3 Million
Within the hour passed, my blog reached 3 million hits. Naturally, I am proud of this achievement and the growth which continues in this regard. The material provided by me is unique as it provides readers with an understanding of me and my kind in a way that is readily grasped by effectively communicating it in a way which is applicable to your own experiences. By unravelling the way we think and operate I am providing you with a remarkable insight into our inner workings which in turns allows you to apply this information to your benefit, if you so choose. Such quality observations and revelations ought to be spread far and wide in pursuit of my aim of becoming the number one resource for this information and to allow people to take hold of their own recovery and destiny in the most effective way.
In the same way that the narcissist-empathic dynamic is symbiotic, this continued success it predicated on a similar dynamic and thus were it not for the excellence of the information and the excellent readers that read it, this milestone would not have been achieved. I would like to thank my dedicated readers for continuing to read, to welcome the new arrivals and to look forward to yet more joining us. I appreciate your interesting, entertaining and challenging observations and comments. I find our interaction most worthwhile and as you learn from me, I also learn from you. Thank you.
There remains much to share with you in terms of my life, my treatment, how you can seize the power for yourselves and more besides. I have additional insights to give to you about yourselves and why you behave as you do and moreover why this makes you susceptible to us. There is more to uncover about the dynamic between us and I expect to see you there reading.
In terms of what you can look forward to, the following publications will be available in the next two months
- Will He Hoover Me?
- The Sins of the Empath
- Awakened
- The Empathic Strands
- Love and Loathed
With regard to forthcoming articles in the next month you can expect to read the following (in no particular order):
- Series : Five Common No Contact Mistakes
- The Incredible Sulk
- A Very POTUS Narcissist
- Get the Balance Right : How We Manage Our Appliances
- Crumbs of Conversational Comfort
- We Are All Addicts
- A Matter of Expression
- Series: When Narcissists Collide
- Punctuality Is the Politeness of Kings
- The Narcissist and Marriage
- Shards and Splinters
- Being Pro Social
- The Expanded Narcissistic Truths
Keep reading, keep telling others and keep seizing the power!
HG Tudor
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Congratulations H.G.
Thank you soooooo much, you’re helping lots of people, I hope it reaches tons of millions/trillions globally. We need the knowledge…….👍
Keep it coming 🌹
Thank you Ciara.
Congratulations to you for writing such great content and having such great readers like us!! 😉
Looking forward to many of the upcoming topics, especially When Narcissists Collide and The Narcissist and Marriage. Also curious about the “Expanded” Narcissistic Truths.
Cheers.
Thank you Scout.
Fuel or not …HG, you Sir deserve kudos and accolades for your blatant honesty. He who stirs the shit pot …should have to lick the spoon first! Congratulations and thank you!
Thank you Holy Reality.
HG
I came to this blog expecting to hate you and to challenge you at every turn. You ought to know by now that Is not the case. You are educating and empowering people with your beautiful words and brutal truths on a difficult subject with many victims too long hidden in the shadows. The milestone of 3 million is both witness to your success as a brillliant writer and educator and also attests to the need. You are unrivalled in this arena. I will continue to challenge you, share with you, dig for more information about you and your journey, and hopefully amuse you on occasion because we all need that. But hate? Never.
Congratulations
N.A
Thank you NA for reading and participating.
HG you are rocking it! You are obviously working big time at it? And you have one hell of a niche that’s for sure?
I had to be around my mr N for a month recently. I read your books and blogs everyday to keep me on track and treated you As my mentor? During that time mr N asked me what a narcissist was? (Disguised under the whole Trump deal and also because I told him my sisters partner was a N which is true) I told him what all the traits were but he didn’t get it at all?
It was an definitely an interesting time in having the knowledge? And I managed to hold my power for the time!
Anyway, I do believe your work is helping you as much as it is us? I do hope so dear HG? And congratulations!!
Thank you Kathy.
The new upcoming articles sound fascinating! Thank you, HG, for all of your valuable information and for helping us all 🍷🍷🍷 Sometimes words do not express my gratitude enough, but thank you! 🍷🍷🍷
Thank you Claudia, you are welcome.
Congrats HG! I’ve found your site so helpful during this terrible time in my life!! Much thanks to be being honest and giving me insight into my relationship because god knows my N has no honest bone in his body.
Thank you Red Rider and for participating and for reading.
Excellent stuff HG . I look forward to reading your new articles. You provide us with unique and helpful insight and it is much appreciated.
Thank you Ya Dancer, thanks for reading and I do hope that you call out “Ya Dancer” when something hits home.
Every time 🙂
Congratulations and well done.
Thank you Deb for reading and participating.
Congratulations, HG. You’ve taught me also to seize the power. My life is happy again thanks to you. I also continue reading your blog and the comments daily because your articles & interactions are fascinating and intriguing. You are a wealth of knowledge, unbeatable anywhere! Cheers! ~ Hope
Thank you Hopeful4today, thanks for reading and for contributing.
Congratulations Mr. Tudor! May you have millions more! I am looking forward to your new articles and books. I will continue to ponder our symbiotic relationship, questioning who is the host and who is the parasite.
Thank you Love and for continuing to read and participate.
Congratulations HG,🍾 this is by far the best thing I have seen all day.
All the time and work you put into getting this information out to so many, sometime Inreally wish I could covey my emotions into words to show how excited I am for you and what you are doing.
Know this tears and smiles for you!
Enjoy your evening HG and I do hope you are celebrating.
Thank you Twilight and for your continued reading and observations.
Lol 😆 if you only knew where some of my observations led my imagination, your insight thou HG is unattainable and I am grateful your here, the last few days I have not been aware of the emotions behind my thoughts. I come here and read what you have written, it helps when you walk in the twilight. I can’t wait 😊 till you hit 4 million! Before the end of the year…..
Congratulations m8
You’ve been very helpful.
“The Incredible Sulk” sounds like a good article
Thank you Brian for reading and participating. Yes, it will be interesting. Just don’t make the article angry okay?!
ok lol, I wont challenge the article in any way.
*I meant to say looking forward TO the forthcoming books…(typos really annoy me, sorry!)
Ah, a kindred soul… (regarding typos). Sorry, HG. Couldn’t resist. 😉
Congratulations and well done. I am very thankful and grateful for all of the hard work, honesty, and depth of your writing. Looking forward for the forthcoming books and articles. Cheers!
Thank you Free Bird, thank you for reading and participating.
Congratulations HG !! 3 is the magic number !
Some intriguing books and articles coming up. I for one cannot wait !!
Thank you Alexis, thanks for reading and contributing.
HG,
I applaud your achievement and thank you for your help. Without you, I’m afraid I would have made some major future mistakes and would have more than likely not be with the living today. Your information has provided me and many others with guidance and understanding that didn’t exist. I joined when you hit the 2 million milestone, amazing smashing the 3 millionth so quickly. I wish you continued success and all of us, including you, further enlightment.
Thank you Left4dead, I appreciate you reading and contributing.
Please do these in paperback book format not just kindle
I daresay that will happy FFion.
I would encourage you to get your books all in print HG. They will be a necessary requirement for subjects and lectures I believe for the arts, humanity, social sciences, psychology, human development and behaviour and so on…I would certainly use them as the first arm in my own studies and research and further congratulate you on your personal approach and that being the fact that you have taken the time to engage with your readers and take all of those comments into your own learning about us also, has placed you ahead of the Sam Vaknins etc. You are one switched on smart cookie and have given me an appreciation for you as the individual I have tried so much to hate, but cannot because I admire your courage for coming out of the closet so to speak and pray that your fellow narcissists could do the same as validation could be the closure for many hurt or injured by your kind. I continue to support your work and make mention of it in my own progressive journey forward to those who are looking for answers>>>>>>HG Tudor (respectively).
Thank you PRH. I am working on it.
Wow! Congratulations! Your numbers are picking up quite nicely. **pop and fizz** Woo hoo!
I am glad that more and more people are becoming educated about narcissism and sociopathy, it is so needed to survive and thrive in these times. I am ever thankful for being directed here. On the other side of the emotional sea and feeling more and more like me.
My curiosity is piqued with the titles you offer that I have not read yet…Hmmmm, “A Matter of Expression”. Ok, my dear, is this the micro-expressions one?? Tell me you haven’t forgotten or I will have to cry (got the onions just in case).
Ok, Im hooked. Thank you, my narcology dealer. I am Jonesing for some BOOKS!!!!!!! Ok, patience, I know.
Well done!
Indy
Books are on their way and there are many more behind those mentioned so anybody who is wondering about other titles that have been mentioned, they will be published throughout the year, the ones mentioned are closer to completion
As for A Matter of Expression. It is about….you will have to wait and see.
How’s this for a micro-expression! (So small ya cant see it)
That is just plain rude (but it is fuel so I will take it).
You know I was playing! (Taking back the octane of the petro).
HG, congratulations on the 3 million hits. You have helped so many people. Can I ask how the book about ‘the creature’ is coming along? Also, re the intimacy issue – would you consider an in depth article as to WHY ultimately your kind reject it long term. And finally, how to manipulate the narcissist (sorry I know how that sounds) but I like my NPD friend. He’s inspirational. Albeit, I haven’t suffered what many who visit your site have. Many thanks. x
Hello Annes383, thank you. The Creature is in progress. It along with Matrinarc and Little Boy Lost are challenging books to write thus they are taking longer.
I have made a note re intimacy.
In terms of manipulating the narcissist the book Escape deals with that in part with regard to how to deal with some of the manipulations we use. Defender (which is a book) addresses how to co-exist with the narcissist in various scenarios and that manipulation forms part of it.
It is done from a defensive position rather than an offensive one.
Thank you HG. I’ll order them now.
Re ‘The Creature’ – I cannot wait !!!! Xxx.
Why would someone want to co exist with one of your kind if they are healthy people?
Pragmatism. it may be that you have to work with one of our kind or we are a friend.
HG. I can’t find Defender on Amazon?
That is because it is not completed yet Annes383
Congratulations, HG! Impressive accomplishment and so well-deserved! I must say sometimes you make me angry and frustrated but in the end I do love you! 🙂 Looking forward to reading more brilliant works written by your genius.
Thank you IL, anger or love, I will take both. Thank you for reading and contributing.
Congratulations, HG! You are providing us with first class information and insights and giving invaluable advice. You work really hard almost around-the-clock and deserve this success. I continue spreading the word about your work. Thank you!
Thank you EB, I appreciate you promoting me and also for reading and contributing.
Congratulations! That was fast going from 2 to 3 million readers! It must indeed be the excellent content. Chapeau!
Than you Ollie, I appreciate you reading and participating.
Congrats,HG! I am pondering another possible HG tome as I sit and savor my French roast this morning: Hooked and Hung Up On. I still cannot understand how a grown human being( maybe therein lies the answer) can suddenly hang up the phone mid conversation. Just because he feels like it. You people do this all the time. Anyway, thrilled for your success.
Don’t ponder Laurie, dive in. Thank you for reading and contributing. You will understand why we do as we do by keep reading.
God bless you hg!! Reading your brilliant articles has helped me so much. Thank your for your valuable insight!!
Thank you Lizz, thank you for reading and contributing.
Happy, happy day!!! Congrats H.G.! The time has flown! Can’t wait to read those upcoming articles and looking forward to “Awakened”!
There is definitely an “old Clarece” before finding you on 8/31/15 and a “new Clarece” now. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Thank you Clarece, yes it has hasn’t it. Plenty to come as described and more besides. Thank you for your continued contribution and for reading. New Clarece is seizing the power.
Congratulations! When my ex-narc starts his crap or I start to feel sorry for him, it is your words that I think of and it saves me every time. Now I feel like I have an explanation for the things that always puzzled me and that is invaluable. I have to interact with him since we have 2 children but your blog is literally a life saver. Thank you and best of luck achieving your goals!
Thank you MS2017 and for reading and participating. By keeping my words as watchwords to your heart and mind you are seizing the power.
Congratulations, HG! Well done! 😀
Oftentimes, messages are triggering, and we are lashing out at you -the messenger- but I’d like to say that I appreciate what you are doing here. You have helped many of us find their way out of the fog, which is a blessing. There is still much to learn from you and one another, and I am looking forward to it.
Thank you Matilda and I appreciate your contributions and you continuing to read. Indeed they are and that is why it remains an effective way of getting the message across. I understand why people lash out and of course it is just fuel to me. Yes there is much to learn and much to convey.
Congratulations💙
Thank you ABB.
Hope
Good for you! Thank you so much for this! You have no idea how much this has helped me make sense of what I went through. There is a goodness in you compelling you to do this. It’s more than the treatment. I hooe you are being blesed through this process as well and that you find it fulfilling.
Thank you Christine, thank you for contributing and reading.
HG, you are amazing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You’ve changed my life. The sun is shinning once again.
Thank you Khaleesi, thank you for reading and contributing.
🎉🎉🎉👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💪🏻
Ha ah thank you Nikita, good of you to drop in! I know you continue to read.
i do read yes 😃😃😃
There is something alluring about your kind. They are mischievous and dark. Narcissists are so sneaky. This leaves the person interested in investigating them.
Most people are provincial. They get a stable job, kids, and the house etc. The normies talk about their pensions or their vacations lol. Their actions are predictable. It’s the unpredictable that are intriguing.
Congrats on your successful blog! It is helping us to better understand your kind. I tested myself on Narcissism and I scored 19 out of 40.
Thank you for educating the public.
Cheers H G Tutor!
Willow
Thank you Willow for contributing and reading.
Can’t wait!
Dear H.G. ,
I totally agree with this. The value contained in tie information that you have provided is immeasurably useful.
I have read most of what out there ,including Sam Vaknin, but I cannot articulate just how grateful I am for having stumbled upon your site.
I have been doing the back and forth thing with my Narc even after 6 months.
This last time I broke away in 3 months of breaking no contact.
Thanks
Thank you Stephanie and thank you for reading.
WooHoo! Go HG!!
Looking forward to the new material!
Thank you Flickatina and for your ongoing participation.
THREE million HG. Wow.!
Thanks to you we can all seize the power .!
CONGRATULATIONS ..!*!*! .. & well done .
Not So Sad xx
Thank you for reading and participating NSS, it is appreciated.
A sincere congratulations to you HG is in order and your personal touch and commitment to your outstanding dynamic is very much symbiotic and extends far and wide through the pieces fitting together, (Far out a HUGE HUNTSMAN HAS JUST CLIMBED UP THE WALL NEAR MY DESK!) that part is not intended,it is live! Hold on one minute, a large container and a magazine cover is in need……………Okay a few minutes and I even managed to keep it in place whilst I got some pictures! He is now out in the garden! See after narcissists, a large spider is not daunting at all, we get heaps of courage, so thank you HG for explaining the way your kind function and the education that we are receiving is being used in ways that you won’t be aware of and educating others. They say so who is this man HG Tudor, my answer is always, follow him on any of his platforms and you will see and be able to apply the knowledge to your situation and see through every manipulation.
I have already praised you to interested parties and although we may clash or not, you have reason to feel proud of your achievement and to be quite honest I think that you are educating the good doctors on your kind extensively and what more can I say, but you would be extra pleased at how you have spun it around, haha 🙂 Thank you HG!
Thank you PRH.
You’re welcome HG. Keep up the great work and moreso and most importantly, for you, for the inner you 🙂 Well Done, take care.
Brilliant as ever
Thank you Andria, i appreciate you continuing to read.
Congratulations HG, hope you get many more hits and continue to educate us all.
Thanks Ank for reading and contributing.
Congratulations HG!!!
I am proud of you.
You are doing an amazing job here. That number is astounding to me and it shows how many of us have come across one of your kind.
Your knowledge and the way you teach us is empowering. There is no one else out there that I would have been able to learn what I needed from besides you.
For all the good qualities that you say you don’t have, you have many many good ones.
I wish you continued success and I always look forward to your new articles and publications.
I learn something new here every single day.
Thank you SW for reading and contributing too.
You truly are ONE of a “kind” and i appreciate you and congratulate you on a job well done
Thank you Ms Brown, I appreciate you reading and participating.
Congratulations HG! I look forward to reading your new articles.
Thank you Lou for participating and reading.
Congratulations!
This is a very structured approach. I am looking forward to ‘The Incredible Sulk’ most of all; I’ll certainly stick around for that.
Thank you Sunshine, you ought to stick around for plenty more too!
Congratulations to you for the three million hits and to me for having your blog to read and gain from. I look forward to it every day.
Thank you Predatenoriknow, thanks for reading.
HG, I was watching the hits climb last evening and knew today you would reach the mark! Congratulations! Thank you for all you teach! You are an amazing talented writer!! I wish you much success in the future!! With the utmost respect to you for the courage to expose to us the inner workings of your kind and exposing your hurtful past!! Here is to number 4! 🍻 😘💕xxx
Thank you FM1T.
HG do you think you will ever be well ? Ever love as honestly as your victims have truly loved you ?
I feel perfectly well as it is Jojometoo. I do not know how to love in the way that my victims have loved me.
Well done ! Keep up an excellent work Mr Tudor , looking forward to the future publications of yours. Thank you for your hard work we all benefit from.
Thank you abrokenwing.
Wow, that is impressive and sad all at once. To think there are so many of us out there in this pain, living in the shadows, hiding our scars behind fake smiles and autopilot. Thanks again, HG for the help you provide towards our recovery and healing no matter your motivations it is an invaluable resource. <3
Thank you Katanon666
Congrats😊and to a 3 Million more🍸
Thank you Tink the Belle.