Scenting Blood



In our engagement with our appliances and especially with our primary sources, we are repeatedly seeking to extract fuel. We have been designed to draw those fuel providers into our grasp, from the colleagues that we work with, the relevant family members and friends so that rather than surround ourselves with appliances of limited function we ensure that all those who are attached to us are likely to provide us with fuel. As I have explained before, we like to preserve our energy and operate in an efficient and effective fashion. As part of that approach we like to ascertain if we can scent fuel in our interactions with you, in the same way that a shark smells blood in the ocean and knows that a bigger prize awaits. There are certain responses that you provide that immediately tell us that there is more fuel ready to be extracted. Just as how a tiny nick on your leg may cause droplets of blood to fall and be smelt by the predatory shark, there are certain things that you will say to us that tells us that we should dive straight in and seize the advantage. There are comments that you will make which indicates to us that you are holding a reservoir of fuel just under the surface and all we need to do is slice you open and gorge on that waiting fuel. Your response tells us that your emotion is there, just a few moments away from being extracted, seized and gathered, so that rather than attend to something else we are best served by focusing our efforts on you.

It is akin to staring at a vast body of water behind a glass partition. We want that body of water to come gushing forward, engulfing us and cascading over us. We do not wish to dedicate the time to hammering away at this toughened glass in the hope of eventually making it crack. We do not want to expend our energy chiselling and drilling but instead we want to find the weak spot. We want to identify that flaw, that weakness, that opening, which means that with the careful application of pressure, the edifice will shatter and the water will come surging over us in an instant. You are no different. You are filled with fuel. That is why we chose you. You might be a co-dependent super tanker of fuel that requires the hull to be holed, you may be a super empathic fuel well which just needs to be drilled or an empathic fuel pump where one pinprick in the hose will allow the fuel to spurt out. You are a walking fuel depot and at times we can do just one thing, say one thing and the fuel will come fountaining from you, shooting out of you, gushing from you, ready for us to suck it all up, gorging on your delicious and potent fuel and drinking deep of your vast resources.

It is you that gives us the indication that you are ready to flow with fuel, that the dam can easily be breached and once you provide that indication to us, it only takes a small amount of pressure, a modicum of application and the most straightforward of manipulations to cause you to burst and we gain so much fuel. You are teetering on the brink of providing the fuel, it is almost spilling over there is so much of it and you tell us that it is there, often in just one sentence and then we apply the pressure and the geyser erupts.

These indications are applicable to both positive fuel and negative fuel. The comments in themselves will provide some slight amount of fuel but they are indicators, gateways telling us that in that moment there is a whole host of additional fuel ready to be tapped and it is easy to do so. This is why when you provide us with the positive indicators we dive in and invite you to expand on the point that you have made, the comments that you have shared because we know that there is more behind what you have said and we want it. It becomes even more evident when with the negative indicators. These really are a green light for us to satiate our fuel lust in the way that a pugilist would satisfy his bloodlust. You have waved the key in front of us through your comment and we will focus on that comment and what it signifies in order to get at the fuel that is hoarded behind it.

Should you say them to us you should be aware that you have just telegraphed that there is fuel to be gained and whatever we might have been doing will be forgotten as we turn and fix our eyes on you. Like the cruising shark, the scent of blood has been detected and easy and satisfying prey is well within reach. Our cold jaws will be clenched around you as we puncture you and begin to slurp on the surfeit of fuel. What then are these indicators, what should you be aware of what is it that you say which tells us that there is fuel ready and waiting to be extracted, exploited and consumed?

The Positive Indicators

  1. I love you
  2. How did you manage to do that?
  3. There is nobody like you.
  4. Where did you get that shirt from?
  5. That was amazing.
  6. That is an outstanding result.
  7. I could listen to you talk for hours.
  8. I could kiss you forever.
  9. I would die for you.
  10. I cannot imagine being anywhere else right now other than with you.
  11. I have finally found what I have been searching for.
  12. If I died now, it would not matter.
  13. I don’t know what I would do without you.
  14. I would do anything for you.
  15. I belong to you.

The Negative Indicators


  1. Where have you been?
  2. I hate you right now.
  3. Don’t leave me.
  4. Why must you hurt me like this?
  5. Who is she?
  6. I just need to feel loved.
  7. I miss you still.
  8. Is that it?
  9. What about me?
  10. You are being unfair.
  11. Please listen to me.
  12. Don’t shout at me.
  13. I don’t understand.
  14. Please talk to me.
  15. Please stop.
  16. I need to sleep.
  17. Please be reasonable.
  18. It is my birthday.
  19. Please, for my sake, just do it.
  20. You are scaring me now.

Let the feeding frenzy commence.

10 thoughts on “Scenting Blood

  1. Joanne says:

    Yes, you’re right. This is a true “be careful what you wish for” scenario. After all, who wants to be a gushing fuel pump, and honestly, I just don’t think I’d be ABLE to do it even if I wanted to.

  2. Joanne says:

    There is this strange part of me that really would like another chance with him to test the theory of better fuel provision to see if it would change the outcome, to see if he would have kept up his pursuit and golden period longer. Obviously I won’t actually do this but I can’t help but wonder.

    1. shesaw says:

      Joanne, even if you would get that chance and test your theory, chances are that you will find that you don’t even want to be a fuel provision source anymore, because you are no longer the same you!

  3. Roti says:

    Hg tudor
    Your work is brilliant as you do. I’ve already read all blogs that written by you. But I’m dealing with my narcissist he is a greater narcissist. I’m so confused right now. Several days ago he had blocked me on social media accusing me that I sent him too much texts and constantly call him so he feels so disturbed and irritated. Then he blocked me. In that time I was begging and pleading texting and calling him constantly. After 4 hours he unblocked me and talked with me. Today I was texting him till morning and called him 3 times. Then without any warning he blocked me again from everything. Nothing makes sense. Can you please tell me me why he is doing this what is the purpose behind this and what to expect next?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. I doubt he is a Greater Narcissist. A Narc Detector Consultation will establish this.
      2. His behaviour is designed to exert control and gain fuel. Various factors (some caused by you, some caused by others) affect this issue of control. If you want to understand this in greater detail with regards to your circumstances then I recommend that you organise a consultation.

  4. J.G THE ONE says:

    Hello, H.G.Tudor.
    It’s better to wear a Mayan coat, to avoid bites. Close your mouth and get out of the interaction as quickly as possible. And even better not to have any contact.
    Who, in his right mind, gets into a sea surrounded by a shark. Or his head in the jaws of a lion.
    Predators are pretty, but far away, protected from a screen. Or better yet, to see them in a documentary … and more we who are our weakness and are addicted to them.

  5. Narc noob says:

    Where did you get that shirt from! Why?

    1. J.G THE ONE says:

      adulation, flattery, praise, loa, applause, exaltation, flattery, agasajo. All of it, emotional attention, fuel.

      1. J.G THE ONE says:

        The narcissist will never tell you where to buy the shirt or where to get one. to get negative fuel and may even be a reason to get more out of you. By telling you that it wouldn’t suit you, that you’re too fat or that it’s not your style of dressing. You’d better put a sack on your head because you’re too ugly. Getting from you, fuel with your anger or face of surprise to hear such a savage.

        You know, they have and want to be unique, special etc.

        1. Narc noob says:

          Thanks JG, got it now. 👍🙏

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