Knowing the Narcissist : 5 Conversational Derailments

  We don’t do conversations. That suggests that it is an equal process where we listen to you and your opinion is respected and deemed as valid. During seduction our conversations are both information gathering exercises and monologues which are there to showcase our brilliance. Once we devalue you, our conversations with you are tirades, […]

The Revision of History

  You are no doubt familiar with the quotation “History is written by the victors” to explain that those who triumph then re-write what has happened to accord with their new-found supremacy. We bastardise that quotation. We re-write history in order to ensure that we are the victors. We love to win. We hate to […]

The Revision of History

  You are no doubt familiar with the quotation “History is written by the victors” to explain that those who triumph then re-write what has happened to accord with their new-found supremacy. We bastardise that quotation. We re-write history in order to ensure that we are the victors. We love to win. We hate to […]

Knowing the Narcisisst : The Treatment

  We do not seek treatment. The answer to why that is the case is a simple one. There is nothing wrong with us. Occasionally we may be compelled to undergo treatment but that is a different matter. We feel no compulsion at all to volunteer to be subjected to analysis and therapy because there […]