Knowing the Narcissist : 6 Speciality Hoovers (And How To Unplug Them)

  The hoover. An instrument of cleaning and the instrument by which we endeavour to suck you back into our false reality so we can exert our hold over you once again. Hoovers come at various stages of your dance with us and also come in a variety of forms and guises so that you […]

Know the Narcissist : How To Stop the Hoovers

The hoover and the narcissist. They go together like gin and tonic, cheese and onion and Laurel and Hardy. Where there is a narcissist, there comes hoovers – whether they are benign or malign, they will happen and you need to know how to stop them. In this detailed Assistance Package you will learn about […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Hoover Risk : The Need For The Last Word

    I often reinforce how the key to understanding who you have been entangled with and therefore maximising your own prospects of moving on is to comprehend that we operate from a different perspective from you. That is why so much of what we say and do appears odd, irrational and downright perverse to […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Raising The Hoover Bar

  The hoover. It is one of the most discussed periods of the narcissistic entanglement. I am referring to it in the traditional sense, namely the three post-discard/escape hoovers, although as you will be aware from my works, there are other hoovers throughout the interaction between us and you. There are most likely two reasons […]

Know the Narcissist : How To Stop the Hoovers

The hoover and the narcissist. They go together like gin and tonic, cheese and onion and Laurel and Hardy. Where there is a narcissist, there comes hoovers – whether they are benign or malign, they will happen and you need to know how to stop them. In this detailed Assistance Package you will learn about […]