Narc Vision
If I gave you a pair of spectacles which gave you “Narc Vision” the world, as you know it, would look vastly different to you.
It would also give you insight into the altered perspective of the narcissist to enable you to make sense of what has always seemed nonsensical .
This Logic Bulletin enables you to gain “Narc Vision” to help you understand what it is that the narcissist really sees and how different it is from what you see.
One of the repeated failings that people make in their quest to understand what has happened to them is to not understand the narcissistic perspective.
This is not to empathise with it.
This is not to be sympathetic to it.
It is pure Logical Understanding.
This Logic Bulletin comes in two fantastic parts
Part One addresses
Clear explanations about the common mistakes that victims make when trying to understand the behaviour of the narcissist
The existence of the Majority Perspective and the Narcissistic Perspective, what that means and how they manifest.
Identification of the Strands of the Narcissistic Perspective, namely The Basic Narcissistic Perspective, The Cognitive Empathy Perspective and The Devil´s Perspective.
What each of those perspectives involves and means to the victim
Which school of narcissistic operates with which strand of the Narcissistic Perspective
What the perspectives do.
Using “Narc Vision” unravels so much about the behaviour of the narcissist, so what seems to baffling to you begins to make sense. It will cause many “aha” moments as you realise, “So, THAT´S why he always did that.”
Enabling you to make sense of why the narcissist behaves as he or she does and why previously you were unable to make sense of it.
The Baseline Scenario with regard to a common interaction between victim and narcissist to assist you in understanding how the perspectives apply to this interaction. The Baseline Scenario will apply to intimate and non-intimate interactions for primary, former primary and secondary sources, therefore this material is of use to those with a need for understanding about romantic, familial, social, work, business, client or neighbour ensnarements with one or more narcissists.
This will provide you with “Narc Vision” so you can finally understand why you previously failed to understand.
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I bought Narc Vision yesterday evening before you published this offer. Am I still entitled to discounts?
No. The discounts start when stated, not beforehand.
HG. Is this all new info?
No it’s a rebrand of The Narcissistic Perspective which if you’ve not got, you should
HG. Got it and have it with the bolt on. Thanks
Is the new layout of the website part of Narc Vision?
Logically, that must be the case although I know what you are suggesting cheeky.
I like the Logic Hits and the Golden Archives. I miss the longer string of recent comments. I usually take a minute to go through those when I have a minute and need a Narcsite hit since I don’t have the time to subscribe to all. Of course that is a matter for me and not a reflection on the site. I really like the comments section now. It’s a big a change all at once. I must admit, I was a little freaked out yesterday. I thought something had gone terribly wrong. Turns out, something went terribly right!
Thank you MB. The Recent Comment section has been extended to the last 15 comments.
I must have missed that! I only saw four this morning. Thank you, HG.
No, you did not miss it, I altered the function to extend it from 5 to 15. 15 is the maximum allowed by the way.
“The Recent Comment section has been extended to the last 15 comments.”
….And there was Great Rejoicing.
HG
I agree with the other readers, I am loving this new layout. The menu button is easier to find on my cell and the golden archives are priceless. Before, searching through the archives was like searching in the dark.
I have a suggestion for future consideration. A printable check list of all of your books, logic bulletins and assistant packages so readers can keep track of what they still need to obtain.
Glad you like it and thank you for the suggestion. I will organise A Complete Works Of section
Thank you HG! I love being organized. This will help.
Hi Mercy—I am liking it too. I’ve not browsed the archives yet but since you think it’s more achievable to search/easier— I will look around.
I love the lines delineating a particular conversation – so much easier to visually follow a thread on my phone – especially if they get horrendously long!
Jolly good.
Hi Lorelei, it’s much easier to use! How have you been? We haven’t talked in a while. How was you trip?
Hi Mercy. No trip yet or at least a far away one. I’m feeling stuck because I have exhausted time off from work. I want to see family and just don’t have the time to be away. Jobs suck.
Lorelei, I know what you mean. I’m saving my time off for a vacation too. It seems like I use it for everyone else but myself. My daughter is taking a cruise next month and I’m taking time off to stay with the kids.
It’s a juggling act Mercy. After one more year at the university I get 5 weeks off a year. But.. I get more than that now because I comp holidays into a vacation bank which is 3 extra weeks. Plus a few weeks of ill time. I can’t complain and I do have three big trips planned this year. I’m not deprived but I’d really like to be an intimate secondary source to Putin and not work but get an allowance!
—I leave for Italy in three weeks. I’m also wishing to spend time in Sicily maybe next spring (2021). My school calendar is killing me! Putin would like me. I don’t care what the other narcissists say—I’d fawn over his hunt of all creatures great & small, and make him feel very well fueled. He can’t be that bad on a per diem type basis.
Lorelei, Haha you’re killing me with the Putin stuff. We need to reevaluate your goals.
I get pretty good time off at work too. I just tend to use it for projects or kids. I need a vacay! Italy sounds so much fun. I’ve only been out of the country a couple of times. I would love to go to Ireland. I need a travel partner. I’m done with loser narcs. I need to find someone that wants to do the things I like.
There is a FB group exclusively for solo women travelers. Also a Gate 1 travel group so many tips etc. I am not frequently on there anymore but occasionally pop in to ask a question, etc. Sometimes agencies offer some hand holding you can’t get otherwise, just depends. I actually wanted to do this trip solo—the other upcoming are with my niece and work friend I went to China with. I must not have annoyed her too bad because she asked me to go to Poland in September. **G travel offers small groups and you are paired with a roommate. Look them up—it’s a great way to make new friends.
Mercy can I just say, do it! Solo Travel!!
The best experience for self reflection, freedom to journal, go where you want, when you want and most importantly live the culture and immerse yourself in making new friends!
The last two years I’ve travelled to Miami Beach solo, staying in hostels (some of them are so nice just like hotels and clean!) added benefit of a hostel is you have to mingle and you’ll meet amazing people from all over the world!
I echo Lorelei in joining a Facebook female solo travel group, I met up with women who lived in Miami and went on adventures to Key West and the Everglades etc.
I had friends to dine out with, go clubbing with and sunbathe with. Happy hour on ocean drive with new girls I met was exactly what I needed to put all the wrongs right in my world!
If you’re looking for a new lease of life do it! I’m 42 so no spring chicken but now my boys are 24 and 19, it’s MY time for self discovery, and I’ve earned it with all the shit I’ve been through!
This year I have a solo stint in Europe and at the end of the year either Cuba or Costa Rica.
Join the Facebook group, discuss where you want to go and when, and even before you take off you’ll have made new friends to meet up with. You won’t be alone unless you want to be (which I also highly recommend to recharge).
For any one on this forum looking to do it, not sure if you’re brave enough, I know that feeling! If I let the fear win, I would never have had the best experiences of my life post escape of the Narc! Growing in confidence also aids your no contact regime. Follow HG’s logic bulletins and explore the world solo!
Best of luck x
Indeed Presque! My friend was genius to find those Facebook groups! She just called me last night to book some sort of London/Scotland thing in the fall and a pub crawl whatever. I’m sick that week from work I think. Darn.
One great one is an Amazon trip through G—small group. I’m dying to do it. Not one person I know will be able to or want to do this trip but the small group feature brings like-minded people together. I really like roughing it. Most of my friends are not into it. There are so many solutions through the different routes to establish making these things happen. The Amazon is unfortunately for 2022 though—it’s of a longer duration, and I have to be out of school when I go.
Pub crawl Lorelei! Do it! There is no hospitality like the Scots trust me! 😉 London boozers are ace! Not the wine bars meh, but the proper old ones I used to frequent in Kilburn for karaoke! Camden is also not bad, just nowhere posh, they are crap. A nice little Irish bar that puts on a wee shindig excellent! Also, if you come in August you have the Edinburgh Fringe festival and the Military Tattoo at Edinburgh castle, I highly recommend that! I’ve had family perform in that 🙂
Not sure about the Amazon Lorelei .. don’t know if I could handle the humidity, and THE BUGS/SNAKES/SPIDERS etc I would never sleep! The Amazon Indigenous People and the ecological aspect would be life changing but BUGS Lorelei!
Now Chichen Itza, human sacrifice sites, heart removal, thrown down the pyramid steps and then skinned… well they don’t do punishment and gifts to the gods like that nowadays! Would be fascinating to visit there and Machu Picchu to see the temple of the moon. Bucket List! Everyone should have one.
The Amazon is where it’s at! I love bugs. I am incorrectly profiled my some people in my life. I can be disgusting for a few days at a time and be in the heat, etc. I’ve done some backpacking, spelunking, etc.
I think the trip, err I mean week of illness may indeed be fun.
I agree i usually go to the bottom to see people comments.
What if I’m not sure what range narc I’m dealing with! Pretty sure it’s Mid-Range as there’s lots of abandonment, he’s relatively controlled but does rage emotionally never physically. I also don’t know if I’m codependent or empath – have been told from energy healers that I’m very empathic. What tools or process should I use to get the paths to freedom? We are married 22 years and only now have I realized what I’m dealing with, his behavior has gotten extreme and abandonment very consistent though I’ve found no proof of other intimate sources. Your material is invaluable – Ive been listening to all your YouTube info.
Hello CharleneP and welcome on board. Thank you for listening. To achieve freedom you will achieve this because you are in the right place. I recommend you organise a Narc Detector Consultation so you gain clarity and insight with regard to this person. To understand yourself, use the Empath Detector Consultation. Read the work here and use the various Logic Bulletins and APs in the Knowledge Vault, that is a formidable and unrivalled body of information. Furthermore, if you need bespoke assistance, do consult with me and I will help you.
HG thank you. Would the consult give the most definitive explanation and help? I know I posted in 2 spots so apologies…gaining some much knowledge from your videos but I have much to figure out.
Yes it would.
During phone consult can I ask anything – give details about his behavior and get thoughts on what narc level he is? Are there specific guidelines as to what questions I can ask? I see email consult is pretty specific as to how many questions etc
If you want to know if he is a narcissist and which school and cadre, use the Narc Detector Consultation, that is what it is specifically for. If you want to understand more about behaviours, how he will respond, what you should do, fathom matters out further, then use the audio or email consultations.
Is it the same of “Understanding the Narcissist Perspective?”
Yes.