Elke,
When I said HG was amazing, it was in reference to the amazing work he does on the blog and his knowledge and professionalism he uses in his consults. You will learn if your ex is a narcissist just by staying on the blog and reading the information provided both by HG and the others who comment here. I hope you find the healing and peace you are searching for.
I heard something along these lines and took the bite, he also said he always knew his wife was going to be from abroad. Still not sure if he is a narc tho. I know, I know ET.
He made it pretty clear he would never be serious. Even though… he loved me, never felt this way about anyone before, most beautiful woman he’s ever seen, thinks of me day and night, best sex he’d ever had…. but call you my girlfriend? No. I can’t do that. We don’t need labels.
What a looser! How did this idiot get any of my time!
I laughed the longest at this one… I had no interest in marriage, he didn’t like that!! what could he use as a carrot for future plans when I didn’t want to marry him, oh how the cogs must have turned, holidays next year anyone??
I didn’t get the marry part, but “it is meant to be” is kind of similar. Of course he would never be as effective as Dave Gahan, but he also said “I’m gonna take my time. I like a good delay. It’s a question of time.” And I’m sure he feels like I can’t be happy out there without him cause it’s no good… for his ego.
He will often behave in a dangerous way or just leave in silence, leaving you to say to him ‘that all I want to do is see you’ whilst you ponder the meaning of love. Ultimately you will understand this is a Strangelove so you can get behind the wheel and shake the disease.
Joanne, FM1T, you guys are not gonna believe it, but this was part of my wedding vows:
I don’t want to be tied to anyone’s strings
I’m carefully trying to steer clear of those things
But when I’m asleep I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me and kiss me tenderly
Though things like this make me sick
In a case like this, I’ll get away with it.
SP
Really? My husband and I said we’d use Somebody as our first dance song but we ended up choosing something more mainstream in the end.
Happy anniversary!! ❤️🥂💑 I hope you enjoy your day together!
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Elke,
When I said HG was amazing, it was in reference to the amazing work he does on the blog and his knowledge and professionalism he uses in his consults. You will learn if your ex is a narcissist just by staying on the blog and reading the information provided both by HG and the others who comment here. I hope you find the healing and peace you are searching for.
thank you
I heard something along these lines and took the bite, he also said he always knew his wife was going to be from abroad. Still not sure if he is a narc tho. I know, I know ET.
Else
If you truly are not sure, I would recommend purchasing the narc detector consult. You will have no more doubts, HG is amazing! 😉🙃
Can’t afford the consultation, so have to live in doubt :/ Yep, HG and his kind is amazing for as long as the golden period lasts.
One I didn’t get!
He made it pretty clear he would never be serious. Even though… he loved me, never felt this way about anyone before, most beautiful woman he’s ever seen, thinks of me day and night, best sex he’d ever had…. but call you my girlfriend? No. I can’t do that. We don’t need labels.
What a looser! How did this idiot get any of my time!
You need to tell the truth about these posts. And you are shocking me. I wouldn’t expect this from you.
“You know I would marry you if the circumstances were right” Lmao
I laughed the longest at this one… I had no interest in marriage, he didn’t like that!! what could he use as a carrot for future plans when I didn’t want to marry him, oh how the cogs must have turned, holidays next year anyone??
“Someday, when we’re married _____”
I didn’t get the marry part, but “it is meant to be” is kind of similar. Of course he would never be as effective as Dave Gahan, but he also said “I’m gonna take my time. I like a good delay. It’s a question of time.” And I’m sure he feels like I can’t be happy out there without him cause it’s no good… for his ego.
He will often behave in a dangerous way or just leave in silence, leaving you to say to him ‘that all I want to do is see you’ whilst you ponder the meaning of love. Ultimately you will understand this is a Strangelove so you can get behind the wheel and shake the disease.
(I could go on….)
Hahaha I love it.
Strange highs and strange lows. I can’t listen to DM anymore without thinking about you guys, and linking lyrics to narc behaviors.
Joanne, FM1T, you guys are not gonna believe it, but this was part of my wedding vows:
I don’t want to be tied to anyone’s strings
I’m carefully trying to steer clear of those things
But when I’m asleep I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me and kiss me tenderly
Though things like this make me sick
In a case like this, I’ll get away with it.
My husband just laughed, he knows me.
Was Martin L Gore playing the organ or the angel?
Neither one; he was one of my bridesmaids.
Ha ha very good. He does look good in a bride’s dress and doesn’t have to suffer well.
Hahaha I knew you would get the reference.
Naturally.
SP
Really? My husband and I said we’d use Somebody as our first dance song but we ended up choosing something more mainstream in the end.
Happy anniversary!! ❤️🥂💑 I hope you enjoy your day together!
Joanne, Somebody is very cynical. I used it because I have always been reluctant to marriage and he knew.
And thank you, yes we have plans tonight 🥰🥂
Btw, it’s my wedding anniversary today.
Happy anniversary to you Sweet P!
Thank you, MB! I’m happy to be able to celebrate, considering the circumstances…
Happy Anniversary Sweetie! 😘
Thank you, ma chérie! 😘
😉💞
SP,
Strangelove tour in the US! Unfortunately there are none close enough for me to attend. 😞
Lol. I’ve heard this line before. So very, very sad.
I never got this hook 😄
hahaa, laughing tears… yeeees, and the victim is to be blamed when it doesn´t work out hahaa