You Hurt, The Narcissist Is Happy – What Is Going on?




Following disengagement from a romantic entanglement with a narcissist the hurt is substantial.

To make matters worse, the narcissist is swanning around happy. Or is he or she actually happy?

What is going on?

Understand how your hurt is more dangerous than you realise and what you can do about it?

Find out what is really going on inside the narcissist – the answer will assist you.

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8 thoughts on “You Hurt, The Narcissist Is Happy – What Is Going on?

  1. Alexismith2016 says:

    HG, when I was younger, I knew four sets of identical twins, two at primary school and two at secondary school. I don’t know any as any adult so my question is based on my memories/emotions from childhood.

    I was always a little fascinated by twins so made sure I was friends with them. But I did notice that one twin was always much nicer than the other and the other always made me feel somewhat uncomfortable but I didn’t understand why. I wish I knew some as adults and wondered whether there is something but in this i.e. I appreciate this is a very small sample but could ir be that it is common amongst twins for one to be a narc and ans the other an empath?

    Thank you so much

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It can occur. Whether it is common is not something there is something whereby there is enough information available. In my own experience however, I agree with you.

      1. Alexissmith2016 says:

        Ah just seen this! Anecdotally from the master is good enough for me!

  2. Claire says:

    Another thanks from me ,HG! I have forgotten one Somatic who tried to ensnare me few months ago. Actually around the same time when Narc 2 came along but Narc 2 was more gifted in the brain department.
    I have forgotten about his existence as he went back to Europe for few months and as a result , I didn’t block him. Last night he tried his best sending few messages including a shirtless picture from unknown outdoor location with a shining smile on his face. I read the messages on preview screen and listening to your words today , blocked him and deleted the contact. The messages and the picture were like copy/ paste from your book Sitting Target , I swear .
    So your work Sir, is priceless ! Thank you .

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You’re welcome

  3. empath007 says:

    I needed this today more then most… Thank you for this.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You’re welcome

    2. Caroline R says:

      Empath 007
      I have this on high rotation on my HG Tudor YouTube videos playlist. It helps settle the clashing cognitive dissonance which is still intense some days.

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