).
Anyway, the good thing is that, this time, I know what’s going on internally and that this will go nowhere. But I worry that I am bored and I that I like the wordplay so I might engage more than I should. At least I am proud of myself that I was aware of that baiting email and that I did not provide fuel there—I did not respond to it professionally, either—though it was soooo tempting!
I’m so glad you are here, HG!
Dearest lisk,
You just dodged a bullet !
Just goes to show, the struggles are real
Congratulations 🎉🍾
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Dear Bubbles,
The struggles will be almost every day for another week—or maybe less. I will work to ride it out . . . .
Thank you for your support, 😘
lisk
Dearest lisk,
Any updates on email narc lovely ?
🤞
Luv Bubbles xx 😘