3 Key Interactions
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You can’t win
you can’t break even
And you can’t get out of the game
Clear, concise. Provides a mental framework that will make remembering this information in the moment very helpful. Essential. Wish I had known this years ago
Hi HG…i have an oddball question. Youve mentioned before your need for extreme cleanliness. Is it a trait of greater narcs to be perfectionists? Like have things perfect in their workspace or at home? I know someone who is like this where it seems to be ocd. Im thinking a form of control bc they feel other areas of their life is out of control yet theyd never admit it. Im just wondering if this is moreso a trademark of a greater vs a midranger or lesser.
It is not a response to other areas of a narcissists life being out of control. Being orderly and clean are traits of Upper Echelon Narcissists because these are manifestations of control which are used to triangulate to control appliances.
pretty sure my ex was an upper mid ranger…
she was lazy as hell.
house was a tip, never did any cleaning herself, kitchen cupboards were disgusting
On the other hand I’m borderline OCD neat and tidy
I remember she said during a post discard phone call chat that “the house misses me”..
When challenged about HER missing me, not the house, it was just swiftly deflected..
Made me laugh anyway.