Saying Nothing To Tell You Everything

The Silent Treatment. One of our most potent methods of manipulation. Whether it is a present silent treatment where we talk to everyone else around you but not you or whether it is an absent silent treatment where we disappear and cannot be found or contacted, we know that this is highly effective. It does […]

Where Has He Gone?

  The relationship had hit a rocky patch, albeit describing it as such would actually understate the manner in which our relationship has progressed as of late. It would be more accurate to describe it as a series of peaks and troughs. The devaluation began and the unpleasant behaviour has worsened. There have been peaks […]

Silent Night

  Silent night, frozen out night, You’re not calm, feeling shite, He’s gone missing, leaving you riled Left alone, bereft and reviled Should you call the police? When will this behaviour cease? Silent night, absent night, ‘Phone not answered, it’s not right, Left you crying tears on your face, You’ll keep searching, it’s part of […]

Six Silent Soul Destroyers

The use of and imposition of silence are two of the most powerful weapons in our abusive arsenal. Silence is easy to deploy and horrendously effective in securing our aims of compliance, control and fuel. 1. My silence is always meaningful You may sit quietly because you have no need to say anything. You may […]