The Narcissistic Truths – No. 207


37 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 207

  1. noah80 says:

    I can read this in both the sense. Narcissist change the things that he told just to makes prey crazy. And maybe he/she is bored by prey’s constant attentions that that he/she still feels like not enough. (Isn’t it?)
    But also the pray can say something like that in methaforical terms because he/she dreamed and believed and wanted love, not what he/she really found.

  2. Overthinker says:

    When you use the term “somatic” what do you mean? I know the word means relating to the body… However I don’t understand in relation to a narcissist… x x

    1. HG Tudor says:

      See Sitting Target Overthinker.

  3. indiglowsky says:

    What’s with this strawberry ice cream obsession?
    I believe I understand the meme(never happy or satisfied when given something, even just to get a rise when you are pleased with the gift, right?), just noticed you have a strawberry theme LOL!!

  4. I like vanilla ONLY if I can add all kinds of various goodies to mix in with it. 🍧🍦🍚 But, I do not like a plain bowl of vanilla ice cream without the added extras…lots of added extras…all throughout it, in every single bite. Then, yes.

  5. Laurie says:

    Dogs. Much better than people.

  6. NarcAngel says:

    Whine, whine….now you sound like an Empath.
    Anything but vanilla.

  7. 1jaded1 says:

    That’s why I let people order their own ice cream. I’ll even give them the money. I get the point that your change of preference is to keep us guessing.

    Btw…what’s with the cake and ice cream metaphors? Some people can resiist them.

  8. Hurt says:

    Me: But just last week you said chocolate is your favorite.
    Him: I never said that. You just never listen. I think you have something wrong with your ears

  9. sarabella says:

    This has nothing to do with the meme. Can you tell me? Narc is a DJ. Hence, music and controllimg the vibe of a room, right? Has a really sensual, sexy voice but he looks like a faded narc, but his voice…. I asked him to record a story for me, tell me something of his life back in December. In his IG account he has never done a video with himself talking. Only 2 comedy routines with a cousin 2 years ago. Since I asked him to record a sory, which then led to a fight and another round of blocking, he has recorded FOUR solo skits in the past 2 months. He has never, ever done this. Is this possibly a hoover? How do I know its for me? or coincidence? I have left social media, but I wonder why so many videos suddenly?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Possibly malign.

      1. sarabella says:

        And malign in its simplest is a way for you to put out that you are aware of us but doing so in a way that causes us pain? So, he would possibly be doing that to ‘show’ himself to me, present his voice, but do it in a way that would imply it has nothing to do with me? A way to give me what I wanted, knowing I could see it on the web, while pretending it had nothing to do with me? Another way to ignore me while not ignoring me?

  10. Whatever they want will change upon receipt of what you thought they wanted. I would do what they wanted only to have them tell me it was wrong and then overhear them telling someone else that I did the right thing because they told me to do it. Huh? Years wasted trying to figure out what they wanted before they said something. Or doing two things in advance so either way I’d be right. Exhausting, even just typing it.

    1. Jazzyjoys2 says:

      Same here,so confusing

  11. Notavictim says:

    are all “sex addicts” really just somatic narcissitcs?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I would say that most are but there may be those who are addicted to sex who would not meet the criteria for NPD – for example someone who is empathic. You may have someone who is single and engages in swinging, use of prostitutes, one night stands and therefore is not being unfaithful and is pleasant to those he interacts with and caring, but he just has an addiction to sex in its various forms.

      1. 🍭🍭🍭

  12. Jen says:

    You’re such a baby!!

    1. Awwwwe baaaaaby; so cute!

  13. Insatiable Learner says:

    HG, is this when the primary source’s fuel becomes stale?

    1. HG Tudor says:


  14. AH OH says:

    Me too!

    1. AH OH, glad you are “done”. I did not change my name, rather I closed down that last WordPress account because I put down some information about the last Narc, and his entire troop-collection that I did not want him, and his Lieutenant, to know from whence it came. I cannot say much more about it because I still do not want to be harassed by them. The Lieutenant has been known to follow me on here, and report back to the Narc, and all the other troop participants, which are many.

      Indeed, I am glad you are “done” because you judge without asking, or finding out the facts, first. This, I do not need from you amongst all my troubles I have had with this last Narc and his vicious troops. This is why I am even on this blog site is for the support from others who understand, and for Mr. T’s informative articles, books, and feedback, all of which help me to take the whip, and chair, to hold back these vicious Claudia-eating 🦁 lions.

      1. AH OH says:

        Than do not post, just read what HG’s writes. Engage with him privately, pay for consultations. To say your narcs are on here trolling you and you still post, is down right crazy. I do not want to engage with you as your narcs and their minions might target me thinking I am your friend. Sorry, do not need the drama.
        I have watched you change your name numerous times and I have watched you go off the deep end. I do not know of any one who would want to put up with this, even a narc would toss you aside. You are too broken. I hope that somehow you find peace and calmness in your life.
        I really do not care what you call yourself. I will take the stand to call you crazy. Batshit crazy.

    2. I do not care what you think of me, AH OH, or what you call me. And, you need not be my friend. I have been called so much worse by my mother, and hated so much more by her, than what you could say to even begin to faze me on here.

      You can judge all you wish because as human beings, we all tend to do so. But, I have learned not to take other people’s comments to heart because I am definitely on a place where I am deeply triggered due to the subject matter. But, the thing is, I am learning a lot on here, too. And, I will not allow the Narcs and their trolls to keep me from being where I wish to be for learning purposes. They will not run my life.

      I do not think that anyone can make it out of this life without some brokenness in the process. I agree that I am broken due to the horrific abuse of my upbringing and the subsequent Narcissists, thereafter. I do not deny this. But, I am not “too” Broken. This is where I disagree with you. For everything I have been through, in which you have not even the slightest idea, some consider me very strong, and inspiring, to even still be alive. And, not only am I alive, but I am thriving in my own life, apart from what others see here. People who do not know me on this blog regard me as Sweet, Kind, Caring, Passionate, and incredibly Loving. You can debate what I say here all you want, but I know differently, and so do many others who know me in person.

      I have put up with much abuse and insanity from others, and I am not about to let an “AH OH” change my mind on what I do, or how I think… Perhaps, in person, it is YOU who is: πŸ¦‡πŸ’©πŸ˜œ, but on this blog you keep it together, whereas on this triggering blog, I am πŸ¦‡πŸ’©πŸ˜œ, but in person, I keep it together.

      Again, I am beyond caring about your opinion of me, AH OH. You said what you just said, anyway, because you were angry that I had a very good reason for closing down my previous WordPress Site, and it embarrassed you to realize that you were in the wrong for judging me in the first place; hence your next response which was to simply put me down.

      It is not your business as to whether I consult privately with HG, or not. I know you have said in the past that you get jealous of HG’s attention on here and how you wish the attention was all on you, and that the commenters were all doting on you, but that’s just too bad, cuz there’re not.

      1. Ah Oh,

        I do, in fact, hope that Narcissists do not want me because after 15 yrs with a Histrionic Narcissist in whom got sent to prison, and once he got out, begged me to return to him- (he ended up passing away), and then the normal 7 yr relationship I had with a wonderful man who loved me intensely- (who passed away of kidney disease), and then the Somatic Narcissist in whom I discarded, and is still Hoovering me to this day, I can honestly say that you speak words which have no foundation to them.

        Yes, this site triggers me due to past Narcissist abuse, and I get wound up, is true. I can act crazy. But, in person, I am calm, loving, passionate, and very caring. Yes, πŸ¦‡πŸ’©πŸ˜œ is sometimes the rhythm of the after- effects of all the abuse, but I can assure you that I hold down a job, keep my own “bought & fully paid for” house immaculate, and enjoy a very rewarding social life. I also have had several of my writings published in my legal name, which is not the name I use on here, or in my email addresses, due to my wanting to stay anonymous.

        This site does help me in so many ways and Mr. Tudor has helped me a great deal, and I have paid for his very therapeutic email consultation in the past.

        I will not hold out a convenient sign for the abusers to see where I am at, nor do I prefer for them to know precisely what I am doing in my life, but I also will not deny myself from being on a blog that has helped me so much just because of these Narcissists, and their troops, scouting out my whereabouts. I have mentioned no names, nor have I stated their organizations, so I have no need to be sleeping with one eye open. And, quite frankly, though I still have so much in my life I want to accomplish, I am not afraid of death, nor have I ever been. But, I also do not want the inconvenience of the harassment from them, if I can avoid it. My name changes are my business, as well as Mr. T’s business, and I did not change my name except for when I closed out my WordPress site due to some information I willingly posted on another thread so that my “Claudia” name would not be associated so openly with what I wrote about the Narcissist’s Organization, and then in reopening this new WordPress site, I resubmitted my “Claudia” name, once again.

        I wrote this new reply because I am not certain if my other reply went through, or not. I hope they both get published because I would certainly like to defend myself against your faulty judgements you said against me. But, at the same time, I will not be shaken whether you get my response, or not, because the words you typed were done so out of ignorance.

      2. AH OH says:

        Take your meds.

    1. ng27 says:

      Idk what this is, but it made me laugh lol

      1. AH OH says:

        Strawberry Pancakes!

      2. ng27 says:

        How do I find them?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Find what ng27

      3. AH OH says:

        On your bicycle, ride into town! They will be there.

    2. I like chocolate chip pancakes πŸ₯ž! Dark chocolate chips! The darker the chocolate, the better. 🍫

      1. AH OH says:

        You changed your name again? I am done.

  15. Dr. Harleen Quinzel says:

    That meme just reminded me of this scene…πŸ˜‚

    She just wanted ballerina Barbie!

    1. Debbie says:


Vent Your Spleen! (Please see the Rules in Formal Info)

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Next article