The Narcissist and Money

Money is one of the most obvious ways in which one can demonstrate one’s power. Money provides options, it reveals opportunities and provides chances where none might have existed previously. Money equates to power and power equates to money. We have a healthy attitude to the question of money. What we create is ours. Yours […]

Hush

  Hush. I don’t want you to make any sound. None at all. If you do you will spoil this moment. This is not a time for noise, of any kind. Yes, I admit I normally like you to be making some sound. Whether it is your words of admiration, your scream of terror, your […]

I Use Words Purely To Control

The words that our kind use are the instruments of our dark profession. Words are advantageous because they are so easy to say. There is little effort involved in uttering a sudden profane insult or a sentence designed to bring about submission. A barked injunction or a passionate phrase are readily conjured up and sent […]

Why the Narcissist Must Mess With Your Mind

    The sudden silences. The periods of no communication when before the airwaves crackled with the send and return exchange of text messages. The repeated calls throughout the day to talk of something and to talk of nothing, now gone and empty. The absence of a morning greeting. The absence of any greeting. Just […]

8 Common Things Narcissists Say To Control You

    People are objects to the narcissists. We call them appliances. You are there to be controlled so that the narcissist can extract fuel from you, character traits, and residual benefits. Those four things, control, fuel, character traits, and residual benefits, are known as the prime aims. The simplest way is to think of […]