The Rules of Ex Club – No. 6


10 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 6

  1. Nat says:

    Oh I understand this one much too well…

    If you’re not wearing high hills often enough – she surely had them all the time.
    If you don’t want to make sex 3 times a day, she did it willingly 5 times a day.
    If you don’t wear stockings all the time, she loved them.
    If you don’t feel like cleaning windows at his mother’s house, she did it 3 times a year and that’s why they loved her so much.

    That was one of the most cruel parts of my nightmare. Not just because it was about the ex, but also about the girl he triangulated me with. That’s just the game they play. I still wonder how much of that was true.

    1. Missypalooza says:

      My ex did this to me AND he did it to the woman he dated after me. When they got into a fight, he tried to hoover me back and I contacted her on MySpace (back in the day) to tell her what a POS he was and what he was doing. She didn’t want to hear it but I gave her my number and told her she knew where to find me if she ever wanted to talk. A few months later, he discarded her and we had a blast comparing notes. She was still sad but I know talking with me helped her a lot throughout her No Contact period and also helped my healing as well, plus I got a great new friend out of it! She told me he talked about me so much she felt like she already knew me, which I told her was SO funny because he did the exact same thing about his last ex when I dated him. She was delighted to hear that not only did we have a TERRIBLE sex life (he’d bragged about how great it was), he had also GROSSLY exaggerated my cooking ability (“this is ok but why can’t you make Italian food like MISSY does? This isn’t the same, she was such an amazing cook…” he’d say to her. “Hysterical!” I told her, because the reality is that I’m a one dish wonder, lasagna is the ONLY thing I cook, and I avoid the kitchen like the PLAGUE. I’m a HORRENDOUS cook!). I told her, if it makes her feel any better, now SHE would be the annoyingly “perfect” ex girlfriend he won’t shut up about. 😜

  2. DebbieWolf says:

    The more we refuse the more they push…

  3. MLA - Clarece says:

    This visual is rather disturbing to me and I’m trying to figure out why because you’ve had way worse ones.

    1. Sues423 says:

      I have to agree with you. It’s uncomfortable to look at. My first thought was that it depicts a demeaning/degrading of a sexual nature.

      I kind of don’t really want to admit that thatbuscehatbi see but I do. 😶

      1. Sues423 says:

        I sware I hate typing on my phone!!! Lol

        *but that is what I see

    2. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

      It reminds me of something inappropriate

      Maybe it’s just me lol

      Could be my mind in the gutter

  4. Sues423 says:

    Hi HG,
    I am not completely sure how to understand this one. Can you give me an example?
    Thank you

    1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

      How much the IPPS refuses to do shit and not comply ……that amount is how willing the ex was and how compliant they were


      The IPPS refuses to do something he would say oh my ex wows fine with this and that …

      1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

        I think? Lol

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