Trait Detector
Which of your traits are most vulnerable to exploitation?
You have been ensnared by a narcissist.
Most likely, you are an empath, a collection of empathic and narcissistic traits.
You need to know what those traits are.
You may still be ensnared seeking to escape.
You may have escaped and be fending off the Initial Grand Hoover and/or Follow-Up Hoovers.
You may be on the shelf and tackling the pick-up/put-down dynamic.
You may have been disengaged from and are dealing with the aftermath.
You may be dealing with a malice campaign.
You may be caught in ongoing interactions making Total No Contact harder than usual.
You may be trying to keep the narcissist at bay.
You may be trying to deal with purging the effects of the narcissist from your life.
Those scenarios and others besides all have one thing in common – Emotional Thinking, the Enemy Within.
Emotional Thinking will ALWAYS seek to exploit what you are to feed your innate addiction to the narcissist. This addiction is lifelong and poses a constant threat but it is one which can be managed and successfully. To achieve this, you need to know what it is about you that is at risk from exploitation from your Emotional Thinking.
If you do not know, how can you then GOSO?
Will the fact you are an empathic truth seeker be your undoing?
Perhaps your narcissistic sense of pride will cause continued conflict with the narcissist?
Might your compassion be used against you to draw you back in?
Maybe the empathic trait of guilt will be harnessed?
Then again, it could be the narcissistic trait of infidelity which lures you back?
There is a wide range of empathic and narcissistic traits. Which ones are applicable to you and which are not?
Whether it is a past, current or future ensnarement, you need to be armed to defeat your emotional thinking and the lurking narcissist drawn to your empathic status.
Use the Trait Detector to understand what your empathic and narcissistic traits are.
Use the Trait Detector and find out NOW what it is about you that is the most vulnerable to exploitation by your Emotional Thinking, so you can then address and tackle it and in turn beat the narcissist.
THE PROCESS
- Make payment using the PayPal button. The costs is US $ 100 and is protected through PayPal´s procedures.
- If you wish to use a different email address to that contained in your PayPal account, email me at narcissist1909@gmail.com before making payment.
- You will receive a Common Sense Protocol. You will also receive a specifically engineered and detailed questionnaire for your completion and return by email.
- This questionnaire will be analysed and you will then be provided with a response which will detail all of your relevant empathic and narcissistic traits so you understand the requisite makeup of your personality. The analysis will also identify in percentage terms the level of vulnerability and also explain to you how that will manifest for you, allowing you to be fixed with full knowledge so you can take appropriate protective action.
- The response will (subject to intervening factors) be provided to you within 96 hours of submission of your completed questionnaire.
- The entire process is covered by confidentiality provisions.
Know yourself so you recognise where Emotional Thinking is most likely to strike because when you know, you can GOSO and beat the narcissist!
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I loved the Trait Detector!! It’s soooo accurate!!! Best thing ever. I’ll share my results. I come close to being half empathic & half narcissistic but the empathic is a little more & keeps the narcissistic traits in check. The narcissistic traits susceptible to ET for me are vanity, pride, & showcasing. Basically I feel like my ex owes me XYZ for all I put up with. That’s EXACTLY how my mind works, so it’s amazing. The great part is that the two empathic traits that would get me in trouble aren’t a factor for me at this point because the first one, truthseeker, wanting him to know how I feel about what transpired….I did that already before I found HG. I said everything I could have possibly said. I went on & on & on lol emailing him SO many times to the point it was super embarrassing. So let’s say he hoovers me a year from now, I have no desire to talk about it. Even if I did, it would be pointless. I never want to do that again. I know I’m better off just writing my feelings down. Then my empathic trait of honesty making people aware. I’d never expose him because I don’t believe in it. I comment here since no one knows his name so I don’t feel like I’m “ratting him out.” In real life I keep silent. I didn’t even tell my mom lol only my two best friends. I was with his good friend & he brought him up quite a bit & I did not say a WORD lol I didn’t flinch. I also know even if I wanted to expose him, which I don’t, it would come back to bite me one way or the other. I don’t want drama. The narcissistic traits of mine would be my downfall.
Very interesting. Thanks for sharing that.
I received my results yesterday and can attest that it is absolutely eye opening and extremely informative. I was shocked (read, *not happy about*) my level of narcissistic traits when I first saw it. HG has always taught us that every person is a bundle of narcissistic and empathic traits. It is evident that he has worked hard with this detector to illustrate this for you specifically. It’s one thing to hear him explain the spectrum with empathic traits on the left all the way up to the narcissistic traits on the far right in general, but to see the illustration and hear it as it relates to YOU brings it into sharp focus. I now know which of MY specific traits are the most likely to be corrupted by my ET to make me break no contact. Vigilance must be maintained regardless, but HG gave me very specific, real life examples of what my ET looks like when it’s highjacking my strongest traits. Very valuable work. I’m always impressed when questionnaires can be assimilated into usable data. Bravo HG. You absolutely should be proud of this endeavor.
Thank you MB, that is a very useful summary of your experience, thank you for sharing it.
I’m happy to do so for you and for my fellow Tudorites.
As I have recently been reminded, we must always be resisting. Even after one year of no contact, I heard the text tone that I used with my narc and it sent me into a tailspin of ET. It was the catalyst which started a chain of thinking that nearly caused me to text him. I didn’t, thanks to listening to LOGIC using my Knowledge Vault purchases and to my learning here at HGTU. It was a close call, but I’m securely back in the saddle of no contact again and feeling strong. This Trait Detector Consultation was the icing on the cake. I’m glad you (your recordings) were there for me HG when I needed an injection of cold hard logic.
Good example MB. I had not texted or responded to texts since the first of the year–but due to a significant closure of businesses from the governor I texted him to accommodate a need for my son. He was most obedient as I knew he would be. I can guarantee about a 95% compliance(with manners or not being rude) from him based on my approach. It still eludes perfection though because I recognize the 5% hits even though my pride wants it not to. Anyway–most of my issue rests in the overall narcissistic dynamic and how it has impacted my world in all arenas. I have two weeks of nothing to do so may get to this.
You won’t be disappointed, Lorelei. It’s a worthwhile exercise.
My children are giggling over incest while I am trying to ignore it. It is hard not to laugh sometimes.
What scares me is not the prospect of discovering I’m highly Narcissistic, but a doormat. Ooh, weakling. Which fear in itself is a typical N trait.
Oh well, now that so many people are thrown on unemployment, they’ll need folks at Social Services to process the forms. I can apply remotely, probably even interview remotely, though I don’t know if hiring would be postponed because the people now working remotely were already employed.
Of course, the minute I’m gainfully employed, NY will get the all clear and my VC will put up his show, and I won’t be able to audition for it or work on getting a job back East. And while he said the Covid-19 pandemic wasn’t arranged just to aggravate him, it’s frustrating that this is the first big break in his career, and now…. Meanwhile, he can’t see students, not great for his finances.
Minor, compared to what some folks are dealing with. I guess on some level we’re afraid things may get bad enough that we’ll eventually turn into some of those folks.
This ain’t no party, this ain’t no disco.
Very interesting.
I have received my analysis and I can report that it is absolutely worth it! It is really eye-opening and will help me safeguard against the corruption of both my narcissistic and empathic traits with pinpoint accuracy. Thanks, HG for all that you do for us!
You are welcome. I am pleased you found it useful as I knew you would, everyone should avail themselves of this service, it is not only very interesting but it highlights what you must look out for and guard against now and moving forward, above all other matters.
Would this be a better determinant of how to distinguish a mid-ranger hiding under the radar, than say this person doing just an empath detector? Would it be glaringly apparent to you?
Correct.
I would ascertain that the person is not an empath from the EDC. The Trait Detector would demonstrate narcissistic traits outweighing the empathic and therefore the two together would paint a particular picture.
Fix. Thanks for sharing. I just sent for mine yesterday. Can wait!
Can I ask if there was anything in particular that surprised you about you and what was it? No need reply if you don’t wish to share the info
Hi Kim, I think the narcissistic/empath ratios surprised me a little bit, but I think that is also because I am not the same person I was even a few years ago. I feel much more confident in myself and my ability to discern when to give and when to just say no, thanks in part to HG’s wisdom for sure. But there has also always been that underlying prideful need to ‘be better’ and he picked up on that too.
The framing of the questions elicited that information from you Fox, because of the way the questions have been engineered. The extensive detail of this process arose from the formulation of the questions and the weighting given to the answers viz a viz the relevant narcissistic and empathic traits and how they all work together. Your responses produce a result which is conveyed to you in the form of information presentation and it is also layered with informing you as to the areas of vulnerability to ET. I further explain how that manifests so you know what to look for. It is a complex creation but very easy for you to use as well as interesting and stimulating and you receive a hugely informed and accurate outcome which is of considerable value across several strands. I am rather proud of it and invite all to embrace its use. You will get much from it. Thank you for utilising it, Fox and the other readers who have done so, so far.
I can understand why you would be proud of it, HG. I agree it was very simple to use, but packs a wealth of information that I will absolutely be utilizing going forward.
Thank you
Fox,
Thanks for sharing. I am betting my N traits are much higher then my E traits. I think they always have been. I will share when I get the results.