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Interesting post, HG.
We don’t talk about her to anyone anymore. We figure that anyone bringing her up is not to be trusted and is probably reporting back to her. It will be 3 years soon since my husband went full NC, except for when he has no choice about being in the same place as her but even then there is nothing…no greetings, nothing. He doesn’t talk to her or react to her attempts to get his attention.
There’s one friend who was (maybe still is, we are not sure) very close to the narcissist. This is the person she never fails to mention my husband to, and I believe she only stays in contact with this person to both try to get information about my husband, and to try to pass information to him in an effort to hoover him. Last week she told this person that she was going to stop seeing someone she’s been dating for about two years. The reason: she wants to keep her options open in case my husband isn’t happy and wants to get back together. I know that this was meant to be passed on to my husband and I know she is trying to provoke a reaction. She’s not going to get one, and I seriously doubt she’s going to dump her boyfriend, either. He appears to be quite easy to control, which is her thing. I suppose she could be bored with him.