Knowing the Narcissist : Why The Narcissist Wants You Dead

“I’m going to fucking kill you!” “You’d better do it or you’re dead!” “I wish you were dead!” “You are going to die.” You may well have heard such threats and declarations of intent from our kind. The savage Lesser who has erupted in a volcanic reaction of ignited fury who grabs the kitchen knife […]

Knowing the Narcissist : A Sense of Loss

  People always struggle with loss. It might be at the top of the scale where you have suffered a bereavement and lost a well-loved family member. It could be the loss of your home where you have lived for twenty years, owing to damage or repossession. It may be the loss of your job, […]

Knowing the Narcissist : The Deathbed Narcissist : Lower Lesser

              “Well, hello there.” “Who the fuck are you? It´s not Halloween yet, you twat,” replied the figure lying in bed, propped up on two dirty, stained pillows. “Goodness me, two swear words in two sentences. Not like you at all. I would have expected a volley of profanity […]

Knowing the Narcissist : The Deathbed Narcissist : The Middle Lesser

    I really can’t stay (baby, it’s cold outside) I’ve got to go away (but, I can call you a ride) This evening has been (I’m so glad you that you dropped in) So very nice (time spent with you is paradise) The car radio continued to play the song, the upbeat music floating […]

Knowing the Narcissist : The Power of Demise – The Narcissist’s Use of Death

  “As long as I have a want. I have a reason for living. Satisfaction is death.” So said George Bernard Shaw. To us satisfaction is not death but we derive satisfaction from death, the death of others. I wrote about how I rarely attend funerals and explained the reasons why, but that is not […]