11 thoughts on “Burned

  1. The convalescent codependent says:

    I have some statements I have experienced or heard from other’s experience, can you shed some light on these HG, I am in need of a master narc’s insight.

    “In about a minute I am going to have you pull me over and I will have a cab take me back home.”
    “Your mother has a big truck in the driveway, the two of you can pack your things and go.”
    “This is why I don’t like doing nice things, getting cards, writing notes, sending flowers etc, cause if I slow down a bit then the girl starts complaining and it makes me want to do it less or not at all.”
    (The above in the early stages was stated: “Better get used to it, because this is just how I am”)

    1. HG Tudor says:

      By number
      1. Your presence is offending me and I am going to provide you with a silent treatment by leaving.
      2. You have offended me and I am not leaving because this is my kingdom, you can go because you have the means to do so because your mother has provided something for you which can be used. Nobody does anything for me and that infuriates me.
      3. I only do it to get fuel rather than because I genuinely feel a desire to do it and if you are not responding how I want and actually complaining that amounts to a criticism and infuriates me.

      1. The convalescent codependent says:

        Have you ever known your Targets to say similar things, say a codependent? Or do the above statements lean more to the tactic of a Narc, lets say the same person said all 3 statements at different times to the same person?

        I am very curious at communication, especially the Narc. I have read many on your blog to state they have said the same things you have said. I am going to go out on a limb here, but I would assume there is a big difference in presentation or when these statements are said that would give clue to who you are dealing with?

        Say, a codependent may say the above statements after feeling bullied or exhausted from getting no where, where a narcissist would say the above at the slightest upset or things not going her or his way?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Oh yes they trot out the same comments, questions and observations repeatedly. They are bound to do so because I apply similar behaviours against similar people so it is inevitable there will be similar outcomes. There is a difference in presentation and of course whether it is meant or said purely as a device.

  2. Let me stand next to your fire.

  3. 1jaded1 says:

    I still see Devils’ Night in the D. Your words are true true.

  4. nikitalondon says:

    i have not yet 🙏🏻🙏🏻. Not all Ns will burn you

  5. Mm, so true HG

  6. 2mpathetic says:

    Where’s my flame retardant underwear? Hey pretend like your a fire hose. I’ve such a warped mind. I don’t know what’s gotten into me HG. Oh right I went no contact with my Narcissist and miss that phenomenal passion. Just going to have to get it out of my system here…lol.

    1. Miss_stress says:

      Congratulations 2mpathetic, it was wise and right choice for YOU.

  7. Miss_stress says:

    You are on fire, HG…..

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