Why Grey Rock Does Not Work

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Many people advocate the use of Grey Rock when dealing with the narcissist.

Other people use it and believe that it is effective.

It is not.

This logic bulletin sets out in a clear and succinct manner why we as narcissists are actually relishing grey rock, how it gives us what we want, how you are conned into thinking it is working and how you are actually making your life far harder than it needs to be.

Build your logic defences and understand why grey rock does not work.

Stop making mistakes.

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3 thoughts on “Why Grey Rock Does Not Work

  1. hopeless says:

    Hello,

    I’ve been reading your site and it seems to me that although non-narcissists claim the “grey rock” method is effective, it most likely isn’t because it gives the narcissist the following types of “fuel”:

    1- Silence is your complicity (they feel powerful because what they are saying to you — positive or negative –isn’t being challenged. Thus they would feel superior by being “right” in what they say.)

    2- Since they re-write history, you don’t need to say or do anything to be cast in the role of saint/villain. Your presence along gives fuel.

    I arrived at #2 because of several encounters with my sibling who completely re-wrote the history of interactions even when I was being very careful of what was said in an email/phone conversation.

    If you are present, you are a player in the narcissists reality and therefore the interaction and your character can be changed to suit the need for fuel. I imagine it’s much weaker than a lively interaction, but it’s still there.

    Thanks,

    1. lisk says:

      Great line, hopeless: “If you are present, you are a player in the narcissists reality and therefore the interaction and your character can be changed to suit the need for fuel.”

      Makes me want to rewrite another great line:

      All the world’s a narc’s stage,
      And all the empaths merely players

      1. hopeless says:

        I like the re-write :-).

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