20 Million


20 million hits for Knowing the Narcissist

A short time ago, Knowing the Narcissist achieved 20 million hits.

To celebrate this milestone and to thank you all for your involvement in the creation of the world’s number one resource for understanding narcissism for this weekend only you will access to The 20 For 20.

Unveiled in two parts, you will have access to a range of products and services for the outrageously low price of US $ 20.

This is Part One of The 20 for 20.

Book Bundle One

The Weaponised Empath

The Fuel Matrix Double Pack

Triple Pack : Narc Repellant, Narc Vision and Future Protection

Shelf Appliances Double Pack

Seize Control Double Pack

Knowing the Narcissists Double Pack

How to Tackle Emotional Thinking

The Final Battle : How to Stop Thinking About the Narcissist

How to Stop the Hoovers

Seize the power TODAY as these will never be repeated.

142 thoughts on “20 Million

  1. Tired says:

    Well done , and congratulations!!!
    Not sure what state I’d be in if I hadn’t found you.
    I think your blog will soon become the only place people trust for an accurate in depth description of narcs behaviors, and how to escape them with the least amount of emotional and financial damage.

    Best wishes,


    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you.

  2. Leanne says:

    Hello HG.

    Congratulations on your 20 million! Well done

    I have a couple questions if you have time:.

    1. How do I leave a review on a DL purchase from the knowledge files? (Things have changed since my last visit)

    2. Have you written Contagion yet? 🌻

    Many thanks, love your work, as always.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. You cannot leave reviews (other than stars) on GR, but if you want to send me a review of a product I can add it to the testimonials section.
      2. Partially.

  3. Caroline says:

    Hello HG Tudor

    Congratulations and you deserve the recognition. I have just listened to your audio about twenty famous narcissists. It was very interesting, but I was so surprised about (spoiler removed) being on the list. Wow!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Caroline.

  4. Narc noob says:

    20 million erh? That is some achievement for embryonic stage. My friend asked me how many hits of these were mine. Ha!

  5. Julie Petkovska says:

    Congratulations on hitting 20million.. your talents are limitless! Well done

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Julie

  6. Anna Belle Black says:

    There was a boy (HG)
    A very strange enchanted boy

    They say he wandered very far, very far
    Over land and sea
    A little shy and sad of eye
    But very wise was he

    And then one day
    A lucky day he passed my way
    Then we spoke of many things

    Fools and kings
    Then he said to me:
    “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn
    Is to love and be loved in return”

    Oh and use your logic always.

    Happy 20 Million!! 💙💙💙💙💙

    1. truthseeker6157 says:

      I love that song. Especially the Moulin Rouge version. More dramatic.

      1. Ren says:


        Urm who fo you think Renarde might have been based upon?


        To be fair, there are two others.

        1. Renarde,

          This made me laugh. How did I not join the dots?!

          Misfires all over the shop lately xx

    2. Ren says:

      Oh I love that!

  7. Bibi says:

    HG, what of doing The Weaponised Empath before doing the Empath test? What if I am some Mid Ranger or some boring ass Normal? What if I am a total shithead?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Then do the Empath Detector first.

    2. K says:

      Normals really are nose down and I do think they can be boring.

      1. Intrepid Traveller says:

        I do think empaths have a lot of depth and connect to each other. That’s probably why we are attracted And connect to narcissists – they mirror our empathy so we are fooled. It’s a paradox to me that I have never been involved with an empath as a boyfriend though I do think I’ve had dates with normals but they’ve never gone very far to the point of a relationship as I suspect I found them boring. Why doEs it seem that all the empath men get tied up with narcissist women and vice versa? Irony of life?

        1. lickemtomorrow says:

          It is an irony, and one which I think HG explains very well in terms of the narcissist’s attraction to empaths and the empaths addiction to narcissists.

          Call it a ‘fatal attraction’.

          Pretty sure everything we need to combat that we will find right here.

        2. MommyPino says:

          I personally don’t find the comments that Normals as boring accurate as my husband is a Normal and he is far from boring. He’s one of the funniest people I have ever met. Most of his patients don’t just like him, they actually really love him. They bring him little gifts like food or stuff that they made and they love telling him their life stories. When his patients see me somewhere in public they have to tell me how amazing he is. I think that it really depends on the individual person.

  8. FYC says:

    Preface: Apologies for my tardy response, but it took a bit of time to pull this together:

    What an Ultra unique and magnificent achievement reaching 20 million hits in 2020! Congratulations! The sun will shine longer in recognition of your success (21:44 GMT summer solstice), and the jealous new moon will even align to bask briefly in your brilliant light (2:41 a.m. EDT).

    Of course, I would gladly recount the many ways you have given all of us such remarkable gifts by sharing your knowledge, wisdom and insight, but it seems more fitting on this auspicious occasion to honor your passing of this monumental milestone with 20 Ultra highlights of the beginning of HG Tudor’s legacy:

    1. August 31, 2015, HG Tudor launches the Knowing the Narcissist at narcsite.com. The same year, HG launches his presence on several social media platforms, and offers his now best-selling books on all aspects of narcissism on Amazon.
    2. HG Tudor demonstrates precisely how “A point of view can be a dangerous luxury when substituted for insight and understanding.” M. McLuhan
    3. By 2016, HG Tudor launches his Knowing the Narcissist YouTube Channel.
    4. On August 13, 2016 HG Tudor reaches one million hits on KTN in under one year. By December 9 of the same year, HG Tudor would double that achievement.
    5. By November 2016, HG Tudor make the bold move to offer his readers an invitation to enlist a dark mind, thereby commencing the first private consultations offering bespoke solutions to millions.
    6. In January 2017, HG launches “A Very” series. This deeply informative and revealing series boldly exposes the behavior of famous narcissists and invites new readers from around the world to begin to understand the often misunderstood behaviors of Ns at every level of society.
    7. On February 20, 2017, HG Tudor accelerates to reach 3 million hits, and without a moment’s pause achieves 4 million hits by the very next month (April 26, 2017), and by June 25th of the same year, HG rounded the 5 million hit mark with ease.
    8. HG illustrates the truth of this quote: “It is said that wisdom lies not in seeing things, but seeing through things.” M.P. Hall
    9. On May, 2017, HG launches Zero Impact, a personal favorite of mine, offering critical knowledge, inspiration and instructive wisdom for all empaths. An absolute necessity for anyone who has been affected by a N.
    10. On March 10, 2018, HG Tudor blazes forward exponentially by doubling his hits to 10 million.
    11. By July, 2018, HG launches the Narc Detector, now recognized as the quintessential key to learning about the narcissist in your life.
    12. On February 4, 2019, HG Tudor launches the Empath Detector, providing self-awareness to all empaths the world over.
    13. In July, HG takes on HBO with a unique series of challenge to analyze the characters of “Big Little Lies.” Explosive responses result and empaths are educated to new heights.
    14. In June of 2019, HG Tudor launches the House of Tudor to the delight of his fans.
    15. By September, HG Tudor launches the Angel Assistance Fund by popular demand in answer to the overwhelming demand of HG’s counsel by those who cannot otherwise access his invaluable counsel.
    16. In December of 2019, HG surprises and delights his readers with a series of memorable holiday offerings including exceptional audio performances, stunning visuals and a truly unique and fitting holiday court series for our education and entertainment.
    17. Early February, 2020, HG launches The Knowledge Vault offering his renown assistance packages, logic bulletins, books, Q&A access, special holiday offerings and so much more.
    18. In March, HG Tudor launches his exceptional Trait Detector consultation, offering unparalleled insight into each consultee’s unique bundle of empathic and narcissistic traits and how these traits may affect interactions.
    19. By April, 2020, HG launches the Knowing HG series, offering a rare glimpse into the secrets of HG’s personal life and experiences, and into the impetus behind his Grand Design.
    20. In just two years after passing the 10 million mark, on June 20, 2020, HG Tudor once again doubles his hits with a record 20 million!

    Given your remarkable qualities and successful history, we are not surprised in the least, but we are most proud of your many, many achievements. We are forever grateful for your time, dedication, expense and consideration. So please, join us in a toast of Deutz, in your honor HG, here’s to your next 200 million hits!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you FYC, I enjoyed reading my milestones.

      1. FYC says:

        You are most welcome, HG, and thank you again.

    2. lickemtomorrow says:

      FYC, how wonderful you took the time to pay this tribute to HG and provide a highlight reel of his many achievements. As a recent newcomer, there is so much that I wasn’t aware of and am glad to be brought up to date. It is indicative of HGs dedication to his followers and the volume of work is outstanding. Everyone could get something out of a visit to this site, and the hits provide the hope many are.

      Grateful for your effort in putting this together. I had no idea. My timing in joining seems somewhat opportune 🙂



      1. FYC says:

        LET, Thank you for your very words and you are most welcome. I am so glad you enjoyed reading my brief list of milestones in honor of HG. Honestly there is so very much more left out. HG is deserving of a much longer list, but I mostly wanted to thank HG for all of the work that has gone into reaching this fantastic milestone. I am glad you are here LET, and no matter when we arrive, the timing is always opportune indeed! Cheers!

        1. FYC says:

          Sorry, LET, just waking up here, That should say, “Thank you for your very *kind* words…” they were appreciated.

          1. lickemtomorrow says:

            I have an ability to read between the lines, FYC.

            I never even noticed 😉

        2. lickemtomorrow says:

          Thank you, too, FYC 🙂

          Your contribution helped to ‘frame’ what has been happening here while some of us have been elsewhere (in the grip of narcissists!), and it’s good to get the background.

          Milestones are always good opportunities for doing this as well. And what a milestone it is.

          Good to see you at the Q&A last night and the next round of questions are already forming 😉

          1. FYC says:

            Hi LET, It was good to see you on the Q&A as well. I find each Q&A always leads to more Qs! I look forward to them all.

            I thank you for your comment about ‘framing’ and I very much understand about N induced myopia! Sometimes it can just be difficult to breathe much less see the bigger picture.

            The reason I wrote this tribute, is because there is so much more that goes into achieving 20 million hits than most would ever realize. Everything single thing HG has done — all the time and money he has invested, all the decisions he makes, everything he reveals, everything he creates, and every comment he moderates — lead to this remarkable achievement and it is phenomenal. I hoped he would enjoy this form of gratitude and congratulations, because he has given us all so much that is priceless.

    3. NarcAngel says:

      Great rundown FYC!

      1. FYC says:

        Thank you, NA. HG’s progress is truly impressive by any standard. Thank you for being here and staying to be a part it all.

    4. WhoCares says:


      Nicely laid out!
      Very impressive, reading all those achievements of HG’s over the years.

      1. FYC says:

        Thank you, WhoCares. The real, much longer list of HG’s many achievements, is even more impressive!

        1. WhoCares says:

          I bet!

    5. Violetta says:

      I started reading regularly only this last Autumn, and even in that time, the growth in both material and readers has been remarkable.

      By growth, I don’t just mean numbers. I’ve seen people posting who were nearly incoherent with confusion and fear when they started, and they are now calm and thinking clearly. People who didn’t have a clue what their next move should be have by now made the moves HG recommended, and got out of situations that ranged from depressing to downright terrifying.

      People whose behavior never made sense to me, from my Frenemy in Jr. High to the woman in grad school who glared in total rage at other students if the instructor liked their comments, had drives I can now understand to some extent, even if I don’t share them.

      1. FYC says:

        Excellent perspective, V. We have all grown as a result of reading and interacting with HG in so many ways. That kind of education is invaluable and changes our lives forever for the better.

    6. njfilly says:

      Wow! Great tribute!

      1. FTC says:

        Thank you, Filly, HG is most deserving.

        1. njfilly says:

          Yes, I agree!

  9. njfilly says:

    Congratulations on 20 million Mr. HG Tudor!

    (Part two is heaven).

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you NJF, it certainly is, I urge people to make use of it and the other reduced prices to the fullest extent.

  10. MommyPino says:

    Congratulations HG! You deserve your success!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you MP.

  11. Geminimom says:

    Congratulations! 🎉🎈

    See you on Sunday.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you GM

  12. NarcAngel says:

    20 Million. No small feat, especially given that it’s such tough subject matter. Exemplary work HG.


    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you NA

  13. Oh my oh my oh my……

    Quick question, is there a limit to the number of HG minutes you can buy?
    Also, Just out of interest, what are your hard limits ?

    What?! I am not the only one thinking that !

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No limit.
      You really should be asking yourself what your limits are.

      1. Ok, done that.

        Can’t wait for you to hit 30 million! 🤔

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Neither can I, I can put the prices up!

          1. Hahaha

            Have to admit to finding this funny. I’m imagining your reaction to the various requests coming in. You are game, I’ll give you that.

    2. TS oh god no way ahahahahahah

      Jees I hadn’t thought it until now. I just wanted my car cleaned

      1. truthseeker6157 says:

        Here to help Alexis (smirk)

  14. MGM says:

    Congratulations, HG! You’re smart, talented and articulate. Happy to see you succeed with your blog.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you MGM

  15. 1jaded1 says:

    Whoo and hoo. Congrats HG.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you 1 Jaded

      1. 1jaded1 says:

        You are most welcome. Looking forward to when you achieve 100k followers. Almost there. Yay.

  16. A383 says:

    HG, many congratulations and for all your invaluable, life-changing advice over the years. Thank you. Looking forward to tomorrow evening. x

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you A383

  17. Empath007 says:

    One thing I really value and respect is honesty. And this blog is about as honest as it can get. In many ways… I do not regret this past encounter with my narc, because if it hadn’t happened I wouldn’t have found here where I found information that I can now carry with me for the rest of my life. And I no longer need to be confused about what I’m dealing with. Thanks for what you do, and using your awareness to help create awareness in others. It’s had a profound impact on my life and many others. 20 million hits well deserved.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Empath007

  18. Fiddleress says:

    Congratulations on the 20 million, HG! More than deserved.

    And again my heartfelt gratitude for all your work.

    (Just got a book bundle and had a peak at the “dedications” in Fuel – It made me laugh, thank you!)

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Fiddleress

    2. Fiddleress says:

      That was a “peek” at the book – and a ‘peak’ in my enthusiasm!

  19. blackcoffee30 says:

    CONGRATS!!! I already bought and listened to The Final Battle AND tomorrow is the Q&A! *squee* AND it’s summer solstice, today can only get better. 😀

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you

  20. Sweetest Perfection says:

    Congratulations, HG!! Chin chin to the MILLIONS of people you have and will continue to free!!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you SP

  21. Renarde says:

    What a brilliant achievement! Your work is needed now more than ever. I’ve just been looking at a Relationship board. From the OP, it’s clear we have narcus narcus.

    How long before someone pops it out? Page 2. But you get the usual

    Hes autistic
    Sit down and talk
    Blah de fucking blah

    Then the OP realises and acknowledges it.

    Another ‘helpful’ poster suggests therapy. FFS.

    My name is now mud over there. You can’t even make a joke without some pearl clutching, frothing berserker having a go.

    I was talking to my badass pal, P today. We were exchanging stalker stories. She threatened to ‘send him back to his parents in little pieces’ if he carried on.

    Then added, ‘Oh I do love playing with covert narcs’

    Not the correct terminology but she got it! I’ll have a word with her about your work.

    Very well done!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Renarde.

      1. Renarde says:

        You are welcome.

      2. Violetta says:

        It’s no wonder the forum folks don’t want Narcsite mentioned. Let me guess: they do occasionally mention other sites, but are careful to pick weak ones so anyone who clicks out of curiosity will be contemptuous, disgusted, or even amused, then come right back to the Narc Nest–otherwise known as the Straw Man argument.

        When we send people over from DM, yahoo, and other news sites, they stay, return, and refer other people here, because of what they saw when they clicked here.

  22. I’m going to make myself a delicious cocktail to celebrate! I think I’ll name it Fuel starver

    1. HG Tudor says:

      If you don’t purchase at least two of the offerings in Part Two of 20 for 20 , I’m never answering any questions of yours ever again!

      1. lisk says:

        Wait! What?

        Why are you starving her of your “as2016, we know you’re a lush and any excuse” comment?

        1. Alexissmith2016 says:

          Awww thanks Lisk xxx

      2. Cheeky! I already have most of them. I’ll see what comes up in part two and if I own all those too I’ll make a donation to the AAF

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You don’t it’s mainly new material

        2. HG Tudor says:

          Not cheeky at all. You often ask ‘is x a narcissist’ we’ll see 20 Famous Narcissists and Narc Hunter.

          1. What! I’m on to it!

          2. Oooh juicy! I hadn’t seen part two. I need to pay more attention.

          3. HG Tudor says:


          4. Right I’m definitely purchasing both of those and 20 tudor minutes to watch you wash my car

          5. HG Tudor says:

            You want 20 minutes of HG car washing? Easy. Show me the money.

          6. My car for 20

          7. HG Tudor says:

            Given you’re secret squirrel about who you are, your car is not an option but the Tudor wheels is.

          8. and if you do a good job…

          9. I haven’t even made that cocktail yet!

        3. K says:

          Hahahaha…you know you love when HG tells you what to do; I read all about it on Dirty Empath – Infidelity.

          1. Hahha I know! So weird becuse if it was anyone else I’d hate it ahahah

      3. Narc noob says:

        Ha ha, HG sounds like AS2016!

        1. Alexissmith2016 says:

          He must sound super cool then NN! Stealing my traits again no doubt.

  23. lisk says:

    Congratulations, HG!🥂 You are the BOMB! 💣

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Lisk.

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  25. truthseeker6157 says:

    HG, Congratulations on a job well done. 20 million hits is outstanding! The fact that you moderate all of our comments yourself and participate with corrections and answers at the rate that you do, is what makes this place so special. You are making a real difference here, and providing a safe place for us when we need it. I for one am very glad I found your blog.

    Thank you for your generosity with the products you have discounted, you selected several of those I found most impactful.
    Please keep on doing what you do, exactly the way you do it!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you TS6157

  26. Coffee54 says:


    My favorite website…EVER
    Your work is brilliant, H.G.

    20 million lives affected…narcs and non, alike.
    Bravo 👏

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thankyou C54.

  27. FoolMe1Time says:

    HG the small amount of money that you charge for your work, $5 here $10 there, do you add this money into the angel fund since you do not ask for donations any longer? It’s just a suspicion that I’ve had since you started charging such a minimal amount.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      The US$5 products are added into the AAF, yes.

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        I knew it! Logically it’s such a small amount that the readers who would like to purchase them could afford to, you stopped asking for donations ( still have AAF donation though ) about the same time you started charging such a minimal amount. You do not need that small amount of money! Building your legacy is more important to you at this time.

        I have always stated you are a very good man who has just done some bad things, just like the rest of the world! ( I had to throw a little emotion into the mix ), Thank you HG!! Xxx

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Thank you FM1T

  28. tarracodreamerJoe says:

    Congratulations, H.G. Well deserved!

    The other day I saw a Joe Rogan clip. They were talking about the policeman and George Floyd and Joe said “Did the policeman become that through his experiences as a cop or was he born that way?” No mention of the n-word, of course. Hey ho! Hopefully your day on Joe’s show will come.

    Keep up the good work!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Joe, with the help of all my readers that can happen.

  29. Chihuahuamum says:

    Congrats HG!!! What a huge milestone!! 🤗

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Cmum.

  30. K says:

    20 Million is damnsexy; well done, HG!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you K.

  31. fox says:

    Congrats on 20 million!!!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Fox

  32. David says:

    Each title $20 ?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Click and you shall discover!

  33. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    Whooo hooooooo
    Continued best wishes
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Bubbles.

  34. Mercy says:

    Congratulations on 20 million HG!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Mercy.

  35. Kristin says:

    Congratulations HG! When I discovered you in November you were in the 17 millions, what a great accomplishment. I, for one, am so grateful for all that you have taught me, thank you!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thankyou Kristin.

      1. I remember 4 million well. Shouldn’t I have graduated by now? 😊

        And congrats again.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Thank you SW.

  36. ANM says:


    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you ANM.

  37. FoolMe1Time says:

    Congratulations HG on hitting 20 million! Here’s to 20 million more!
    🍻cheers! 💞

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thankyou FM1T

  38. MB says:

    What a generous way to celebrate! I’m keeping my eyes peeled for items I don’t already have 👀

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Part 2 will be HG heaven for you then.

      1. MB says:

        I’m in heaven 🥰

    2. Mercy says:

      MB, I thought you had the entire library 😄

      1. MB says:

        I do!! But there are gobs of new things in Part 2. I indulged myself more than I should have. I’m enjoying the 20 things right now very much. He’s still on the loves list.

        1. Mercy says:

          MB, I just purchased the 20 love/hates. Im going to listen tonight! Did you get 20 things HG wants you to know?

          1. MB says:

            I sure did Mercy! I haven’t had a chance to listen past one yet. I’ve indulged in nearly all of the new material. I can’t help it! My Apple Card sent me an email basically saying WTF are you doing girl!!

          2. Mercy says:

            Haha your talking Apple card is entirely to logical

  39. NN says:

    💫💫💫 Congratzzz HG 🔥🔥🔥

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you NN.

  40. Violetta says:

    Congratulations per Blur:

    Woo hoo!
    When I feel heavy metal
    Woo hoo!
    And I’m pins and I’m needles!

  41. lickemtomorrow says:

    There seems to something karmic or cosmic about this … 20 million hits in 2020 🙂

    Congratulations again, HG!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you.

    2. lisk says:

      And on the 20th!

      1. lickemtomorrow says:

        OMG! I didn’t realize that when I wrote it … the karma continues 🙂

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