The Narcissistic Truths No. 8


15 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths No. 8

  1. Violet says:

    You are a narcissist, who hates people he thinks are pretending to be more than they are?
    That would be every narcissist. That would be … you!
    And you don’t want to see people express themselves on a public forum?
    Please. I thought you guys were about logic.
    Who is inferior?

    By the way, I’m experienced at this.

    And Sarah, you’re trying to keep who you are in the context of the conversation with the a-hole. I get it. I sometimes give fuel just for the pleasure of expressing myself freely. Then I walk away feeling happier. That expressed is that which empowers.

  2. AH OH says:

    I have no patience for people. And if I want to make a statement I have this right too. But when one shows ignorance over and over I do have to SMH and think that perhaps they will earn the Darwin Award.
    When one pretends to be something more than they are and it is so transparent, it solidifies my belief there is no GOD.

  3. Snow White says:

    I did everything right at first and then she made a list like yours. I was wrong and stupid. She was right me brilliant. Just like your black and white.

    It did make me picture you as santa with the naughty list. Lol… making a list of all your hoovers for Christmas.

  4. ICGB says:

    I wouldn’t stay to listen to all that babbling nonsense, it’d be unhealthy.

  5. Sarah says:

    Alright, who is doing the meme’s – it’s official – they have identified a consistent pattern that is has constantly “provoked” me for a period of three days duration which is highly abnormal. But this one in particular resonates because it is not FAIR. Now, I know, I know, Narcissist’s don’t care about fair, but how can a relationship of any nature be reciprocal when it is seriously that one sided? I mean 60%-40%? 70%-30%? But it can’t be 100%-0%?

    So HG, please enlighten me, what is the proper mathematical percentage allocation that one should expect in a blame game of comparative fault?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are 110% to blame.

      1. Sarah says:

        Thought Fuel 🙂

    2. AH OH says:

      WTF Sarah. Have you not been reading the blog for a few months now? Do you really have to ask this? Come on now, you are an educated woman, or claim to be.

      1. So Sad says:

        Hello again AH HO .

        Surely if Sarah has a question she’s wants to ask regardless of the time she’s been reading or posting she can ask it ?

      2. Sarah says:

        It is not a fact, Ah Oh…I know that. However, it does not change my emotional feeling of provocation subjectively. I’m still trying to master the knowledge and emotional connection of provocation but figure trade-off for knowledge is fuel for HG of how certain images, words make one feel regardless if they are, or are not, about you.

  6. Kerri Hogue says:

    How do you defend against this? Make yourself busy with something else and walk away? Tell them you can’t stop them from being angry but you can choose not to allow them to belittle you?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      State your position once and then disengage.

      1. MLA - Clarece says:

        Does that wound or ignite fury? If you do that with disengaging do they feel hurt when you’re not grovelling to get their attention to understand?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          it will not wound but it allows you to feel like you have had your stay, protects you from further manipulation and prevents the provision of further fuel by you.

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