We narcissists create unusual milestones for the purposes of maintaining our narcissistic grip on our victims. The calendar is festooned with milestones. There are those which are applicable to everybody, for example, a person’s birthday.  There are others which are applicable to a large proportion of people on the planet, Christmas, Easter Sunday, Valentine’s […]

    Of the many consequences of becoming entangled with our kind, there is one which is always present. This is the racing mind. The racing mind begins in the hinterland between the seduction and the devaluation as we start to create doubt in your mind, create ambiguity and generate concern on your part. There […]

  Are you reading this through bleary eyes as you desperately await the effect of a caffeine boost to kick start your weary self into life to endure another day? Perhaps you can vividly recall that drained sensation that haunted you and that nagging ache which was ever present behind your eyeballs? The need to […]

Time to test your knowledge Tudorites! Are you able to match the manipulation to the relevant type of narcissist? Need further assistance? Use this Match the Manipulations Keep building your defences with these additional quizzes From the Mouth of the Narcissist From the Mouth of the Narcissist – Expanded Answers From the Mouth of the […]

One of the defining features of our behaviour is the association with chaos. Our arrival into somebody’s life is described as a whirlwind. We are regarded as tempestuous, a tornado and a flailing dervish. People describe how we leave a trail of destruction behind us. Reference is made to the drama and the rollercoaster ride […]