Sex and the Narcissist
No holds barred and no strings attached
The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform
Read about how the narcissist views and uses sex and how you are central in that
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I read that book , and it’s a very good remedy to go on distance ! It’s a very hurtful ( but very helpful ) eye opener ! And everyone, with a little self respect, will immediately leave the creature..
This book is a must read!! This book shoved me towards healing – I knew after reading this I was lucky to be out. Honestly had to put it down at times just to collect my emotions…
This was the only part of the relationship I enjoyed. He did do weird things to punish me in retrospect… and once tried to get me to engage in something I didn’t want too. So I assume it would have gotten worse as time went on… but even though he didn’t care about the experince, for me It was a sexual awakening. He wasn’t very skilled but through it all I learned what I want in bed. And he was mostly gentle and sweet and loved to cuddle afterward.
empath007,
I experienced a sexual awakening with MRN also. I was far more free with him than I had ever been with my husband, and it led to me learning A LOT about my likes/dislikes/taboo desires/willingness to speak things aloud, etc.
After learning more about myself and my own avoidant attachment issues, I see that he was able to draw this out of me because there was no real underlying emotional connection between us (just the façade created by golden period), there was that lack of true intimacy. It was a safe place for me to explore. I couldn’t do it with my husband, I feared his rejection too much.
This is the one thing I am grateful to MRN for, it has helped me in my marriage and within myself to be more accepting of my own sexual preferences.
Supernova DE, ditto girl! I didn’t know I had it in me either. Thank you MRN!
Out of all your books, this one is a MUST read. This was a crucial piece for me in loosening the emotional grip. I am someone who does not DO casual sex / sex for physical gratification alone. So the idea of him never being able to share real intimacy and vulnerability really ruined the fantasy for me. That combined with the idea that all he’d ever see in my pleasure responses is fuel, not passion or connection – just fuel. Another means to an end. What a complete turn off.
Is it wrong that every time this post comes through I’m envious of the body she has? Narc traits coming to the fore, much MB?
Haha! I wouldn’t want tied up quite that extravagantly.
Claire, it’s the fit, sexy body that makes me envious. Not the binding, haha
To hell with her—only a narcissist would bind someone up that way. Just gain 50 pounds and make him work harder/buy more rope!