Idealised and Ignored

Idealised and Ignored by [Tudor, H G]

Why does the narcissist idealise you? Why does he then ignore you as he embarks on devaluation? HG Tudor offers his insight as a narcissistic sociopath into these two fundamental elements of the narcissistic dynamic and thereafter provides his enlightening observations on how these elements are played out in so many instances and occurrences between the narcissist and his or her victim.


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12 thoughts on “Idealised and Ignored

  1. Sniglet says:

    Are you against completing the book Asylum of the Grotesque?

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. Sniglet says:

        I’d love to read that book. When will it be completed?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I cannot provide a completion date at the present time.

  2. PurpleLove says:

    HG, do you have “harem” that contains your former lovers? Women who didn’t go no contact and agreed to stay on friendly terms with you?

    Do you ever plan which “type of discard” to apply because of some kind of calculation “I will dump her kindly because I want her in my harem/she will be useful in the future/I don’t want her to go no contact because of sevage discard?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. Yes, but they don’t agree, it is on my terms. However at the current time they are on the shelf.
      2. I may do so yes as an Ultra, but Lesser and MidRange Narcissists would not think in this way.

  3. KellyD (formerly just "Kelly" but I see there's another, so like a good empath I'm giving in lol) says:

    Idealized and ignored is on a 3-day cycle now with my narc.
    Anyone know that old song by The Stylistics…?
    Break up to make up, that’s all we do
    First you love me then you hate me
    That’s a game for fools

    1. NarcAngel says:

      Ah yes, break up to make up……aka the Fight to Fuck Syndrome.

      1. lisk says:

        Well put, NA.

    2. Abw Flying says:

      Hi KellyD (formerly just “Kelly” but I see there’s another, so like a good empath I’m giving in lol),

      Does this song goes like ..’ tana..nananana .. nana..tana..’( can’t remember the rest ) ?

    3. Claire says:

      It’s ok to add the D!

  4. nunya biz says:

    I have so many to read yet that I am interested in. I am finishing Revenge, and next is Why, this one also.

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