The Heart Hooks – No. 8


33 thoughts on “The Heart Hooks – No. 8

  1. foolme1time says:

    When I said HG was amazing, it was in reference to the amazing work he does on the blog and his knowledge and professionalism he uses in his consults. You will learn if your ex is a narcissist just by staying on the blog and reading the information provided both by HG and the others who comment here. I hope you find the healing and peace you are searching for.

    1. Elke says:

      thank you

  2. Elke says:

    I heard something along these lines and took the bite, he also said he always knew his wife was going to be from abroad. Still not sure if he is a narc tho. I know, I know ET.

    1. foolme1time says:

      If you truly are not sure, I would recommend purchasing the narc detector consult. You will have no more doubts, HG is amazing! 😉🙃

      1. Elke says:

        Can’t afford the consultation, so have to live in doubt :/ Yep, HG and his kind is amazing for as long as the golden period lasts.

  3. empath007 says:

    One I didn’t get!

    He made it pretty clear he would never be serious. Even though… he loved me, never felt this way about anyone before, most beautiful woman he’s ever seen, thinks of me day and night, best sex he’d ever had…. but call you my girlfriend? No. I can’t do that. We don’t need labels.

    What a looser! How did this idiot get any of my time!

  4. Pamela Dianne says:

    You need to tell the truth about these posts. And you are shocking me. I wouldn’t expect this from you.

  5. KellyD says:

    “You know I would marry you if the circumstances were right” Lmao

  6. fauxfur5 says:

    I laughed the longest at this one… I had no interest in marriage, he didn’t like that!! what could he use as a carrot for future plans when I didn’t want to marry him, oh how the cogs must have turned, holidays next year anyone??

  7. Joanne says:

    “Someday, when we’re married _____”

  8. Sweetest Perfection says:

    I didn’t get the marry part, but “it is meant to be” is kind of similar. Of course he would never be as effective as Dave Gahan, but he also said “I’m gonna take my time. I like a good delay. It’s a question of time.” And I’m sure he feels like I can’t be happy out there without him cause it’s no good… for his ego.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      He will often behave in a dangerous way or just leave in silence, leaving you to say to him ‘that all I want to do is see you’ whilst you ponder the meaning of love. Ultimately you will understand this is a Strangelove so you can get behind the wheel and shake the disease.

      (I could go on….)

      1. Sweetest Perfection says:

        Hahaha I love it.

        1. Joanne says:

          Strange highs and strange lows. I can’t listen to DM anymore without thinking about you guys, and linking lyrics to narc behaviors.

          1. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Joanne, FM1T, you guys are not gonna believe it, but this was part of my wedding vows:

            I don’t want to be tied to anyone’s strings
            I’m carefully trying to steer clear of those things
            But when I’m asleep I want somebody
            Who will put their arms around me and kiss me tenderly
            Though things like this make me sick
            In a case like this, I’ll get away with it.

            My husband just laughed, he knows me.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Was Martin L Gore playing the organ or the angel?

          3. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Neither one; he was one of my bridesmaids.

          4. HG Tudor says:

            Ha ha very good. He does look good in a bride’s dress and doesn’t have to suffer well.

          5. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Hahaha I knew you would get the reference.

          6. HG Tudor says:


          7. Joanne says:

            Really? My husband and I said we’d use Somebody as our first dance song but we ended up choosing something more mainstream in the end.
            Happy anniversary!! ❤️🥂💑 I hope you enjoy your day together!

          8. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Joanne, Somebody is very cynical. I used it because I have always been reluctant to marriage and he knew.

          9. Sweetest Perfection says:

            And thank you, yes we have plans tonight 🥰🥂

          10. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Btw, it’s my wedding anniversary today.

          11. MB says:

            Happy anniversary to you Sweet P!

          12. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Thank you, MB! I’m happy to be able to celebrate, considering the circumstances…

          13. foolme1time says:

            Happy Anniversary Sweetie! 😘

          14. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Thank you, ma chérie! 😘

          15. foolme1time says:


        2. foolme1time says:

          Strangelove tour in the US! Unfortunately there are none close enough for me to attend. 😞

  9. Courtney Westbrook says:

    Lol. I’ve heard this line before. So very, very sad.

  10. Chihuahuamum says:

    I never got this hook 😄

  11. Claudia Maria Christoph says:

    hahaa, laughing tears… yeeees, and the victim is to be blamed when it doesn´t work out hahaa

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