The Rules of Ex Club – No. 24

THE EX THAT SEEKS ANSWERSFROM US

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10 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 24”

  1. HG,

    how a Mid-Range narc can react to this situation:

    He is with one girl from work for 2 months. She is in love. But he finds her friend from work better so he wants this other girl. He triangulates, seduces this friend while devaluing current girlfriend. The girlfriend has enough and errupts with anger, breaks up with him, blocks him on social media and in the jaelous act unfriends the friend who is about to steal her narc.

    Od cours this is a massive doze of fuel for him. His girlfriend acts like crazy because it’s not a silent break up, ahe wants the world to see that her narc and her friend have done something really wrong and that hurts her. She plays victim betrayed by a friend and a boyfriend. What narc would do? They all work together. It’s obvious he would like to keep a good guy facade but on the other hand he wants her friend…

  2. That’s an insteresting eye color…
    Looks like Wilson’s disease, the yellow ring around the pupil. Copper excess I believe. It can and does cause psychopathy as one of the symptoms

      1. Yes. My question is not how we are portrayed to others, but how you, the narcissist, would perceive us.

        If we ask questions, we are considered an obsessive stalker, but if we don’t then what do you think of us? Say, we do not question what your reasoning was to leave us (if we are the ipps).

        Also, do you ever come back once you know that we are not in pain anymore? And therefore will ask less questions about the breakup.

      2. If we have a new IPPS and you do not ask why we left etc it is not a concern because we are focussed elsewhere.

        Yes, we return.

  3. I don’t get why my narc hasn’t blocked me off email. I blocked him. I told him to block me because I realised his disorder and he simply responded “blocked”. I assume this means disengaged because I have wounded. But it’s not complete discard. Am I right HG?

  4. I can’t stop laughing at this one – I am sure that is exactly what she is told.

    She should open her eyes…

    Look at the facts.

    And take care of herself. No one else will.

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