Never Let Go

  I was engaged in a discussion recently with Dr E. The conversation concerned relationships. “So, when you end a relationship, tell me how do you feel about it?” he began as he unfolded his notebook and found a fresh page. “I do not end my relationships,” I replied. “I see, so they are always […]

The Ten Initial Desires of the Narcissist

  I am red of tooth and claw. I seduce, I hurt, I cast to one side and like some malevolent Pied Piper, I play my tunes once again and draw you into my fabricated world. I operate a zero sum policy. I want what you have. If I gain it, I win. I love […]

Never Let Go

  I was engaged in a discussion recently with Dr E. The conversation concerned relationships. “So, when you end a relationship, tell me how do you feel about it?” he began as he unfolded his notebook and found a fresh page. “I do not end my relationships,” I replied. “I see, so they are always […]

The Narcissist´s Conditional Asterisk

  Ordinarily, all you would see above, would be the words ‘I love you’. You would always fail to notice the huge asterisk next to those words. This is the Narcissist’s Conditional Asterisk. Everything the narcissist says or does has this asterisk next to it. Except you never see it. If the words or actions […]

Your Pledge To The Narcissist

You signed the pledge. Your tears of joy fell on it and washed away what I had written there revealing instead what has been carved into the stone underneath. It is your pledge to me. You promise to supply me with the fuel that I need, be it morning, noon or night. You dedicate yourself […]