21 thoughts on “Heart Hooks No. 1 – Narc Sayings of Seduction”

  1. Welcome back HG!!!
    Always miss you when you are busy.
    I am looking forward to this series. I am sure I will recognize each one.

    In the beginning my ex put it on me to define and describe our relationship. To me we were just friends and hanging out more and more. I didn’t understand her pressuring me with
    “What are we”
    “We aren’t normal”
    “What am I to you”
    “Describe us”
    I was often frustrated in trying to explain something so simple as friendship to her.
    And as often as you point out that TV and books show us unrealistic relationships and love I found Meredith and Christina from Grey’s Anatomy as the perfect example for me. And I then went on to think of us as soulmates. I thought there was a connection unlike anything else.
    She must have loved that and ran with soulmates and it progressed to her saying that “I was the love of her life”
    To me it was innocent and to her it was just like you said: A HOOK
    I have a feeling these are going to bring out a lot of emotions for me.
    Great job

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  2. Hmm…i have no soul; so you say you have none either. Maybe there is something to this mirroring thing. Btw. Belated April Fool Day. That was the day of N2 and my first date….22 fn years ago and that’s no fn joke. He texted me to remind me. I didn’t forget either but I didn’t respond. We were even in the same town. I saw his vehicle. Closer to graduation from this nonsense. I wish to believe it.

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  3. Are you completely honest on this blog? Color me dumb…I have a question. From your absence I’ve been learning your wisdom in avenues i wouldn’t…everyone learns differently. I have a challenging question. I do not wish to criticize, especially since you have helped me. So you say some people who visit your site are narcissists. If they asked you wouldn’t tell them? Wouldn’t that not be honest? The question bores in the back of my brain matter…I think I am one of your kind….in your opinion, am I? You can be honest. I reapect you. Why am I or not?

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    1. Those who ask never are. The very small number which have appeared here never ask the question because they do not have any awareness of what they are.

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