Hahaha yes, I’ve heard this one so many times ! It just makes me laugh. That along with, ‘it’s only ever been you’.
I’m always messing him around now, agreeing to meet, then changing my mind. Agreeing to him buying a gift then deciding I don’t want it anymore. It’s just a constant cycle and I love it.
The most recent occasion. He complained that I’m always changing my mind. I agreed And I asked him, “if you know I always change my mind, why do you keep trying?” His response, “in the hopes that one day you won’t, because I love you and I always have”
Haha, gotta admire the persistence. But I know what he really means – I want to punish you so fucking badly and I won’t stop until I can !
Exactly what he used to say every single time after returning. Especially if pressed for explanations for his absence and cheating. Almost like an excuse or way out of accountability. …. but you know i love you and always have. HG have you ever used this on your victims after returning into their lives post discard/escape and when they confronted you about your behavior?
My narc just said this the other day. Verbatim. It is uncanny how similar they all are. (I escaped…but still am in contact, fighting the head vs. heart battle)
Please use your head..he texted me last night and brought my late dad into it . normally, that’s an automatic response. Nope to this. I am.SO angry, though.
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Is this a poppy field? Thinking of Wizard of Oz and the poppies and the sleeping snow…
I actually said that first. I always told him ‘I love you… always have, always will.’
Little did I know I was looking into a mirror. 🙂
Hahaha yes, I’ve heard this one so many times ! It just makes me laugh. That along with, ‘it’s only ever been you’.
I’m always messing him around now, agreeing to meet, then changing my mind. Agreeing to him buying a gift then deciding I don’t want it anymore. It’s just a constant cycle and I love it.
The most recent occasion. He complained that I’m always changing my mind. I agreed And I asked him, “if you know I always change my mind, why do you keep trying?” His response, “in the hopes that one day you won’t, because I love you and I always have”
Haha, gotta admire the persistence. But I know what he really means – I want to punish you so fucking badly and I won’t stop until I can !
Variation- “I’ve always liked you.”
In this case, “like” was meant as a high school/college “like” which implies love interest.
I loved him too.. still do for some stupid reason. I always will and that is what hurts. I gave it all, he took it and used me.
Dammit…..LOL
Exactly what he used to say every single time after returning. Especially if pressed for explanations for his absence and cheating. Almost like an excuse or way out of accountability. …. but you know i love you and always have. HG have you ever used this on your victims after returning into their lives post discard/escape and when they confronted you about your behavior?
I’ve used it at the outset of seduction.
Boo…
Thank you. Seduction of a new or recycled victim HG?
A new victim, The Bride.
It looks like she is blind to the bird shit and thorns to come. Sad.
It is sad, ABB. Your interpretation makes perfect sense.
…we met in high school, so it sort of made sense.
Yeah, me too. High school. He all but said it, implied, but me? it was always true. He used it as a con and didnt mean a thing.
If you hear this….run for your life.
My narc just said this the other day. Verbatim. It is uncanny how similar they all are. (I escaped…but still am in contact, fighting the head vs. heart battle)
Please use your head..he texted me last night and brought my late dad into it . normally, that’s an automatic response. Nope to this. I am.SO angry, though.