I have never known anybody like you. You are amazing. You are so loving, so kind and so gentle. Everything you do makes me happy. I didn’t think that was possible, not after the last person I was involved with. I don’t want to go on about that person for too long, why spoil this wonderful moment eh?

Suffice to say they were not what I thought they were, a con-artist and a charlatan who made me think that they were something else and they took advantage of my good nature. I know you will not do that. I know you are too good a person. It is written all over you. I cannot believe how lucky I am to have found you. I wasn’t really looking but I am sure glad that I have found you. You are amazing. Have I told you that already? I can see you nodding.

Sorry, I am just so excited to have finally found you and I am just so excited about all the adventures and fun we are going to have together. You really are everything that I have ever wanted in a person. There are not enough wonderful adjectives available to describe, there really aren’t.
My friends think I am nuts, but in a good way, because all I do is go on about you. I tell them the places we go to, the marvellous days we spend together and just hat a special, precious and loving person that you are. It restores your faith in human nature after all of the terrible things that have happened, sorry I am mentioning them again, I must stop doing that.

I am all over the place, in the good way, this is what you do to me. Anyway, I tell my friends all about you, all of the time and I know that they are delighted to see me so deliriously happy because they have not seen me like this for some time. I have such plans for you and I. Wonderful, momentous and special plans. I want to tell you all about them now because they are that good, but I am not going to. I don’t want to spoil the surprises.

This feels like my birthday, Christmas, a promotion and a wedding day all rolled into one. I know you might think I am going over the top but this is how happy you make me feel. I feel like I am on fire, fizzing with anticipation and joy. It is truly sensational and it is all down to you. You have brought this out in me. If it wasn’t for you I don’t know what I would have done.

You rescued me and made me smile. You are my world. I mean that. I want to be with you all of the time and forever because you are so giving, so warm, so loving, so considerate, so funny, so attractive and well, just the very, very best. I have told my family about you, naturally and they cannot wait to meet you. I think they are nearly as excited as me. I think of you as soon as I wake up and you are in my thoughts all through the day and as I lie down at night I think of you again and wonder what you are doing and wish I was with you right at that moment.
You move me to the extent that I want to do great things for you and I and everyone else. You inspire me, you drive me and you motivate me. I feel completed now I have you, like nothing can ever hurt me and I know I will never let anything hurt you. That can never happen. I need you and I hope that you need me, we are a partnership and cannot be torn asunder, no matter what the world throws at us.
You will probably have seen my Facebook page littered with all those comments about you. I just feel them welling up inside of me and I have to let them out, give birth to them if you will and let them be shared with the world. It is the right thing to do, to allow such joy and happiness to be shared all around. Why shouldn’t other people be happy as well because we are? I want you.

I want you more than anything I have ever wanted before I will do anything with you. I want us to be together, I want us to be one. I want us to grow old together and still be in love in sixty years as we are now. I know what we have is so special that we can achieve that.
I know I am babbling on but it is all good isn’t it? It is right to be this enthusiastic and excited and I know this is always going to be the case. That gives me so much comfort but again it is all because I know that we can rely on one another, trust one another and support one another.

We are made for one another. Your hands fit mine perfectly, we coil together at night, fitting perfectly around one another. You finished my sentences and I know what you are going to say right before you say it. It is as if we have been forged from the same thing all those years ago, then separated and finally we have been put back together again in order to be happy and why not, we deserve to be happy. You make me happy and I will do the same for you.

I want to tell the world how wonderful you make me feel. I want to take out advertisements in newspapers, on YouTube and on television. I want to shout if from the highest mountain and from the rooftops that I love you.
Am I infatuated? Of course you are. Who wouldn’t be so infatuated when being with someone as gloriously brilliant as me. Now, say that all again to me.

9 thoughts on “Infatuation

  1. Fiddleress says:

    I was truthful when I told him: “You move something deep inside of me.”
    I didn’t realise then that it was my addiction getting into gear.
    Infatuation indeed.

    1. NarcAngel says:


      It’s funny how the meaning of ” You move something deep inside of me” can turn from infatuation to bowel function depending on where you are in the N/E engagement.

      1. blackcoffee30 says:


      2. Fiddleress says:

        Hahaha NarcAngel ! So true. And now that the infatuation is history, I am left with the other version.
        I did think it might sound like something along those lines as I wrote it, but thought “nah, that’s my dirty mind taking over” .
        Not to say you have a dirty mind, of course…

      3. Bubbles 🍾 says:

        Dearest NarcAngel,
        Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  2. 2shel says:

    OMG OMG OMG …and….I just lapped it up, completely oblivious to how it would lead to this. He devalued me, demoralized me, cruelly smeared me publically, and discarded me to re-emesh with his narc mom…..He didn’t even know me anymore – nothing…I was dead to him. Easy come, easy go for him.

    1. lisk says:

      If it helps, I was oblivious, too. Even while he was doing all the devaluing, demoralizing, and discarding, I had difficulty seeing what he was doing.

    2. BabyEmms says:

      Me too 2shel

      It’s soul destroying & can almost kill you, literally but you/we are better than that. I don’t know how far along you are (I’m 6 months) but regardless of time (as every person & situation differs) you WILL get through it, because I will too! I didn’t think even 3 months ago that I could survive it, but I have & I will and you will too OK??

      My biggest pain was what he smeared me with to anyone & everyone who knew me (including myself he made me almost believe the lies) that I was crazy, a slut, a psycho & more. But I have now discarded anyone who buys into his crap (whereas before I was determined to prove the truth to them, no point).

      It’s a very hard thing to do but you need to have that epiphany & awakening & realisation that you ARE the better person so f**k what anyone else thinks or believes. If they believe him, then more fool them. If you know in your heart that you aren’t what he says or they believe the lies then please don’t care about their opinion. I so know that’s easier said than done but once you get that, there’s no going back.

      Lots of love & prayers x

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