The Expanded Narcissistic Truths – No. 1
The heart of an empath is treasured by our kind. Whilst our own hearts are black and iced, the heart of the empath radiates with fuel. It is capable of love, desire, admiration, compassion, concern, hurt and so many other emotions which radiate from it. The empathic heart is a veritable fuel pump and as such is coveted by us. It has so much more to it than that which we have in our hearts. We are envious of this but recognise how such a heart is there to serve us and cater for our needs.
You, as an empathic individual, also have one further major difference between your heart and ours.
Yours is free.
Your heart is free to choose who it engages with. Who it falls in love with, who it wishes to show joy to, who it wishes to share its innermost desires and secrets with. It is free to show its pain to those that it chooses.
We are jealous of that freedom. Our desire to receive the bountiful fuel which is pumped from you by this delicious heart brings with it our desire to capture it and prevent you exercising this freedom any further.
Our dark hearts are bound to the venom that flows through us, to the vitriol which we spray over those around us and the adherence to hatred, envy, fury and other such dark emotions. Our hearts know no such freedom like yours. The nature of our hearts is that they are pre-ordained in how they will function.
In capturing your heart for the purposes of fuel, we also desire to capture your heart to take away this freedom that you have and the absolute method of removing this freedom is to bring about the effective ‘death’ of your heart.
We are insidious agents, proponents of the salami-slicing approach which enables us to secure our aims through a thousand deft and delicate cuts so that you never notice what is actually happening. We are no different in this modus operandi when it comes to the ‘killing’ of your heart. The death of your heart is effected through the removal of its freedom.
Each and every day we advance our cause to gain fuel and to secure the bondage of your heart, little by little, as we strip it of its freedom. Through the dazzling love-bombing we invade it, taking it piece by piece so that it belongs to us. We permeate your life through our compliments, our apparent love, our fabricated passion for you, our illusory desire as you are gradually over run and conquered. With each passing day as we unleash our charm on you, our legions of text messages, our battalions of telephone conversations and the marching foot soldiers of love, we take a piece of your heart and capture it. Thus a part of it has effectively ‘died’ since it has lost that free will.
Of course, entirely consistent with the notion of romance that you have been indoctrinated with, the capture of your heart in such a way is regarded as a wonderful thing. You are regarding this capture as one which is healthy, respectful and you do not recognise that it has been predicated on a false premise.
Once we have you embedded your heart is ours. It has been captured. You no longer are afforded the choice of where your emotions can be directed. They must be directed towards us and us alone for the purposes of our fuel provision. The onslaught continues as having captured your heart, we then set about our scorched earth approach through devaluation as our despicable manipulations and horrid machinations are deployed against you for the purposes of maintaining the occupation of your heart and the total hegemonic control of its emotional output.
We captured the good – the love, the admiration, the compassion, the happiness, the joy and so forth.
Now we capture the bad – the pain, the hurt, the fear, the terror, the hatred and all other negative emotions.
Little by little, day by day, we invade your heart and occupy it, making it ours, commandeering its emotional resources for our own use and in so doing we strip away its ability to function in a free manner.
The removal of this freedom is how your heart dies when you are with us.
This happens on a daily basis as we slowly cause your heart to ‘die’ through our polluted control of you.
10 thoughts on “The Expanded Narcissistic Truths – No. 1”
SM is not black or white, she’s grey – like the colour your creature is turning.
You don’t feel it, you see it in the mirror like an x-ray of nonchalant words (from matrinarc) etching themselves onto your bones, disappearing just as quick as they arrive from your frantic ego eraser.
The repercussions of abuse.
Is it that this blog might be the most important (and last attempt) hoover of your life, trying to find and get a rise/response from someone who went NC/AWOL and escaped you? Maybe you think her GOSO is definitely real and final – with no hope in sight of a future successful hoover, after leaving ‘no stone unturned’ machination-wise?
And I know I’ve said something similar, but all this would then also be (although secondary factor to the ‘prize’) a triangulation. It’s not that I’m trying to include us again as a way of taking a dig at you because we gain from your works. This is about you. The you you. And not just the blog either. The creature inside doesn’t share.
This would then make the 5 rules that are followed perfectly true and valid, without room for debate.
How very elaborate of you.
bandage, I don’t sell
It is true, the heart of the empath is captured and mistreated, it is carried almost to its exhaustion. That is the word. The empath and his heart are carried to exhaustion and it is in this exhaustion that the empath ceases to function for the narcissist. The narcissist throws both mercilessly into the garbage like kleenex. But it is also no less true that miraculously and to the surprise of the narcissist, this heart worn, worn, cracked, cracked and broken but not dead, with patience is again recycled, rebuilt, repaired, rebuilt and recovered. With the application of correct zero contact, commendable instruction, training and literacy on this disorder by the hand of the teacher of teachers. H.G.
Although some of my comments may seem harsh, I have to congratulate you, as you really go unnoticed for your great effort and willpower in trying as much as possible to recover and reduce your fuel. Not only writing these wonderful post, videos, but your excellent clarifications to our doubts, lightening our weight.
I recognize that this must be an over-human, and titanic effort for you.
And for this reason I encourage you to continue taking steps on this path. You are not alone.
On the other hand, many of us are beginning the narcissistic path or on the contrary ending it through your understanding and acceptance. In order to finally realize a correct definitive closing.
You will be remembered, I assure you because, Paradoxically, a narcissistic hand wounded our hearts leaving them agonizing. But another narcissistic hand took care of them, sold them, disinfected them, and like birds lifted them up and set them free again.
And this is your greatness, that with your effort and determination there is a change and you are changing.
My most sincere admiration and gratitude to you, even if you are not reminded of this very often. And I believe I am not mistaken that this thought is not only mine but of all its readers.
It is unfortunate that you do not have emotional empathy, to feel my words.
bandage, no, sold
The pictures of Shieldmaiden, along with the extravagant dining and travel on IG would then indeed be real – just not of our present time. They signify memories of past that was yours, too, not just hers and how dare what you own be broken.
Thanks SJ. I had thought the same thing! That’s the only thing that could logically make sense, otherwise it’s sounding a bit too fishy for my liking. But then…. I’m just an Empath.