The Narcissistic Truths – No. 72

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37 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 72

  1. sr201 says:

    Right on. My ex Narc has always gotten away with most things his whole life. Mind blowing truly!!! πŸ˜’ But there will come a day…. there is always a day πŸ˜ƒ

  2. Adele says:

    I was always blamed when id get upset over certain behaviours. Hed reassure me that it was only me and said i was insecure. I was insecure and with good reasons. The gaslighting mainly his sweet and accomidating nature made it difficult to see i was correct to feel that way. Most narcs are great actors

    1. Becky says:

      Adele, you are so right about the gas lighting!!! It was always just my insecurities showing. My narc even had my own attourney convinced I was crazy for a little bit!! Thank God he finally figured him out and is doing a fantastic job for me now.

  3. Hope says:

    Also, chiming in to offer Congratulations on 2 million plus hits! πŸ™‚

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Hope.

  4. Bloody Elemental says:

    Congratulations HG!!!!! I am doing a happy dance for you and I would not do a happy dance for just anyone so that is a testament to how special you are!

    2 million and counting, though I am not the least bit surprised.

    Keep up the fantastic work – this is only the beginning.

    Thank you for being you.
    xo

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you BE.

  5. DFA says:

    We all pay in some form or another, some will admit to this and some will not.

    Freedom is an illusion we all serve something or someone

  6. 1jaded1 says:

    Congrats on the 2 million hits, HG. The milestone came early. You are edified.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Indeed it did and indeed I am, thank you.

  7. Bloody Elemental says:

    Ah but the catch is, it is not really free.

    You have to pay to get out of jail. You have to pay for us to stay. You have to pay to get the Golden Period back, if you are lucky enough to warrant a repeat visit to that coveted time and place.

    1. 1jaded1 says:

      Since finding HG, what I pay now is pennies on the dollar. Immaterial. If I didn’t find him, I would totally agree, BE.

      1. Bloody Elemental says:

        Jaded,

        I am pleased you have found a sanctuary here and that HGs invaluable insight and superior knowledge is helping you along your journey.

        It is true that the only way to stop owing is to stop investing in the debt.

        Thank god for HG.

    2. Triad says:

      I do believe, and HG please correct me if I’ve got this wrong, but that “Get Out Of Jail Free” card is for us, not for them. It means that we will get away with anything and everything that we have done, and you will always be left with the blame for the consequences of our deeds. This will be true in the eyes of others, as we will see to it, and sometimes even in your own eyes as well.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Indeed Triad and by blaming them we get to use this card repeatedly.

      2. Bloody Elemental says:

        I did not take it that way since our kind does not need a “get out of jail card free” since we are never in the wrong or at fault.

        Only those at fault or in the wrong need a card like that in a lame effort to try and save themselves.

      3. Triad says:

        Quite right, B_E. We have it, but we don’t need it. They need it, most desperately, but they don’t have it. Sounds about right to me.

  8. Forgiven says:

    Does this mean we can escape, or that you are going to put us in jail? I like Boardwalk and Park Ave property.

  9. Seduced says:

    Don’t blame me… I wanted to go….

    on the other side I was repeatedly saying: one day when I will have enough and will need to run away I take my kid’s toy gun and go to bank, pretend to want to rob it, wait for the police just to be put in jail… away from him…safe and free… I will never forget this idea of mine!

    1. noah80 says:

      It is curious that many of us victims prefer to go in the jail (a punishment to ourselves) rather than alienate them and go back to being free and living our own lives. As if the guilt was so deep within us to continue to protect our executioners who are guilty, but not feel it (them free, we in jail).

      1. Seduced says:

        but yet we are free… not even isolated as in jail You work see others… not scared of him coming back from work. .. or entering the bedroom…

  10. 1jaded1 says:

    That’s odd, HG. My card has the same picture but the words are slightly different. The top part has “Escape from Narcatraz” and the bottom part has “BREAK OUT”. It’s the strangest thing.

  11. Sarah Hope says:

    Do you play monopoly, HG?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I win at monopoly Sarah.

      1. 1jaded1 says:

        You cheat at Monopoly, HG.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          And my dear chum?

      2. Sarah Hope says:

        You win at everything, G…

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Correct.

          1. Blue Lips says:

            HG,
            I suggest at the bar tonight you tell that DJ to play All I Do Is Win by DJ Khaled….perfect for covert celebration of your latest accomplishment. They will think it’s about money. We know it’s because you get hit up!! Blue Curacao drinks for everyone! πŸ’™πŸ‘„

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Back from the bar so looking it up on spotify

  12. Sarah Hope says:

    Nice meme! Monopoly is one of my favorite board games…the three light blue properties always win!

  13. Blue Lips says:

    Ha Ha Mr. HG Banker, *cough*cheater*cough*
    How bought we blame it on the night by Calvin Harris (Jacob Plant Remix) or
    Blame it on the a a a a a a alcohol by Jamie Fox? Just don’t blame it on me!

    1. Love says:

      Lol blame it on the aaaaaalcohol!

      Congrats Mr. Tudor on the 2 Million milestone and growing! πŸŽ‰
      Let’s pop open some bubbly!
      As the singer Ne-yo says “Welcome to the champagne life”.

      1. Blue Lips says:

        Crack a bottle, let your body waddle…..

    2. 1jaded1 says:

      Haha Blue Lips…bankster is more like it.

  14. Blog stats : 2,002,702 hits and 22,885 other followers…Congratulations HG…giddy up ! πŸ™‚ <3
    PS…lemme guess…you permanently borrowed / removed that card years ago from the family Monopoly set right ?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Elaine, most kind.

      The card has always been mine.

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