Knowing the Narcissist : The Errors of the Ignorant No.2

  A series based on the comments made by people who fail to understand the true nature of narcissists and the narcissistic dynamic. Whilst these comments may be well-intentioned, they are incorrect, perpetuate misunderstandings and in many cases create false hope, dashed expectations and perilous outcomes. ‘Let him go but tell him you will always […]

Knowing the Narcissist : How Your Emotional Thinking Causes Excuses

    THIS IS A KEY ARTICLE IN TERMS OF BOLSTERING YOUR UNDERSTANDING. The fact for so long you had no idea what you were dealing with resulted in you engaging in an anticipated behaviour. This behaviour is one which we regularly rely on in order to keep you in the dark. I have made […]

Knowing the Narcissist : How Your Emotional Thinking Causes Excuses

    THIS IS A KEY ARTICLE IN TERMS OF BOLSTERING YOUR UNDERSTANDING. The fact for so long you had no idea what you were dealing with resulted in you engaging in an anticipated behaviour. This behaviour is one which we regularly rely on in order to keep you in the dark. I have made […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Should I Get In Touch With the Narcissist?

    The creation of anxiety and uncertainty are twin concerns which we engender in much of what we do. Both have the effect of stopping you from doing things, preventing you from analysing matters in an effective way and ultimately from helping yourself to escape our hold. One way of doing this is through […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Emotional Thinking Blinds – Fly on the Windscreen

  You know how much I like to drive my car. It is an impressive vehicle. It is fast, attractive and demonstrates to the world beyond just how superior I am to other road users as I surge past them with just the slightest pressure on the accelerator. Cocooned inside this metal shell I race […]