The Final Push


There is still some way to go to ensure that all those that are waiting for help at this crucial time of year, receive that help. There have been some significant donations from certain individuals but the larger group can still deliver.

In the meantime, here is a message from a grateful recipient of asisstance

“Hello everyone and Happy Holidays!
I am writing to all of you to say THANK YOU so much for your caring hearts and generosity to the Angel Assistance Fund.  I have had 2 consultations with HG so far and I have made huge strides with everything now.  I had no idea how helpful he would be.  He really does have our best interests in mind.  He is such a valuable resource! I will never question his motives ever!
During our consults, one of my main issues was that I was struggling with my energy levels.  After everything I have been through this year, I was just drained.  He suggested I start taking walks by the river a few times a week to clear my mind and get in nature.  He really does know what makes empaths thrive.  It is an easy and attainable goal and will only make me stronger so that I can build on from there.  The first day I went down to the river, after our talk, I came across the sweetest little love notes tied to the trees.  Some people in my neighbourhood started this little project and it seemed serendipitous that I would stumble upon them in that moment.  Here are a few of the inspirational words:
“You are so brave.”
“I am deliberate and afraid of nothing.”
“The ocean is not threatened by the stream. Keep going!”
“Listen to the trees. Everything communicates.”
Aren’t those the loveliest messages?Sometimes I really think I have angels looking out for me.
I also want to share THE BEST NEWS of 2019!  Some of you know that I was sexually assaulted in April and I reported it to the police and it was completely dismissed.  Well I kept pushing it through because I knew it couldn’t be brushed aside and my persistence paid off!
Last week I met with a sexual assault detective and we sat down and did a full video recorded interview and I gave my statement again. After 2 hours of reliving that awful night, he told me that they were now bringing him in for questioning and that he has no choice about it.  He said I gave an extremely credible statement and that I can let go of this now, that it was his to take care of!  He was the most understanding and caring police officer I have ever met.  It was so nice to see true empathy mixed with logic and protection.
I still don’t know what will come of this but a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders because I know that he will be held accountable for his brutal and disturbing actions.
I found narcsite a year ago, and studied it daily and if it wasn’t for HG’s knowledge and encouragement, I could never have gotten to this place of strength and empowerment.  And my unconditional love has never diminished, I just allocate it better now! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
Please do what you can to donate to this cause, it is massively important. I am in such a better place because of your help. Please, please help others.
I wish you all a wonderful Christmas and joyous  New Year!  Take care my loves💕💕💕
Thank you again!
Twisted Heart”

Final Push Xmas Donation


35 thoughts on “The Final Push

  1. E&L says:

    “You can’t change a systemic problem (narcissism) by the actions of one individual, but you can change the trajectory of an individuals situation by your actions.” my husband

    “If I gave a dollar for every thought I expended on the narc, the AAF would be stacked.” me

    Here’s to a Zero Impact and authentic No Contact 2020 for us all.

  2. Yolo says:

    Awesome..I wasn’t expecting this, but glad I stopped by. H.G. you can count on me. I am so happy to see this project has been instrumental in helping people heal. I don’t feel the need to encourage others to give. I found value in the resources provided by HG and in past posts I have spoke of how I consider him a life saver. Most have financial issues as a result from the narcissist and aren’t able to contribute now. That’s why the Angel project is so important we can always pay it forward later.

    Warm wishes to all.
    P.S. 😍
    Emoji for H.G. and side kick 😉

  3. NarcAngel says:

    Twisted Heart
    It was difficult to both speak up about what happened to you, and to ask for help. You did both. So very proud of you.

  4. ANM says:

    Twisted Heart!
    That was a very beautiful post. It’s amazing how in our darkest moments, God/The Universe finds ways to send us messages. You pressing forward with charges and taking care of yourself is empowering yourself. Prepare yourself to make peace with the outcome no matter what. I have been sitting in on numerous court hearings, and I have seen many victims attending sentencing hearings become disappointed with the outcomes, because they felt the judge didn’t hear their victim impact statement or take it in consideration for the conditions of sentencing. But the truth is, the prosecutors and the judges usually know what they are going to do with Defendents way in advance, and before the sentencing, and the Victim Advocates won’t tell the victim this, because they don’t want you to not push the case through and attend all hearings. You got this, and I wish you many happy days ahead.

  5. Alexissmith2016 says:

    Can I gift $40 towards the AAF

    and also trade ‘no more lols from me’ to know what LK is please 💋💋💋if I break my promise you can eat my soul 💋

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Certainly, press that button.

    2. FoolMe1Time says:

      When you find out will you please tell me? Oh and please don’t break your promise! You have a very beautiful soul! 🥰

      1. If I find out, I’ll be sure to let you know if HG permits

        1. FoolMe1Time says:

          Thank you Alexis! 😘

          1. alexissmith2016 says:

            Lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol he hasn’t told me yet lol lol lol lol lol

          2. FoolMe1Time says:

            Hahaha! Omg you crack me up!
            Thank you Alexis, you will never know how much I needed that laugh! 😘🙃

          3. alexissmith2016 says:


    3. FoolMe1Time says:

      The angels thank you very much sweetheart! 😘💞 Merry Christmas!🎄🎁

  6. FoolMe1Time says:

    Twisted heart, you do not know how happy reading about you consulting with HG has made me! I think of you and your story often, I am so glad someone finally listened to you, as K has said that gives me hope. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas Sweetheart, you are so deserving of it!

    TW, you have just proven how valuable the Angel assistance fund is for everyone and for that plus coming forward with your story I thank you so very much, I know how hard that was for you to do. 🥰

    I know this time of year find many of us strapped for money and it is difficult to find extra to give, but remember it doesn’t have to be a lot, a few dollars, even left over change that you have in your pockets or at the bottom of your purse will help tremendously! I felt bad that I could not give a lot this year and for that reason I almost didn’t give anything, perhaps I felt embarrassed I could not give as much as some on here, or maybe I just thought it wouldn’t help? I was wrong! Any amount we can give will help bring someone like Twisted Heart ❤️ the healing, and peace that she deserves! Please this is the last time to give some a truly blessed and peaceful Christmas. Please reach in those pockets and give the angels all that extra change. We can’t let the narcissists win, we cannot allow them to ruin yet another Christmas for some beautiful person who has been ensnared by them! We have the weapon that can defeat them right here at our finger tips! Please help me get them to HG and his knowledge this Holiday Season!
    Thank you all so very much for the kindness and love that you show day after day. Merry Christmas and a blessed Narc free New Year to you all! 😘💞🙃

    1. K says:

      Big or small, it doesn’t matter. If ten people give ten dollars then that will make a tremendous difference in someone’s life.

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Yes K you are so correct! At this point and time I would be over the top happy if ten people would give a dollar! Look at the numbers, look how many people follow HG everyday! We are but a handful that comment on the blog daily, but there are so many of us out there reading and taking in his knowledge for free, if only one article has helped you learn about narcissists and there behavior, or if you simply enjoy reading the comments from some of us on this blog, please help by donating one dollar for all of that knowledge and entertainment, please!

        1. K says:

          If everyone that read the blog daily donated a small amount then the queue would be cleared up in a jiffy.

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            It would not only be cleared up, we would actually have a surplus for the very first time K.
            Does anyone still believe in Christmas wishes? I haven’t wished a Christmas wish or believed in Christmas magic since I was 7 years old. Perhaps it’s time to try it one more time?! You all know what it is. My Christmas wish is to have everyone donate enough, to clear out the line that is waiting for Angel Assistance!

          2. K says:

            A surplus would be wonderful.

          3. FoolMe1Time says:

            It would be absolutely amazing K.

    2. FYC says:

      Sweet FM1T, you gave all you had to give and you give from the kindest heart, that is more than most and more than enough. Every dollar matters.

      TW, thank you for sharing your update. I am so pleased you found a strong supportive person to pursue your case on your behalf. I love the story of the river. HG gives the best advice. And those trees are whispering to you, “Well done Twisted Heart, Merry Christmas! A far happier new year awaits you.”

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Thank you FYC.
        I think it is so important for me to get this point across to help the Angels because I didn’t have that help when I was younger, it would have made a great impact on my life and my future if I would have had HG at that time. Every Angel that HG helps with his abundance of knowledge, is yet one more person that will end this horrible cycle that many of us find ourselves living day after day year after year, some of us for a lifetime! Just think, all though Twisted Heart had to live a nightmare to get to this point, she is guaranteed a full beautiful loving life that is narcissist free as long as she continues to use the knowledge that HG has given her. I can not think of a more wonderful gift to give someone then the freedom to live there lives in the way it should be lived, with no more pain either physical or psychological from a narcissist. Please give an Angel there life back this Christmas, please give to the Angel Assistance Fund!

        1. FYC says:

          Well said, FM1T! I agree completely.

          1. FoolMe1Time says:


        2. Lorelei says:

          Foolme—I keep thinking about how there are people (many many) who don’t even know they are being subjected to abuse/control/manipulation. You know obviously in detail more of my thoughts based on the submission I have pending re, the matter. It’s staggering that this is what it is. It’s staggering that my mother dealt for years with this bullshit and has no idea. Her health is a consequence of my father’s deplorable behavior. I wish recognition of this absolute crap was mainstream. I went to several providers in awful shape and it missed the radar that I even be questioned why the marriage I indicated as awful was awful WHY. I spoke to several research oriented colleagues last night about the screening deficits (they don’t know the thrust of my interest)—just that it is my project proposal.. Unanimously we agree that navigating the current climate of research with a new screening tool is incredibly difficult due to research etiquette/protocol. It hinders progress. Every STI I screen should trigger even just education written to expand BEYOND “Are you being physically abused” to patients. Descriptions of what abuse is are incredibly inadequate as we all know here. Planting seeds is essential. People live in and grow up with this nonsense and don’t even know the cloud they live in is from being sucked dry by these parasites.

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            You are absolutely correct in all of your statements Lorelei. That is why we need people like you in the health care profession who understands exactly what’s out there and what we are dealing with. It may be difficult to do but with your intelligence, and the knowledge that you have now and will continue to have by working with HG, you will break through the etiquette/protocol and make that progress! You know it, you lived it, you can make a difference, don’t let a little etiquette stop you. 😉. We need to continually educate people about narcissists and the damage that they do! Getting HGs name out there and the knowledge that he has is essential to make more people aware. Just as planting that seed is important, advertising by word of mouth is just as important. The more people that receive help from HG, whether it be through his books, videos, consultations, or Angel assistance, the more they will continue to tell others, which will help you and other professionals out there break through some of the etiquette, red tape and other bull shit that will stop people from finding the help and answers that they need.
            We all have a job to do, we have to work together to get that job done.
            We have to spread the word of HG Tudor, the work he does, and the help that is out there right now.
            Lorelei do not let etiquette or protocol stand in your way! You can do this! 😘💞

          2. Lorelei says:

            Unfortunately there is a barrier created by the etiquette, however, there are some work arounds. It’s quite complicated unfortunately. More people are being helped online than by traditional psychology/psychiatry,social services, etc. Even those mid-rangers HG talks about doing narcissism education serve more benefit than Joe Schmo MD because at least some of the information parroted will be correct. It’s stunning what I can be a part of “fixing” for the body but the minds stay broken so often because no one sees the elephant in the room.

          3. FoolMe1Time says:

            I know if anyone can work around something it will be you Lorelei. You and people like you have to be the ones to make sure that everyone sees that elephant. It’s the only way to bring awareness, to something that is and has been running a muck for centuries! We have to make sure people can get the help they need from people who know and who have been trained to deal with the narcissistic relationship. We have to make people aware so that they can afford treatment, people have to realize the damage that is done by these individuals. We can’t go on looking for donations from people who simply do not understand the importance of there giving! They don’t understand the lives that they save! I know it’s far off Lorelei but we need awareness for so many reasons. Victims do not even know they are victims, they have no clue what has happened. When they finally do run across something that looks familiar whether it be online or just seeing one of HGs books sitting someplace, then they have to come up with funds to pay for there treatment because the health care industry does not know anything about narcissism! I don’t know if any of this makes sense to you or not? I can’t write and put my thoughts down on paper like some of you do, I don’t have the resources that some of you have. All I know is that I lived this my whole life and if I can get one person to HG for help, that will start to break a cycle so that they can live with peace and not torment! I don’t want my daughters or your daughters or sons of anyone to have to live this. This effects everyone, they are in every walk of life. We have to be the ones to make a difference, you can make a difference! I’m sorry for going on like this, I am feeling very drained and this time of year just doesn’t help. Take care sweetie. 😘💞

  7. Kim e says:

    HG please use as needed.
    Thank you

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I shall, thank you for your donation.

    2. FoolMe1Time says:

      Sweetie nothing on my site. I have it just to follow the big guy. 🥰

      1. Kim e says:

        FM1T. ❤️

        1. FoolMe1Time says:

          Merry Christmas Kim e! 😘💞

  8. K says:

    You are welcome Twisted Heart!
    Your message was wonderful to read, thank you. It looks like your persistence has paid off regarding the sexual assault and your experience with the police officer makes me feel hopeful. He listened and validated you and that is all we want sometimes, to be heard and to be understood without judgement. Enjoy your walks by the river. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

  9. MB says:

    Thank you TH and HG for sharing this. I know you don’t usually allow such access. In this case, it is very helpful to those that haven’t consulted to demonstrate the effectiveness of HGs counsel. He does know his Empaths.

    Now that the statement is recorded, you should never have to recount the events of that night again. Leave it in 2019. You are such a survivor. So strong. I’m inspired by your bravery. Wishing you a happy, healthy 2020. Keep on keeping on Girl.

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