Black or White : On The Shelf

    Life on the shelf is often difficult. Knowing The Narcissist is the only place which explains this dynamic with accuracy. You often find yourself isolated, unable to talk to others about the affair you are engaged with and if there are others you can speak to, they do not understand you are dealing […]

Shelf Life – The World of the Secondary Source

There are many different types of secondary sources. There are the Non Intimate Secondary Sources – family, friends, neighbours or colleagues. There are the Intimate Partner Secondary Sources, which includes The Dirty Little Secret and The Candidate. There are virtual varieties also. What do all of these secondary sources have in common? The shelf. Every […]

Shelf Life – The World of the Secondary Source

There are many different types of secondary sources. There are the Non Intimate Secondary Sources – family, friends, neighbours or colleagues. There are the Intimate Partner Secondary Sources, which includes The Dirty Little Secret and The Candidate. There are virtual varieties also. What do all of these secondary sources have in common? The shelf. Every […]

Knowing the Narcissist : The IPSS Shelved or Disengaged?

  The Intimate Partner Secondary Source (“IPSS”). Who is this? Briefly, these are ways in which the IPSS will manifest. Someone the narcissist is dating where intimacy has occurred. The narcissist is in a relationship (married, living with somebody, partners) but has a victim on the side as a mistress. As per 2, but where […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Shelf Life – The World of the Secondary Source

There are many different types of secondary sources. There are the Non Intimate Secondary Sources – family, friends, neighbours or colleagues. There are the Intimate Partner Secondary Sources, which includes The Dirty Little Secret and The Candidate. There are virtual varieties also. What do all of these secondary sources have in common? The shelf. Every […]