The Narcissistic Truths – No 131



18 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No 131”

  1. Is that the key? The need to be right at all costs? The need to appear perfect and inhuman? To never take responsibility or see fault in oneself?
    Also, can you explain “fuel” better? I don’t understand the point of it. What does it do to you? Why? It seems illogical. It seems like the more difficult path for all involved, including you.

    1. Fuel – read the book that provides more detail Jen and if you ready Fury as well you will understand its purpose. It is not a difficult path, not when you rely on it. In essence fuel powers me, it provides me with the power to maintain the construct. It is all in the books in more detail.

  2. I am having so much trouble soaking this in. Been married to narc 15 years. Hard to grasp that there is no love. After three kids. After watching put on such a show. His tears all fake? So confused.

    1. His tears will have been part of pity plays where he sought to manipulate to get what he wanted (mainly fuel) or instances where his fuel was very low and his “world” was crumbling so that he was weeping for himself.

  3. I assume there is no chance my narc will plead guilty in order to save jail time then? Even facing a life sentence?

  4. Even at the cost of your life, HG? Serious question. Right and Die. Choose. No gaslighting…double talk or shenanigans or highjinx. Right and death or wrong and life? You will not answer this for years, I suppose. Take your time, but I will check in.

      1. I love to be silly actylually. I am a cartoon in real life. HG you will not shut me down by calling me silly, nice manuver. Since this is innocent chat over the internet I can say I enjoy it but I am happy we are an ocean apart. Happy Monday

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