The Narcissist and the Covid-19 Pandemic


A Triple Whammy of Insightful Brilliance!

1. The Narcissist in Covid-19 Lockdown

(Brand new material – released 24th April 2020)

There is a pandemic.

There is a lockdown put in place.

There is a narcissist caught in the lockdown.

What happens to him?

Be fascinated to witness, the narcissist in Covid-19 lockdown.

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2. The Narcissist and Covid-19

(New material – released 5th April 2020)

There is a pandemic. The virus is Covid-19.

HG Tudor, using his unrivalled knowledge of narcissists and the narcissist dynamic analysis how the current pandemic is affecting narcissists and what they do.

In this detailed book, he covers four key areas

– What the virus means to the narcissist

– What the virus means to your no contact regime

– What the virus means to your position in the fuel matrix

– An analysis of how a lockdown scenario would affect each and every sub school of narcissist

This book is filled with unrivalled, unique and practical information for you during this time of crisis. Whether merely curious or in need of essential knowledge to beat the narcissist during the pandemic, THIS is the publication everybody needs to read.

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3. The Narcissist and Covid-19 : The Narc Interviews

(New material – released 21st March 2020)

HG Tudor takes you through a range of interviews undertaken by the fictional Seymour Storees as he allows you to understand the viewpoints and attitudes of all of the sub schools of narcissist with regard to the current pandemic.

By utilising an entertaining yet informative approach, HG takes you through the mind of the narcissist in a revealing and unique way.

Get to understand how the Lower Lesser, the Upper Mid-Ranger, The Middle Greater and all the other sub schools of narcissist are seeing the Covid-19 crisis.

An entertaining yet accurate portrayal of the interaction between the narcissist and the media. See who you recognise in the portrayals!

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Do you know somebody who is involved with a narcissist but has not yet realised? Use these books as a way of getting them to “wake up” by matching the information they read with regard to the response to the pandemic by narcissists, to the behaviour that they are witnessing from a spouse, partner, family member or friend. 

47 thoughts on “The Narcissist and the Covid-19 Pandemic

  1. Another Cat says:

    A while ago a few commenters reflected on whether there are any empathic world leaders left at all.

    In this pandemic, epidemiologist Anthony Fauci and WHO boss Tedros Adhanom strike me as empathic folks, reflecting, holding themselves accountable, etc. Can’t point finger on it but they don’t seem super rigid sure of themselves. Good sign.

    1. Another Cat says:

      Though after reading some comments about him in another post, I’m not supersure about Fauci.

    2. alexissmith2016 says:

      A Cat, i don’t know anything about either of them. But from a brief look at their photos I’d say Fauci is 1000% Narc for sure. Adhanom looks a little friendlier but likely just a facade, I’d take a punt on him being a narc too.

      There is a way to find out – fire 20 bullets…

      1. Another Cat says:

        Thanks Alexis,
        definitely on my list even though Child Defender goes before in time, says current budget.

        Guess I got the image of Fauci as empathic comparing him with the image of Trump. Constantly on the news has been the following: Fauci warning that opening up is too soon, regarding the pandemic.

        But yes, looking at some statements yesterday about covid-19 being out of control in America, he has that little corner of the mouth smile. Fuel?

  2. Cat says:

    Can’t explain how sad I am for what he did to you and your children. Feels stronger than anger. As Alexis Smith says, really really wish he was behind bars.

    1. Renarde says:


      Thankyou. Just caught this. A I can do is speak my perception of truth.

      But thank you x

  3. step says:

    When a female narc come back..
    “the coronavirus made me understand my mistakes…”
    lol 🙂

    (Not “mine”, my uncle’s gf).

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  5. Renarde says:

    I read Hgs latest Covid story. Bloody hell. He accurately transcribed a relationship I once had with a LMS. Frightening.

    The punch at the end is eerily reminiscent of Roald Dahl and his Tales of the Unexpected. In that you sense it coming but when it hits. Wow. Very dark

    I’ve been thinking about Dahl and Hg a lot these past few weeks. Dahl was an utterly exceptional writer. He was clearly a narc and a sexual sadist to boot. But he spanned two maybe three genres. That’s hard. To write for both children and adults. But his writing for adults was filled with cruelty towards women. The title ‘Switch Bitch’ speaks volumes.

    I say three because he also wrote his own autobiography Boy and Going Solo. His description of what he did to the local witch who ran the sweetshop is genious. I can thoroughly imagine my boy doing what he did

    In point of fact he tried four. He wanted to write a ghost story. He thought he had it and upon reading back; not up to snuff so he junked it.

    MR James wrote ‘Whistle and I’ll come to you’. Dickens, ‘The Signelman’ and who can forget ‘The Woman in Black?. Based on MR James, of course.

    I’d love a really good, tight ghost story from Hg.

    Please and thank you.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      When time allows it will be provided.

      By the way, you always write your own autobiography!

      1. Renarde says:

        Oh ha ha!

        Be careful Boss. I might write yours!

      2. Violetta says:

        Not if you’re Alice B. Toklas.

        1. Renarde says:

          I dont know this miscreant but I’m sure I wont like her. I’ll goggle her later.

          A few months ago, a NS regular got very giddy about being invited into Hgs Dungeon of the Grotesque.

          So I started to write in my head. It was EXTREMELY dark. In point of fact, I know it’s too much. When I write my erotica, I write under a male name. I could write like Mills and Boon but I dont want too. Such silliness.

          So in my head and the story which is written leaves me waking up in bed in Tudor Towers. As I blink into consciousness, I see a white car propped up on the bed stand

          In beautiful copper plate it reads,

          ‘There is water and paracetamol on the night stand. I am now busy. The car will come for you when you are ready’.


          ‘Be very careful what you wish for.’

          Dear Sir


    2. alexissmith2016 says:

      Renarde, unrelated issue. Not sure whether you and I had a brief discussion some time ago now re George Michael and what type of empath he was or whether this was another reader? I have a terrible memory!

      HG had confirmed GM was not an N, and if my memory serves me correctly that he was an E but HG wouldn’t indicate which type of E. If HG had not confirmed GM was not an N, I would have suspected he might have been an N, mainly because the majority of celebs are, and he has some narcy self indulgent traits. He also supported many good causes, I would however have put this down to facade management etc. That said, I have always liked him.

      Anyway, now we know he is an E. Listening to some of his music last night my husband was briefly explaining to me about his battle with Sony and how the album ‘Listen without prejudice’ came about. On that basis I suspect he is an SE. Your thoughts or anyone else’s as always, very welcome.

      1. Renarde says:


        Oh, now that is a bit of good news that he was an E. Ive always loved him but only after he left Wham. Nowt wrong with their music but not really my cup of tea. Edge of Heaven stands out.

        Faith. Still listen to that. I want your sex is really quite something but Father Figure is the one that gets me (bet Hg is rolling his eyes at that one!).

        GM managed to get himself into some bizarre, civil and contractual legal issues. Wham split up because of an utterly restrictive contract and yes I also recall there were issues around LWOP.

        If you of a mind, there was a fantastic South Bank Show documentary on him. Way back when. I am a musician and in that doc, he said how he was sick of samples from James Browns ‘funcky drummer’ all over the charts. So he said, I’m going to do something else with it. And he showed in the studio how he did it.

        Then there was ‘Flawless…Go to the City’ which samples a really good dance track but which, he twists. Still listen to that too. Far better than the original. Genious. So glad hes not a unaware N.

        If I’ve met a SE, I’ve never recognised one that I can be certain. Its possible hes was actually a CD.

        I once read an example where he was watching a game show. He donated to a woman who had being going through a very rough time. That only came out after his death. Which I think demonstrates a lack of facade management. Do the good deed when no one is watching.

        No idea on cadre and not even sure on school tbh. I do know that my narc traits of pride and defiance have taken me on a long and brutal path.

        I wouldnt be suprised if GM hadnt been betrayed a lot. That night well have been throwing something else into the mix.

        Fascinating question though. RIP George. Gone but not forgotten.

        1. alexissmith2016 says:

          Really interesting Renarde. You always have great points to make! Yes I love Father figure too. I think my ultimate favorites are ‘Praying for time’, sends a chill down me, plus I reckon this is where HG got the notion that ‘hope’ is not such a good word ahahaha Bloody Ns, always stealing from others.

          My other favorite is ‘Outside’. Love that! I just really resonate with it. I think because whenever I have a problem, I confront it head on. No matter what it might be I don’t hide away from it, I’ll front out anything. So although I’ve not been caught having sex outside – not yet anyway! (I am kidding again obviously) I love the way he came back with that.

          Yes, he could be CD. I don’t know too much about him. I love his music and always found him warm. That said, I also found Alan shearer pretty warm too! How wrong was I on that one. Shearer has twinkly eyes too! Based on Shearer. And the lovely Paul Hollywood who also has twinkly eyes. I’m going to add to the list of N traits people who have eyes that twinkle!

          1. Renarde says:


            Thankyou! I do try to make my points interesting and somewhat relevant!

            I certainly agree ‘Outside’ is only a good song which I’ve had a good dance to in my day but it is a snark work of pure genious. Didnt go down too well with the judge I note. Which is somewhat of a hypocrisy when we all know what they get up to! Caught in a honey trap. Well done LAPD! One less queer off the streets!

            I found him warm too. But missus, Shearer! I remember him when he played for Blackburn Rovers. And as for Hollywood with his Plastic Scouse voice! I used to mimic him endlessly when he came on the TV. In fact the UMS and I used to see which one of us could do it better. He would always win because he was plastic too.

            I’m getting wery wery worried about you madam!

          2. alexissmith2016 says:

            Worried lol re my taste in men? I mean they’re pretty sexy! Who would you go for?

            I guess Delle Alle would be my preferred choice but he’s a bit too old for me if I’m honest

          3. Renarde says:


            What a leading question! My men must be men. They need to be able to wrestle me to the ground and give me spank on the arse whilst they are doing it!

            Then take me doggy style whilst pressing their hand around my throat. I get all unnecessary then!

            I’m not sure when my sexuality started but it was VERY young. I remember fancying Harrison Ford when I was barely 2. I was kissing the next door neighbour at 3. At 5 I started to have fantasies of men dominating me. Actually, come to think of it, I was a rum ‘un. I actually lost my V when I was 17. Not that I didn’t have offers, I just knew that I wasn’t ready.

            When I felt I was ready, I went on the pill for a month, insisted on a condom and then I did it. Goodness me, I was very controlled!

          4. alexissmith2016 says:

            I admire you’re openness Renarde! Wow! thank you for sharing. And do you find the normals/empaths are able to live up to being ‘men’, sexually I mean? or is it something narcs are capable of?

            It certainly sounds like you were fully in control of losing your V which is beautiful.

            Are you open in RL too Renarde, I really love how you are.

          5. Renarde says:


            I have achieved everything in my life I’d ever dreamed of. But I dont percieve I have ever been with a normal or empathic man. I’ve never known true love.

            I’m totally open in RL. What you see is what you get. However, I practise what I call ‘The Game’.

            The Game is when im out and about, I open myself up. That is, I open my Chakras. I do this deliberately so I can sense narcs.

            It works best in a crowd. It’s not infallible though. I sometimes struggle and especially so if I’ve formed a bond with them. This was of course pre-weaponisation and during weaponisation.

            Only today, a friend said he was ‘heartbroken’ because of my actions. Oh dear. I had known him for ten years. No sexual attraction from me to him. But of course, he revealed his intentions. He wants to take ‘pictures’ of me. After lockdown. Hes into Boudoir photography.

            This man was placed in a position of trust by the Court. Concerning my children. He couldnt stop himself. Has a disabled wife. To say I still incandescently angry is an understatement.

            But thank you for you very kind words x

          6. alexissmith2016 says:

            Awww you sound gorgeous Renarde xxx I’m confused though, your photographer friend is an N? Or irrelevant he is simply attracted to you, wants to take naughty photos and you’re not down for that? Ooh hang in just read the additional part re being in a position of trust concerning your children. Blimey! He sounds like a wanker. So did you know him before this position of trust or only after?

          7. Renarde says:


            To say I am beyond fuming is a understatement. He was placed in a position of trust by the Court. He was the intermediary between the sexually sadistic ex. The one that raped me. He knew all of this.

            So for some reason, probably a change in his fuel matrix, he started to press his pathetic suit.

            It wasn’t so much what he said but the way he said it. ‘I want to take pictures of you’. No discussion, negotiation. So he believes he owns me. So yes a narc. MM on cadre not so sure. Could be a C.

            I knew this man for about 11 years. From time to time he would say I’m beautiful, not so much though that it made me feel uncomfortable.

            He will never understand what he has done. He was the fire break between a man who had drove me to suicide on three occasions. And of course the link to my children.

            When I made my descion for full NC with him, I emailed the Court and my ex saying this man is not to be trusted.

            What does the ex do? He completely disregards my wishes and emails the friend.

            The friend emails me, forwarding the message with the word ‘Heartbroken’

            Oh, I’m sorry. Heartbroken that you cant take pictures of my cunt? That you can wank over later?

            So yesterday I did something that flies in the face of Hgs advice. Two emails. The first to the ex where I spelled it out to him what he has done, that he should be in gaol. The second to the friend. Where I elucidated his sex pest status. To stay away from me and my children. Apparently threating his car with Alex the Axe wasnt strong enough.

            Heartbroken? What a tit.

            Thank you for your kind words x

          8. He sounds like a disposable human being Renarde. If I was the court I’d lock them both up together for you. So sorry you’ve had to go through all of this. Huge big cyber hug xx

          9. Renarde says:


            And hugs gratefully recieved! x

            The UMS should be in gaol for what he has done. Rape alone would have been enough. I’m having a hard time getting over this. I’ve dealt with men like the friend many times. It’s that link you see.

            When I walked out of Court in March, I felt like I now really had the divorce. Full NC. That was such a huge relief.

            Now he’s caused me emotional anguish, I had to slap the UMS back down when he sought to make capital. It will now cause me money to get the order ammended and his name stricken from it.

            Now if he had said, I have ideas for bedroom photography, are you interested, I would have refused. That’s a part of my life that’s been and gone. Just intimate partners now.

            How ever, advising him, I could have done. I guarantee that my mind is darker and more deviant than his.

            Thank you for the support. Writing about it is helping. x

          10. alexissmith2016 says:

            *despicable. damn autocorrect

          11. Renarde says:


            I reported him to the police tonight. A female friend urged me to do so. Repeatedly. The thought hadn’t even occured because I have no faith in the police.

            But I did it anyway. If only to save some other poor, unfortunate female, down the line.

            Excuse my French but the fully entitled moutherfucker. No one owns me. I’d rather draw the warm bath, drink, copious amounts of gin and slit my wrists.

            If and I mean IF I give the gift of my submission, it will be to a man who truly deserves it. Not one one who attempts to Dom me with his weasel words.

            What dear old Mr E has spectuatly failed to understand is how, urm, what was it Hg said? Oh yes. I remember. How defiant I am.

            Anyways. Might get a call from the cops tonight. More likely a request to attend a nick.

            What larks! This should be fun!

          12. alexissmith2016 says:

            Oh Jees! That must have been a gruelling experience. I hope the police treated you well.

            You are most definitely one of the most defiant people I have ever interacted with Renarde. They should all know better by now than to mess with you!

          13. HG Tudor says:

            Such defiance will repeatedly be hijacked by elevated emotional thinking which leads to the application of Flawed Logic. It is important to recognise this and respond to it.

          14. Renarde says:


            They did indeed. When I said three attempts to contact me in what? Say three hours? His ears pricked up and said, ‘Yes, that’s stalkerish’.

            I’m still confused as to what charged with him. Something else maybe that happened in the matrix that I am unaware of? Just goes to show,doesn’t it?

            You missus have been a diamond! X

          15. alexissmith2016 says:

            I have no idea why he changed? Like you say a change in the fuel matrix perhaps? It really does go to show. It’s much worse when you’ve known someone for a long time and you’ve considered them to be a good friend and then they turn out not to be. I know there were a few shockers for me when I first started learning about other Ns post knowledge. And awww thanks R you’re such a sweetie xxx

          16. Renarde says:


            Again thank you x

            I’ve been sat here tonight wondering, just wondering. And perhaps the closest thing I can get to is that apart from fuel, he wanted something for nothing. He demanded it. He felt entitled to it.

            Bizarrely and because of the close degree of familial connections in all of this, I need to push something into the matrix through my family. That Mr E was reported to the Police last night.

            So I get into a very intresting conversation with PN today. PN taught me everything I knew about photography.

            I explain about what he did and he said a firm and clear no. IF he wanted that, and let’s face it, its glamour photography, you rent a studio and pay the model. I hadnt quite seen it in that light before but he is absolutly correct. You want it. You pay for it. The model signs the Model Waivers Release form. It’s all above board and more importantly, chaperones are present. Such an old phrase but absolutly vital for the safety of the model.

            I remember once, a photographer approached me, ostensibly on taking pictures. Said, oh I will give you £300 if you sex cam for me. That was a very big mistake as because of my own connections, he was immediately blacklisted in England from the known kink events organisers. But of course, all we did was push him underground.

            I must admit that PN and I did have a very amusing conversation today. A so called ‘bedroom session, I will not use that word, cost the usually female sitter upwards of roughly £500. The results I’ve seen are shocking. Wrapping your client in 100 meters of voile and smearing the filter of your SLR with half a ton of vaseline, does not maketh a good picture.

            Lazy, lazy photography. You kind of look at it and I think, is there a fog in the room?

            There is something beautiful in every sitter. The challenge is for you to find it. That’s your job. And most certainly not make them look like a tit.

            Something for nothing, eh?

          17. alexissmith2016 says:

            PN sounds like a clear boundary person. yup never give anything for nothing Renarde. xx

          18. Renarde says:

            Yup! Oh he’s very clear on his boundaries whilst trampling over mine! What a card! X

          19. alexissmith2016 says:

            They’re good at that Renarde! x

          20. Renarde says:


          21. alexissmith2016 says:

            My hormones are raging today Renarde. listening to a bit of sting right now. God I want to have sex with him

          22. Violetta says:


            There may be things worth suicide, but Fuckhead isn’t one of them. I can guarantee this without having met him.

            If you want to kill yourself, you’re going to have to think of a much better excuse than Fuckhead.

          23. Renarde says:


            Ha ha! That made me laugh! No, not suicidal, just a little bit ‘aggreieved’.

            I havnt gone to a bit ‘mildly pissed off’ since the Falklands. Our corned beef supplies were threatened!

            I was a ‘tad concerned’ at my ex.

            And yes, I have been watching Python tonight.

            I believe that the last time the British went to a little bit jolly angry was during the Blitz.

            Concerned tonight to know if Oriel had sustained criminal damage vis a vis the statue of Rhodes.

            I shall proffer those professors of this ancient bastion a nice cup of tea until they can understand the error of their ways. Which of course, they will not.

            People in positions of priveledge always feel the loss when others demand their fair share of equality.

            Anyway, how are you?

          24. Violetta says:



            I hated my job once the new administration took over, but now I don’t have one.

            If I get another job, I will probably not be depressed anymore; I’ll just complain how much I hate it.

      2. Lorelei says:

        Alexis—you think he’s a super empath because he battled with Sony? It would take more to decipher—if he felt compelled to promote his work any number of traits could be exposed and thrust into action.

        1. Presque Vu says:

          I think George Michael was 100% a super empath!! I watched the documentary on him and he stands up for his rights, takes on a giant in the music business who is treating him unfairly, he fights for truth and for good, he takes no shit! At times I thought he was a narc, but then I truly saw him, he didn’t need the attention, he wanted love, he wanted one, he was often lonely, he was gifted and talented but did not want to appear in videos anymore, he gave to charity without anybody knowing, he made mistakes and writes songs about them taking the piss out of himself and the police, he had lifelong friends who adored him, I never saw one celebrity say a bad thing about him. He writes from the heart, truly deeply a tortured soul who sings the lyrics in such a way it makes you cry. ‘Different corner’ got me completely and it was one of the last songs I sent to narcx. He then sent me ‘one more try’… I was a ball of snot… purely because the way George sings them! I couldn’t listen to George for a good year after we split. But then I thought fuck it, he’s not taking what I like away from me! … ‘fast love or Jesus to a child’.. the guy was a genius, a tortured super empath genius!

          1. HG Tudor says:

            He was not one of ours.

          2. Presque Vu says:

            Thank you HG For confirming he is not a Narc. Is he a Super Empath or are you uncertain due to lack of analysis? I was sure he was because he’s known heartbreak, he expresses the utter depth of despair through his lyrics. When Anselmo died he wrote ‘Jesus to a child’ beautiful beautiful song for him. What really made me think he’s a super empath was the way he took the courts on, the way he reacted when he was arrested for lewd behaviour and being outed for being gay he wrote ‘outside’. He owned all of his mistakes, went to prison, drug offences the lot, called himself stupid but did not defer the blame to anyone else. The good he did was behind closed doors. The profits from ‘last Christmas’ and ‘Jesus to a child’ we’re given to charity… he gave so much that it was only known after his death. He did not have a facade, he was matter of fact and took a stand against injustice. He had the serenity and grace you talk about. I’d say magnet super empath if I had to guess. If so, it’s great to see a real life celebrity we can attach that label to. We do it for narcs but I’ve not seen one for an empath unless I’ve missed it.

          3. HG Tudor says:

            I understood that the rights from Last Christmas were provided to Andrew Ridgeley so he would also have a yearly income from the royalties.

          4. Presque Vu says:

            Apologies I wasn’t clear, he donated them for that song in 1984 some charity thing for Ethiopia. Ongoing I do believe you’re right. .. is he? Is he…. is he? …. I’m dying to know! MSE? Please be nice and answer, I feel like Alexis awaiting an answer which most likely will not be answered 😆

        2. Alexissmith2016 says:

          Oooh I was thinking of you today Lorelei and wondering how you are. I only just saw your reply. Hmmm I have no idea what he was tbh only thst HG said he wasn’t an N. I think if I say SE, I’ll get some others commenting and I’m really interested to know what others think. Aww so glad you’re still around – although that was six days ago now? X

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