Adored and Abhorred
Learn more about the narcissistic mind set and why you are up on the pedestal one moment and in the dust the next
UK https://www.amazon.co.uk/Adored-Abhorred-H-G-Tudor-ebook/dp/B01CPMWFQ2
US https://www.amazon.com/Adored-Abhorred-H-G-Tudor-ebook/dp/B01CPMWFQ2
CAN https://www.amazon.ca/Adored-Abhorred-H-G-Tudor-ebook/dp/B01CPMWFQ2
This book took me through the journey of how his toxic mind placed me first on a pedestal to finally hate me.
Specially two chapters were of main interest:
Why must it hurt
It explains why the fuel becomes stale regardless how much the “victim” tries to improve the situation:
“Since I am wired to seek out instant gratification, even the most wonderful sensations soon pale to me. I am not built for the long-term, I have no desire for longevity. ” HG Tudor.
The Volunteer
How the “victim” finds a lot of excuses to “cloth” the terrible abuse.
” You clothe the abuse in these excuses seeking to make the abhorrent behaviour seem more acceptable” HG Tudor
Another journey through their toxic logic!
Reading this book was a real scary adventure!
A must read book for gaining more awareness!