Why the Narcissist Downgrades
“HG, I am decent-looking, have a good job, I am intelligent, caring, fun and interesting, I dress well, I am a dab hand at cooking and nobody has ever complained about my bedroom skills and he has left me for THAT! Why?!”
It is a refrain I have often heard.
Why, when the narcissist could have you, did he go and choose somebody who is clearly inferior to you in so many different ways?
What is so good about her or him?
Where have you gone wrong?
Why on earth has he chosen her over you?
Why has the narcissist downgraded?
This gives you the answer and it will not only help you understand, it will make you feel a whole lot better too.
Do I have a pink dress? No. Do I have a curtain type cardy? No. Do I have hair curlers? No. Do I have fake pearls? Erm, yes, I do, from around 1950s (inherited from grandmother), I won’t be wearing them though. Do I have a pillow? Ah, yes. I do! I’ll shove it up my dress, or whatever I wear when I leave the house……