The Narcissist’s Social Media Laws – No. 7

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This is not a meme – it is the truth.

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7 thoughts on “The Narcissist’s Social Media Laws – No. 7”

  1. wasn’t getting any of your articles on my facebook for months..I don’t know why? But they are back again…don’t know why!

  2. Ahhhh social media bullshit. My MRN has not posted anything on social media in months. (think the article about the “social media ghost ship”.
    I am starting to wonder if he has “filtered” me on not seeing his stuff since he is usually such an attention whore on social media. But then I keep referencing your articles where it says that you WANT us to see what you are doing. (I have not been blocked).

    I shared how the IPPS is pregnant. I am shocked as anything that she is about halfway through the pregnancy now (based on when he told me the news) and there has not been any social media announcement about it yet. Compared to his usual attention seeking it is just odd. The IPPS’ page shows an occasional comment asking her “how are you feeling?” The IPPS “likes” the comments but replies to none of them.

    All of it is just so odd compared to past behavior. Often makes me wonder if he has double or triple lives somewhere else and has a reason for keeping quiet all of a sudden and not posting like he usually does for attention.

  3. HG
    If people don’t answer messenger og text messages, then reminding them that they have not answered our question, is equal to setting boundries? or pushing their boundries as they don’t want to answer?

    Uptill now I have accepted others when they ignored me, thinking that it is ok if they don’t want to answer but I am not happy with my behaviour.

    1. It will be Challenge Fuel because you will provide some emotion with the question (or demand) and we perceive your request/demand that we answer as offending our sense of entitlement that we need not answer and also offend our lack of accountability by your trying to make us accountable for not answering you. We will perceive it as you trying to control us also and therefore this rebellious behaviour on your part must be quashed so we assert our superiority once more.

      1. Thanks HG
        I remember that my narc replied my questions if i asked twice but very difused answers and not what i was hoping for. Sometimes he waited so long (with no reply) that i would give up which i did. Next day was a new day anyway.

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