Q&A 24th May 2020


Q&A 24th May 2020


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Here is a further opportunity to join in with the highly engaging and informative Q&A sessions.

This will take place on Sunday 24th May at 9am PDT, 12 pm EDT, 5pm BST, 6pm CEST.

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You will have three hours of uninterrupted access to HG Tudor and his unrivalled information. It is a golden opportunity to be informed and entertained.

This will be a strictly limited audience and is based on first come, first served by obtaining a place in advance. Given current circumstances around the world, I am discounting the cost to just US$ 10 for the first 20 people who apply. Thereafter it will be the usual cost of US$ 15. This represents brilliant value and those who have attended the Q&As previously will attest to how rewarding they are.

A private forum will be created for those attending and for 3 hours you will in the forum be able to ask any and all questions which will be answered for you. You will be able to see other questions and the answers. You will use your blog names for the Q&A so anonymity is preserved.

Once you have secured your place, you will be provided with a short document setting out the rules and a password which will allow you attendance in the forum.

If you are unsuccessful in securing a place, your payment will be refunded. 

This arrangement guarantees you will be able to ask your questions about anything to do with narcissism, narcissists and of course me and get the direct and personal answers. I will not be doing anything else other than deal with the questions that you pose in this forum. No distractions, no delays and the continuity of discussion.

I look forward to receiving your burning questions and most of all, giving you the answers.

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113 thoughts on “Q&A 24th May 2020

  1. truthseeker6157 says:

    HG, sorry to bother you. I booked a place and have the confirmation email but no further documentation yet. Just wanted to be sure I got my place as you mention people will be refunded if the session is oversubscribed. I booked on my main email address not the one linked to this blog, so just wanted to be sure.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You download it from the place you purchased it from.

      1. truthseeker6157 says:

        HG, Found it. Excited! Thank you.

  2. njfilly says:

    I can’t wait for this Q&A, although I have a question now.

    Mr. HG Tudor, what is the status of the reader interviews from “Time of the Tudorites”? I look forward to this with great anticipation!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      A work in progress NJF. My travel through Europe has slowed progress with regard to that, but they will appear.

      1. njfilly says:

        You need to get your priorities in order then.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Pipe down or it´s the glue factory for you!

          1. njfilly says:

            Ha ha! Oh, you are so fucking magnificent! I can’t get enough of you!

          2. HG Tudor says:


        2. Renarde says:


          1. njfilly says:


  3. Bibi says:

    Is that your ass in jeans, HG? I am truth seeking.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is. Truth found.

      1. Bibi says:

        Very nice.

        1. Bibi says:

          Probably the only ‘half-assed’ attempt I have seen from you. Yuk yuk.

      2. Renarde says:


        Hmm! Lovely. Very Daniel Craig-esque!

        1. FYC says:

          In my minds eye, HG is more Stephen Amell of “The Arrow”. A bit lighter hair, a bit older, and that mix of good/bad.

          1. Renarde says:


            Had to google. I wouldn’t kick him out of bed but hes no Craigy. Hes ripped but has he got it going on between the ears as between the legs?

            My jury is out.

          2. FYC says:

            Renarde, I agree if we are talking about the mind. I can’t think of anyone that comes close. That said, I don’t think Craig compares in any way to HG with regards to his mind either. I have no idea what is going on between the legs of either actor, but I’m sure HG can reassure you that neither can hold a candle compared to him.

            Amell lacks HG’s gravitas as well, and Craig has this. Amell might be too young for consideration. Craig is currently about 5 years older than HG. Craig has thiner lips than HG (per description). All have blue eyes. Craig is shorter than HG and Amell is the same height as HG. Neither strikes me as possessing HG’s gravitational pull, wit, charm or humor.

          3. Renarde says:


            Well, this has been a pleasant alternative to sorting out my DVDs for charity!

            Some vitals I knew but height and age I didnt!

            How fascinating! The other things that have made me smile are HG bring referred to a star like being.

            And of course your reassure that HG can reassure me about how good he is.

            That is very…reassuring!💛

            Fancied Craigy when saw him in CR in 2006 at cinema. I looked at my now ex, looked at Craig and thought; I have to trade up here! 6 months gone I was well
            Horny as a fucker!

          4. Presque Vu says:

            Absolutely Renarde, between the ears all day every day!
            I’d say HG is much better than Daniel Craig! Not sure of his appeal other than his character James Bond.

        2. Bibi says:

          I agree about Craig. Ultimately this is more of a shoulder pic than ass pic. His hands look normal. No claws.

          I have seen HG’s legs, feet, shoulders, elbow, hands, neck, I think earlobe at one time. I even caught glimpse of some arm fuzzies in one pic. (He is a mammal.)

          So like my recent quiz score, I am 50% there to seeing a full nude.

          1. FYC says:

            Haha Bibi, Do you keep a scrapbook like HG too?

          2. FYC says:

            Also Bibi, look at the Q & A photo of HG at a computer. You will be able to add hair, ear, neck to your composite.

          3. njfilly says:


            I don’t think it counts as having been seen if we have only seen it clothed. (Speaking about his shoulders, of course).

            I don’t remember seeing his neck. We have also seen his forehead on Instagram.

          4. Violetta says:

            The hair on the desk pic looks dark. Lighting?

            Defo nice hands.

            HG, I hope we’re not objectifying you. Please let us know if we are unwittingly creating a Hostile Blog Environment.

          5. HG Tudor says:

            You are talking about me, that is not a problem.

          6. Renarde says:


            Ha ha! With perseverance, we will get there!

          7. Renarde says:


            The HBE!


            Let’s objectify Hg some more!

            Quite suprised no one has noticed the shoulder to waist ratio.

            And the arms!

      3. Renarde says:

        Lovely hands too.

    2. WhoCares says:

      Way to go on truth-seeking Bibi!

      But someone better check on MB…

      1. Kim e says:


        1. Violetta says:

          Smellin’ salts!

          Ah TOLD yall to be careful around MB!

  4. CandaceMarie says:

    I always enjoy these Q&As 👍

    1. HG Tudor says:

      They are always worth attending.

    2. Kim e says:

      They seem to show a side of HG rarley seen on the blog. I always thiought he seemed more relaxed whether I was in the Live Q&A or reading it afterwards

      1. CandaceMarie says:

        Yeah he is very humourous during the Q&As. I love it!

  5. Violetta says:


    Seriously, if I’m computing the time difference correctly, you gave us a lot of overtime today. It’s especially welcome now with all the additional depression and stress associated with the pandemic.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are correct and you are welcome.

    2. zwartbolleke says:

      Are you joining Violetta?

      1. Violetta says:

        No, ZB, I don’t have any questions at the moment beyond comments on specific articles. Totally looking forward to the Continuing Story of “Bananas” Markle.

        But you said on the forum you wanted to tell me something that wasn’t part of forum discussion. Will you post it here, or have you already posted it somewhere? We keep playing blog tag!

  6. This will be my first Q&A! Super excited.

    1. MB says:

      It’s a blast BC30! You’ll love it.

    2. truthseeker6157 says:

      Mine too black coffee ! Should be fun. Though if a lot are online together I’ll use my party approach, say little and weigh things up from a distance 😂

      1. Renarde says:

        Fairy snuff.

        I’d say give it half an hour and you’ll see it’s fine.

        Been in two.

  7. MB says:

    That’s my birthday! That’s my birthday! *MB does a happy dance*

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Right, I had better practise my rendition of Happy Birthday then.

      1. MB says:

        I’d love that, HG!

      2. FoolMe1Time says:

        Aww HG that would make her day!!

      3. Lorelei says:

        You have the Most lovely birthday surprises! Random ones! Robust ones!

        1. MB says:

          Yes I do Lorelei,and I absolutely love good surprises!

      4. Violetta says:

        Wait, this involves audio? I thought it was written posts.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Sweet Jesus of Nazareth. That’s kitty going in the canal.

          1. Violetta says:

            But you’ll be singing “Happy Birthday” to MB!

            I want an Oompa Loompa to sing “Happy Birthday,” Daddy! I want one NOW!

          2. HG Tudor says:

            I might sing it, I never said she’d hear it. I might type it, so won’t hear it. I might pull up outside her house and there start singing it, but she’d faint and only hear part of it.

          3. FYC says:

            HG, a recording of your singing just might be a bigger seller that the Narc Detector! Perhaps a selection of HG tunes? Or an original score with on-topic lyrics perhaps with you on the piano/keyboards and vocals? How cool would that be?! You know we would line up to pre-purchase that album! Do let us know if it will be a direct download or available on iTunes. Many thanks for expanding your offerings!

          4. HG Tudor says:

            Ha ha, I will have to record a selection of narcissist re-workings of classic songs.

          5. Lorelei says:

            How about a Christmas album? Honestly though—even (and especially) we haven’t had piano or vocal lessons in awhile due to COVID. I just want a bar, live entertainment and alcohol. MB can come!

          6. Violetta says:

            Ah, but think of the indelible thrill of that part before the faint!

            The faintest whiff of Creed Viking will give her Pavlovian euphoria for years to come….

          7. MB says:

            Violetta, if he wears those jeans AND the cologne AND sings……………sorry I fainted at the thought. WHEW!!

          8. Violetta says:

            “So tell us, MB…does he really look like Daniel Craig?”

            “I don’t know …I smelled just a hint of Creed Viking, then I heard this baritone …then everything went black.”

            “You didn’t even get a glimpse? Are his eyes really blue? Are his lips full? Did those jeans look just as good from the–”


            “Dammit, get the smellin’ salts, she’s out cold again!”

          9. MB says:

            Violetta, you crack me up! I wouldn’t be allowed to tell it anyway. There’s most likely an iron-clad non-disclosure agreement I’d have to sign in blood. #fangirlproblems

          10. Lorelei says:

            HG should say that D. Craig looks like him, not the other way around. Not a very ultra statement..

          11. Who is Kitty?

          12. Renarde says:


            ‘A whiff of Creed Viking Pavlovian Euphoria’ is a genious turn of phrase! Genious!

          13. Violetta says:

            Should we try to restrain ourselves? Male readers looking for info on narc abuse might be put off if they click here and see a virtual hen party.

        2. Renarde says:


          I never got a ‘Happy Birthday’


          1. HG Tudor says:

            Deal with it!

          2. Renarde says:

            That’s so mean!

          3. HG Tudor says:

            Deal with it!

          4. Renarde says:

            [Mutter mutter grumble grumble]

          5. Violetta says:


            Fortunately, it is still your un-Birthday.
            A very merry un-Birthday, to you, to you

          6. Renarde says:

            Thankyou Vi. At least someone cares!

          7. HG Tudor says:

            Well you know I don’t, yet I am honest about it.

          8. Renarde says:


            I’ll give you that!

          9. alexissmith2016 says:

            ‘Deal with it!’ mmmm so god damn sexy!

          10. Renarde says:


            Ha ha! And I got two!

            The heats been getting to me these past few days, i can tell you!

          11. alexissmith2016 says:

            I saw! I want two too 💋

          12. Renarde says:

            That made me giggle! Mwah! X

          13. alexissmith2016 says:

            The heat? As in the weather?

          14. Renarde says:

            Oh yes.

          15. Lorelei says:

            I’m on a 0800 COVID conference call and saying hello to Renarde. It’s a mid ranger fuel fest!

          16. Renarde says:


            Way hey!!!

            Go git ’em girl!

          17. Lorelei says:

            Ah Renarde—it takes all my strength. I’ll be in private practice in 3-4 years I anticipate. Very little mid ranger’ism then. Unfortunately, there is more shit to wade through for now.

          18. Renarde says:

            Fingers crossed Lorelei but you dont need luck. You’re talented to do this with her! You’ll do it!

          19. Lorelei says:

            Thanks Renarde.

          20. Bibi says:

            Happy late B-day Renarde. It is inevitable that we all will encounter our birthday during this pandemic.

            And HG does have his way of caring. I have seen it!

          21. Renarde says:

            So I believe Bibi!

            And thank you. I was just being norty though

        3. MB says:

          Which kitty Violetta? Please whisper so as not to disturb you know who or we might get the “Jesus H. Roosevelt Christ!” (Outlander binge watcher 🙋‍♀️)

        4. K says:

          Kitty could be related to Operation Acoustic Kitty, the CIA’s spy cat.

          1. tolauracox says:

            K, Gotcha, bit out of touch Stateside other than Trump’s latest manoeuvres. Brit over here 🇬🇧

          2. K says:

            Hello tolauracox
            I was working the spy angle but it could be Kitty Canal Trips in Woking, too.

          3. HG Tudor says:

            Ha ha, that amused me.

          4. K says:

            Hahahaha…Google pulls up all kinds of things so I chose to go with the CIA’s failed Spy Kitty because it was so funny. It cost 20 million dollars and one of the cats was run over by a taxi. Hilarious!

          5. HG Tudor says:

            From taxi to taxidermist in the blink of an eye. Sucks to be Kitty.

          6. K says:

            Hahahaha….maybe she is on display at The Smithsonian, forever immortalized as a complete fail. Imagine spending all that money only to have the damn cat get run over right away! I was laughing my ass off after I read that.

          7. Lorelei says:

            Lots of catty business here today!

          8. K says:


          9. truthseeker6157 says:

            K, I’m going with canal trips in Woking! 😂

          10. K says:

            Hahaha…can’t say I blame you but the Cloak & Dagger aspect was kinda fun.

      5. fox says:

        I just bought my ticket so I can be there to wish MB a Happy Birthday and join the festivities!

    2. FYC says:

      MB, A very early happy 29th, er, or anniversary of your 29th! What a perfect way to start your special day! 🎁

      1. MB says:

        Thank you FYC! I really do have some special blog friends. (It’s the anniversary of my 39th, but that’s our secret. Shhhh!)

        1. FYC says:

          MB, you do not look a day older from where I sit!🤣 You are the sparkle in the glitter (it just mirrors you!). I hope you have a fabulous day and a great new surprise too!

    3. blackcoffee30 says:

      Happy Birthday, celebrate all week (at least)! Have a drink, have a bubble bath, have fun 🙂

  8. FoolMe1Time says:


    1. MB says:

      I’ll see you there FM1T!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Yes you will!

    2. MB says:

      One caveat…(unless I’m birthing a grandson) in which case I will have to catch up with y’all later!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Oh MB! What a beautiful Birthday present for you that would be! I never thought I could love anyone more then my children! Let me tell you, my kids took a back seat to my grand babies! 🥰

        1. MB says:

          FM1T, I’m very excited! It really could be any day now 😬

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            Oh MB I’m so very happy for you!! You will have to let us all know when the baby arrives! 💞

      2. fox says:

        Wow, congrats MB!

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