Your Fault: Blame and the Narcissist

Finally, understand why it is always your fault and never ours.





29 thoughts on “Your Fault: Blame and the Narcissist

  1. 1jaded1 says:

    Well thank you. If I encounter someone who looks like the person on the cover, I will run for my life.

    1. 1jaded1 says:

      He is gorgeous though.

    2. HG Tudor says:

      Running wont help!

      1. 1jaded1 says:

        Feet, don’t fail me now…

  2. M Church says:

    Nar came into my home took pic of family which had dead husband in it and set it on fire. Burn it up. Yelling at me that his ghost was in this home and why I wouldn’t commit to him. The dead husband had never live in my home.The pic was kept because children were in in.It was so hurtful I just can’t get past it.Has repeatedly show up randomly and started name callin/I’m always wrong/a quitter.Not standin by his side. I have been blind sided and an emotional basket case since I met this person.

    1. malignnarc says:

      Hello M Church, those actions are all designed to control you and cause you to give him fuel. I take it you don’t live with this person?

    2. nikitalondon says:

      Welcome here 😃

  3. K says:

    Bloody hell HG! I’m just over a quarter of the way through and so far it reads like a plea for understanding. Kind of sweet really. Although, as before, your argument based on necessity it full of holes.

    1. malignnarc says:

      That’s it you see K, we are just misunderstood.

  4. T says:

    I finished it already, HG! I had a long break today. The pity play after the first withdrawal/silent treatment was because he didn’t want my family to think badly of him. He did say he didn’t like to feel guilty….and he considered any conversation about a problem.(after the golden period)….as making him feel guilty…? Even though we never argued.

    When he returned to his abusive ways….and I removed myself from him AND TOLD HIM WHY he got offended…I guess he didn’t care anymore and he went rogue.

    He was nothing but respectful and nice in the beginning. Why would he think I would put up with his BS?

    1. malignnarc says:

      Good to know T. He would expect you to put up with his BS because that is your role and the consequence of his control.

  5. Sheila says:

    If I imagine different frames for the glasses and pictured T in a suit it could be him! lol

  6. nikitalondon says:

    The guy in the pic seems to have a moustache…

  7. T says:

    That guy on the cover could be N3’s TWIN!!! LOL!!! omg!!!
    WOW!!!! HAHAHA!

    1. malignnarc says:

      That’s me actually.

      1. T says:

        No?! It’s N3! Seriously, even the glasses and the suit! Even the hair! He wore a suit like that (shirt was lavender) on our first date! I fell in love with him in that suit….lol. Not many men wear suits on a weeknight date….

      2. Cody says:

        I call BS. You would NEVER out yourself!

        1. malignnarc says:

          Well it’s not like you can really see me is it?

      3. mlaclarece says:

        I have a weak spot for guys with glasses…

  8. Cara says:

    Well of course it’s always my fault. It’s my fault, not yours, when you don’t love me the way you love your other children. My fault, not yours, when YOU drove through the garage door (and you were alone in the car)

    1. nikitalondon says:

      Identically did my friend. All sorts of very crazy things. She once threw a sofa out the balcony onto the street. Everybody in the neighborhood feared her.

      1. Cara says:

        A sofa off the balcony all by herself? Impressive.

        1. nikitalondon says:

          Yes, a two place antique meuble, those with armleaners curled down ( not really a sofa but I have no clue how its really called) , which belonged to her husbamds family and he had paid for restoring.
          I asked her how the hell did you get the forces to do that?? She said I domt know, it was the rage because before I never managed to lift that. I imagine she slide it to the balcony ( it was in their sleeping room) and then threw it off the fence of the balcony.

          1. Cara says:

            And if they were cleaning and had to vacuum UNDER that thing, she couldn’t lift it to run the vacuum under it.

          2. nikitalondon says:

            Yes Cara I am afraid it would be like this. Seems its all out of the same book also. 😥

  9. T says:

    HG, You’re ALWAYS on TIME!

    1. malignnarc says:

      Glad you noticed.

  10. nikitalondon says:

    Ta daaaaa i have your masterpiece!!!
    Its your fault that I am such a fan of yours 😘

    1. malignnarc says:

      Then that will be the one time I shall accept I am at fault.

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