“HG, I am decent-looking, have a good job, I am intelligent, caring, fun and interesting. I dress well, I am a dab hand at cooking and nobody has ever complained about my bedroom skills. He has left me for THAT! Why?!”
It is a refrain I have often heard.
Why, when the narcissist could have you, did he go? Why did he choose somebody who appears inferior to you in so many different ways?
What is so good about her or him?
Where have you gone wrong?
Why on earth has he chosen her over you?
Why has the narcissist downgraded?
This gives you the answers. It will not only help you understand, it will make you feel a whole lot better too.