AAF – New August Bonus


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I have continued the scheme in recent months, albeit on a more discrete level, with the assistance of particular generous individuals. The demand for help has not only remained but increased and therefore I have decided to make a general request for assistance.

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83 thoughts on “AAF – New August Bonus

  1. Kim e says:

    SMH. Hi snookums. I am good. This coming week will be 5 months NC. Later this month will be 1 year since seen. It has been a roller coaster ride. ET flairups are still there and I have noticed that when they leave I am very sad and empty inside. Guess it is just part of the process. But I am hanging in.
    Vegas is this week…..YES! I work Monday and Tuesday and then off until the following Wednesday. Vegas is Thursday til Monday. We are down to 4 from 9m persons. 5 bedrooms and 3 baths. plenty of room to spread out. I like traveling with these ladies because they dont bug you if you want to lounge in PJ’s all day while they go do something else. But we have known each other since 2001 thru our kids being military. Deaths, births, divorces, marriages, PTSD.cancer, breast reconstruction after removal, helping pick out the new nipples…….the list goes on and on.
    I am excited. After I get home will self quarantine until 9/1. All that really means is 2 weekends of not seeing friends. Weekdays are set in stone anyway. The Mayor of Chicago shut down the lakefront again today because no masks and social distancing not being observed. I figure just about the time I get out of my SQ, the state will go back on lock down anyway.
    My boys are good. Youngest starts photograghy school 9/24.
    I have started wathcing The Last Knight on Netflix. So far I like it Cant get my ass to the gym.
    How is your little part of the world? Kids? Odin?Work?

    1. SMH says:

      Kim e, Hi pumpkin! Helping to pick out new nipples? LOL. They sounds like really good friends! Glad you are getting away – it will help with the ET spikes but good on you anyway for not succumbing. It really is like weaning yourself off of a drug and you have to be really strong, which you are! Yay! No ET for me. It’s a wonder! I realized the other day that it has been months and months since I even looked at any SM. I had to think of their names and then I said to myself, how alienating. I don’t know these people at all – not even MRN. They are not even that interesting to me!

      I did not know your youngest was into photography. That’s very cool. I used to study it too. Ages ago but I still take pictures and people still like them! My son called yesterday – wonder of wonders. He had been travelling for a few weeks (which I knew). I told him to not come to me because he’d have to be careful, quarantine for two weeks, etc. He can’t go to his dad or to his dad’s family either. But I will see him when I am back if conditions allow.

      No gyms open here and my body is aching – I really need it. Too hot to exercise outside and I am not disciplined enough to do it regularly at home even though I managed to find three hand weights.

      Work is a clusterfuck but I have a bit of a breather now through August – just a few projects to work on but few meetings, etc. Things with Odin are fine though I do wonder if we won’t both lose interest as soon as we can see each other – that is, if some of the attachment is due to the separation. But I guess we will see. He remains consistent and I am not on a roller coaster.

      Have a great time in Vegas with the ladies if we do not hear from you before or during. Expecting a report on your return! Smooches!

      1. Kim e says:

        SMH Pumpkin…that made me smile and laugh. I used to work with a girlthat LOVED Charlie Brown and the Great Pumpkin Patch. I called her pumpkin.
        I agree about weaning off a drug. There are days I wake up and 30 minutes later realize I had not thought of him. And then there are nights where he will enter my head and no matter what I do I cant get himto leave.
        Oh Well……
        The end of August will be 1 year since I have seen him. So when my ET spikes I remind myself of that and that I have not died from not seeing him.
        My youngest has been into photography for as long as I cant remember. The bitch…I mean his ex…was a photographer and was awesome at it. Boy we hated each other…HAHA He has tons of equipment. And best of all the Army is paying…….after he earned it by jumping out of airplanes for them.
        Now the oldest is not conversing. Gone quiet. I give up. They know where to find me….
        Had awful weather yesterday afternoon. Storm was 200 miles wide and produced winds of 85 MPH by Denise’s house and tons of tornado warnings. Lots of tress down and property damage.
        I will be in touch after Vegas.

        1. NarcAngel says:

          Kim e
          Much luck and celebration in Vegas! Legit jealous.

          1. Kim e says:

            NA. Thanks. Try and keep HG in line while I am gone.

      2. SMH says:

        Kim e, You crack me up. The army is paying because he jumped out of airplanes for them. I have a cousin who became a doctor that way too.

        I am bored and frustrated today by the heat and the inability to have a normal life. But ho hum. I guess things will change when they change. In the meantime, I’ll take a nap.

        Saw the pics from the derecho. I was in one once – scariest thing ever. Hope Denise made it through okay. Lots of property damage, trees down, no electricity (still) here in the north east too from a tropical storm. But I am on a block with hardly any trees. Grateful!

        Safe travels and ave a great time in Vegas – keep your knickers on except in the pool. Smooches!

        1. Kim e says:

          Hi snookums. Been back to work a week today. Vegas was nice and relaxing and bizarre. Saw my niece that I have not seen in years. She is the oldest of the sister I dont talk to.

          Was 111-114 degrees daily so not much done outside unless it involved the pool…ususally early morning or after 3.

          Slept great except for one night. And then of course there was the asshole on the plane coming home after being told 2374345747 tiomes that masks are required ont he flight except for a light snack and water. As soon as we pull away fro the gate and the safety narrative starts, the flight attendant from the back calls the front and cockpit.
          Back to the gate…maybe 100 yards…the gangway is rolled back to the plane and a very BIG BURLY man gets onthe plane and escorts the asshole off. I am pleased that it happened there as from what I hear if it happens midflight they divert to the nearest airport and that could take hours and mess with the crews hours. As it was it only delayed us 20 minutes. I hope they ban him from SWA.

          There was one guy that came up to me in Vegas on Fremont Street (old Vegas) He say ” I love your tats and know there are more that I cant see. Will you show me them? Guess you were int he service.” The ladies I am with stopped dead cold and kinda backed away from him as they know the true me…not the little meek thing the N turned me into.
          Anyway I say to him, “You have made 2 very wrong assumptions. 1. I would never show you any part of my body tatted or not. 2. that I was in Army.” I turned and just walked. He follows me walks in front of me and says “Can we talk about it?”. Well at this point in time HG is screaming in my head!(he does that alot) I stop because I am in shock. I just say “delete” and walk away. “are you sure he says” once again getting in front of me. “blocked” i reply and walk away. My friend says “he is coming back”. I say “keep walking and ignore the fuckhead”. We walked and he found someone else to bother.
          And all I have to say is BOY THAT FELT GREAT. If he was a N he got a little fuel but I knew it would be very little and needed to project pretending it was my N onto this guy.

          My oldest was in town Friday. We met for lunch and surprised me with my youngest being there also. And the youngest surprised me by paying me back all the money he owed me.

          Gotta run. More later. Catch me up on you.


          1. SMH says:

            Hey Kim e, punkin, Glad you had a good time. The pool sounds fantastic. Put me next to water and I will swim.

            Two funny stories from you. I feel blessed. 1) what is wrong with people? (men); 2) what is wrong with people? (men)

            I was once on a flight where someone was dragged off but I was not sure why. It was pre-covid so def not about a stupid mask. The street harasser, I suppose pre-HG you would have been ‘nice’? Good you have learned to say ‘no’ and ‘go away.’

            Nice surprise from your kids. See? They don’t hate you. Did the youngest tell you what his Thanksgiving plans are?

            Funny you saw your niece when you do not get on with her mother. Reminds me that I have to call mine because she has gone all silent on me. I can deal with my son because I raised him and know what he’s like but not my niece.

            Otherwise, just returned from four days on a boat, which was a hoot. We had very little fresh water and the showers on the island were closed due to covid so it was like camping. We went to the beach, swam off the boat, went clamming and had glorious weather. My friend had two meltdowns – one because if she wants something to happen, it has to happen the second she wants it to happen. The other when the captain (not me) made her cry because he’s got a big mouth and a way about him that some people cannot take (rolls right off of me). At one point, she went off to a bunk and cried. I had to smooth things over. I’m quite fond of her but can you say ‘high maintenance?’ Or too much alcohol? Tiring.

            Odin went hiking and disconnected for awhile. He did not tell me but I was not anxious whereas when MRN would disappear, I would be climbing the walls. I guess O has earned my trust. He does not EXPECT me to be anxious or try to make me so, and therefore I am not. I still sometimes have this feeling – like he is not getting the reaction that he wants and will ditch me. But I know that is the little narc radar in my head speaking, not anything O has indicated. It’s like he has the best qualities of MRN – low ET, very funny, smart as hell – without the worst ones. Plus he’s taller and speaks more languages.

            Oh I expect to see neighborhood guy on Saturday. I actually have something I want to talk to him about privately but I wonder if wife will let us speak to each other.


          2. Kim e says:

            Hi SMH.
            Thanksgiving was discussed. He said I thought I was going. I told him I never heard back from him. So now maybe us gfriend is coming also. I sent him all my details. The ball is in his court. He has started school and loves it. Still working 1 day a week. Has a website up already. Maybe it just took him 32.5 years to find his thing
            My I have 3 nieces and 2 nephews. 3 are with the sister I don’t talk to. 1 niece from there knew me when she was very young. She is now 27 and just got her RD. So we kinda had a relationship. They moved a lot so all was on line. The other 2 I never really knew.
            The ones with my sister that I do talk to are but balls with completely different views of the world than me. So discussing anything other than politics, health, tv, the world in general is good. Haha

          3. Kim e says:

            SMH. Hit send too soon.
            How did meeting with neighborhood guy go?
            Carry on

          4. SMH says:

            Hey Kim e, I had the weirdest dream last night out of the blue. MRN was around and with two other women. He seemed normal and sweet, kind of ignoring me though I was more watching than trying to get his attention. The two other women were very disdainful of me. When I woke up this morning I thought the dream was about jealousy. But now I think it was about guilt – my guilt. Why now? I think deep down I am feeling guilty about MRN because things with Odin are fine and I am not sure whether it’s because I am acting differently or Odin is not a narc. I mean I am pretty sure it is the latter. But clearly part of me thinks it’s the former – that it was my behaviour that caused so many problems with MRN. Just putting it out there. Thoughts? Smooches

  2. njfilly says:

    I miss all the action on the blog due to this damn job! I’m going to have to do something about that.

    I will be making my contribution shortly, Mr. HG Tudor. I have been unavailable. I look forward to your bonus material!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Jolly good.

  3. Lala says:

    So you’re going to con more narcissist victims out of what little money they have by appealing to their human nature because none of you have sympathy or compassion or empathy and seeing as the usual indifference and apathy is oddly absent the only logical conclusion is that narcissists are soliciting monetary support under false pretenses and no narcissist should ever profit or benefit off of wounds inflicted upon another ever again if I have anything to do with it.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. No.
      2. Why don’t you ask the people who have been helped by the generosity of other readers and also me what they think of the AAF?
      3. Read the testimonials, read the comments, read the hundreds of free articles, read the 355 000 moderated comments for free , listen to the hundreds of videos provided for free, ask those whose emails I answer for free.
      4. Tell me what are you actually doing (and let’s have some evidence) to assist people and to execute your self-appointed role as per the final part of your very long sentence?

    2. Another Cat says:

      But the perpetrators, narcs, aren’t helping out at all financially. They don’t exactly contribute to AAF. If narcissists of the world would Pay for HG’s consults then problems would be solved. But they are not.
      Meanwhile we are the only ones who can help new victims.

      1. Kim e says:

        Another Cat
        You are preaching to the choir.

        1. SMH says:

          Kim e, Hi there! Another Cat, I once demanded that MRN pay for my therapy. Of course he did not. Lala, you are wrong. Just thought I’d get my two cents in.

          1. Another Cat says:

            SMH, there you go! Brave of you to ask him to pay though! 🙂 I don’t remember having the courage to open my mouth like that.

          2. Kim says:

            SMH. Are you dry? Haha. Meaning I hear NYC got very drenched with the tropical storm
            Been thinking about you. Hope all is good. Fill me in

          3. SMH says:

            Another Cat, I was REALLY anxious and angry, but more anxious. He had no idea why. I think at that point he told me he was in counselling. “*I* am in therapy,” he said. I asked whether *we* had come up and he said ‘no, my wife is sitting right there.’ He was in couples counselling!!! I was so lost that I was actually shocked that he’d be in couples counselling while having an affair with me (I did not know he was married for the first however many months – long story – though I did know at that point).

          4. SMH says:

            Kim e, Hi! It was quite the storm but nothing much happened where I am. A few branches down. Did not lose electricity or anything. How are you? Still going to Vegas? Smooches!

          5. Another Cat says:

            “I was actually shocked that he’d be in couples counselling while having an affair with me”

            Gosh must have felt terrible for you. Myself I was too naïve and never checked whether ex hubby had any IPSS. But he did textbook act like everything HG describes about devaluations and working late in the weewee hours (I prefer Chuck Berry’s terminology), so in theory, yeah, he probably did. Wonder how many poor women he fooled. The therapist priest happened to be the only Upper Greater narc I ever met.
            Gaslighting and smearing have been isolating.

            Hope you are years away from yours SMH

          6. SMH says:

            Another Cat,

            At that point I knew that he was married and that they were ‘reconciling’. I never wanted to take her place. It just never occurred to me that someone could be THAT deceptive. I once had a moment of clarity and pointed out to him that he was lying to me and to IPPS because really he treated us both the same way – whatever he did to me was just the flip side of what he did to her. He said ‘how am I lying to my wife?’ He did not believe that omissions were lies.

            I hate to say it but your ex probably did – I know all the tricks now from ‘the other side.’ The fake email, the sneaking away from work, the online stalking, etc. You should know that ultimately, I escaped and I also told IPPS. I had a family emergency and needed him to leave me alone for good, so I told her. I am making it sound easier than it was but with some distance on it now, I don’t have any regrets about it.

            I am years away, thankfully – more than two at this point. He still hoovers occasionally, but only online and indirectly. And you?

          7. Another Cat says:

            “He still hoovers occasionally, but only online and indirectly. And you?”

            Hello SMH, well, making children’s handover as brief as possible, max 1 min, trying to be calm and emotionless, rarely ever texting except important messages gets easier and easier with the help of HG’s Assistance Packages and he hasn’t hoovered for almost two months, and it was only by text.

            Wishing you additional empath friends, has helped me heaps.

          8. SMH says:

            Another Cat, I count my blessings that I was not IPPS. Stay strong and stay here!

        2. Another Cat says:

          Kim E
          I actually can’t prove a negative to Lala, if she chooses to suspect HG, so I chose to ignore that, but I was commenting on her obvious waiting for abusers to do their part in this world. They won’t.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            This one does, AC! But I understand your point.

            I suspect all we will get from Lala is the silence of the vanquished.

          2. Another Cat says:

            You sure do, HG ❤️

        3. Violetta says:

          She’s not preaching to the choir. She’s casting pearls before swine.

    3. truthseeker6157 says:

      Hi Lala,

      Thank you for your comment.

      Just a few points to make here.

      1. The money collected in the AAF is used to help those who require financial support to access the help they need. It is a confidential service but I have read comments on the blog from those who have accessed it.
      2. There are countless testimonials from readers who have accessed the material available in the Knowledge Vault. I have accessed it myself and it has been invaluable in helping me to understand and get over my relationship with the narcissist.
      3. The proceeds from some of the shorter items in The Knowledge Vault are channelled directly to the AAF. In effect, HG makes zero profit from these items.
      4. HG moderates every comment on this blog free of charge. We are not required to pay a monthly subscription to access the plethora of free articles available here.
      5. HG answers our personal questions about narcissism free of charge every day of the week. He doesn’t need to. He moderates our discussions thus corrects accordingly. You only need to take a quick browse to see this is the case.
      6. We as an empathic group need to bond as a group. Some of our chat is social. These comments are moderated alongside the academic comments without a word of complaint from HG. They aren’t important to him, but they are to us. Additional unpaid workload that carries great value for this group.
      7. Personally, I earn my own money, manage my own finances and I am no moron. I am not being exploited, far from it. I am quite capable of making informed choices as regards to how I spend my own money. Thank you for your concern.
      8. I have no issue with you taking a shot at a narcissist. I do take issue with someone running off at the mouth, implying we are all idiots without even bothering to get their facts straight.

      Thanks again for your concern.

      A very satisfied reader.

      1. Asp Emp says:

        truthseeker, I was very moved by your words of support to HG’s work (and his generosity) & thank you for explaining what he does. I really enjoy reading the material available. I have a lot of respect for the availability of this blog & the contributors. I laugh more than cry (or get upset) at what I read – it’s so therapeutic. Thank you to HG & everyone else on this site. 😊

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You are welcome Asp Emp.

          Anybody heard from Lala? Thought not.

          1. Violetta says:

            She wants a con artist, she can consult my first shrink. He’s still (Mal)practicing, no doubt inflicting his Freudian word salad on cases that were better handled by family court.

          2. K says:

            Lala has Gone With the Wind.

          3. HG Tudor says:

            Add her to the pile.

        2. Truthseeker6157 says:

          Hi Asp Emp 😊

          Thank you. There is a great deal of work and energy that our host puts in to this place behind the scenes. Many readers are also here paying it forward with their time after escaping and moving on happily with their lives. It’s a safe and entirely supportive place for us to recover and as you say, to laugh together. Some days are tough, we need a giggle at times!
          I’m quite protective of what has been created for us here, as are many others. Personal criticism of HG in this context is unwarranted. I find it very difficult not to brandish my Sword of Justice when I see it. Through being here, at least I know why!

          1. HG Tudor says:

            That is appreciated, TS6157

          2. truthseeker6157 says:

            You’re welcome HG.

      2. NarcAngel says:

        Great summary.

        1. truthseeker6157 says:

          Thank you NA,

          Something completely different. Have you been watching ‘The Fall’ by chance on Netflix? So much narcissistic reference in there. Not by label, by actions. Lack of emotional empathy shown but cognitive empathy demonstrated. Very interesting watching, I’m only on episode 4 so far.

          There is a scene in episode 3 where the psychopath (Jamie Dornan) mirrors. Shocked me to see it done in such an obvious way and the reaction to it was so accurate. It’s definitely worth a look.

          I have him as Mid Range. I have the female lead (X Files Scully) marked as a Greater. I’d be really interested to know what others think.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Gillian Anderson´s character is not a Greater, she is such an incompetent police officer it caused me to stop watching this series.

          2. truthseeker6157 says:

            Ha ha,

            So far I like it. You know what I mean by the mirroring? That was over emphasised but mirroring it was and it did shock as I could see him doing that in that situation. Gillian Anderson’s character hasn’t made any real clangers yet. I’ll take your word for it that she does. (And that she isn’t a Greater) ( I still think she is as per start episode 4).

            Jamie Dornan is still Jamie Dornan. Bit skinny across the shoulders but I shall graciously overlook that.

          3. SMH says:


            OMG I first realized that MRN was a psychopath when I was watching The Fall four years ago!! There was a scene that could have so been him that a lightbulb went off in my head and I started Googling everything I could!! I wrote out pages about narcissism and the different ways he fit the profile. Of course I was not convinced and did not find HG for another year and a half but that was the start of my journey – watching The Fall.

            One of my last messages to him almost two years later was that he could have been a serial killer in another life, and I had the Jamie Dornan character in mind. MRN and JD even had the same two names – one fake and one real.

            I didn’t know what GA was as I did not have the knowledge but I did identify with her because I felt that I had the same fascination with MRN that she had with JD – that he was the flip side of her and maybe I was worried that MRN was the flip side of me – obviously there was something in me too. Sorry you stopped watching, HG, but clearly a few of us can relate to it.

          4. truthseeker6157 says:

            Hi SMH,

            Gawd, that’s weird. Watching something and it ringing so many bells, particularly with the lead character being so cold.

            It shows though that you were already aware things weren’t right. It shows also that you did something about it. Bells can ring but you still have to act on them.

            Now that I understand more, I get much more out of what I watch. I am pretty dark in my viewing choices though! I’m still watching. JD plays it well. I do wonder if writers are aware enough of narcissistic manipulations and behaviours to actually write them into scripts. Probably not, it’s probably psychopathic behaviours we see that overlap with the narcissistic.

            There does seem to be more awareness of narcissism in the press these days. I’d love to see a narcissistic relationship played out accurately on screen. That would draw huge awareness if it was well done.

          5. SMH says:

            TS6157, Yes, super weird about The Fall. It wasn’t even the names. It was just a split second of a scene in which the JD character is online with the babysitter. I don’t dare watch it again. Dr Foster was another one, but that came later when I already knew what MRN was.

            Interesting question about what producers and writers know. They need to hire HG! Right, HG? 🙂

          6. HG Tudor says:


    4. NarcAngel says:

      There is no con. HG delivers the specific information that people need and many will attest to that. There are many cases where people have put money forward and not received anything for it but confusion and further financial engagement (doctors, therapy, etc). The AAF is successful (and I might add was at the request of the commenters) because those who have benefitted greatly want to pay it forward for others to have their own success. Lawyers profit from divorce and Funeral Homes profit from death. There is profit in expertise. At least here there is profit on all sides of the equation. If you want to bite off your nose to spite your face that is your choice, but it is not the choice for everyone.

    5. Violetta says:


      Someone(s) among HG’s readership ordered some materials for me.

      I got the materials. They were as described.

      He did not con the donor(s) by keeping the money and not sending me anything.

      He did not con me by pulling a bait and switch.

      I will even say that while I am still struggling with my anxiety about dealing with narcs, especially at work, I’m no longer in total panic mode, so the materials have been shown to have some effect. They have allowed me to make sense of past situations that seemed inexplicable before.

      If he’s that set on preserving his image, why did he let your comment go through? You can bet it wouldn’t even show up on some quack peddlers’ or megachurch preachers’ site.

      For all we know, HG’s persona may be a pile of pants. Instead of the crushworthy adventurer with pilot’s license and martial arts skills, his Secret Identity has been conjectured to be everything from an ancient Cat Lady with voice-altering technology to an Uncle Fester lookalike with a dreary civil service job and an overactive imagination.

      If the products work, who gives a flying fornication?

      I’ve encountered “experts” with all the proper credentials. Some have helped, but a number of them made everything worse.

      By their fruits ye shall know them.

      1. K says:

        You got what was promised??? Not a wooden wall hanging with the words: Live Laugh Love printed on it.

        Good to know AAF is not a scam. Thank you.

        1. Violetta says:


          Yeah, can you imagine? Thought this was gonna be one of those online fails where the “genuine silk” prom gown is polyester or the cardigan is too small to fit anyone but the Maltese.

          1. NarcAngel says:

            My brother-in-law is notoriously cheap and said he was going to order some clothes from one of those sites. I told him I would give him $50 to wear the pants to the next family dinner. He declared “it’s on!” Didn’t cost me a cent because he admitted he couldn’t even get his left nut in one pant leg and can’t return them because it would cost more than he paid.

            Here, you get more than you pay for and everything fits.

    6. FYC says:

      Lala, The AAF is a fund for those in need of HG’s invaluable knowledge and assistance. There is nothing else available that would compare to what HG delivers. The AAF was requested by empaths for empaths. There is no con. We choose to help of our own accord, and I for one, feel honored to do so.

      I am curious about your repugnant point of view. Are you perhaps in pain because you suffered financial ruin by a narcissist you trusted? Are you in need of assistance? If so, I would suggest you take a different tack with the fine group empaths that give to this fund. We all know what HG delivers. We have the deepest respect and appreciation for everything HG does for his Angels — very often at his own, significant expense. It’s remarkable for anyone to accomplish all that HG has for those in need, but all the more so for someone with such a complete defense mechanism. We empaths give with empathy, and HG gives to build his remarkable legacy. That’s a win-win that keeps paying dividends to empaths. Thousands of empaths.

      I would like to gently suggest that you are in charge of you and your choices. You have the power. Look at the facts. Ask us questions instead of jumping to conclusions. We will happily tell you our actual experience and we can assure you the Angel’s communicate their appreciation and gratitude readily. Many Angels return to the blog and the AAF to pay if forward due to their own deep appreciation.

      Anger will not help you. Emotions run amok work against you. Instead, employ logic. Look at the facts and evidence. Believe the actions of people (and charitable funds) and not just words. When you do this, you will not, and cannot, be taken advantage of by anyone.

  4. NarcAngel says:

    A neat package of education paired with entertainment and wrapped with a huge bow of empathic paying it forward. A true gift.

  5. Summer says:

    Cant wait for the next one! Its such a win win win to get to help a cause u believe in, while gaining important reminders & also some much needed entertainment! Couldn’t recommend more highly

  6. Summer says:

    Snuggled n bed enjoying this so much but then the Narc’s name was the same as the one i married (such an often used name, but still!) then the three words at the end were the only three words i had written about a month ago on my bathroom mirror as a reminder!! Im not even a teensy superstitious, but this bonus sure got me. Marvelous 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  7. Another Cat says:

    As an earlier receiver of help I know what this can do. A small donation but I’m trying to make it monthly. Most happy to hear your voice HG.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you for donating.

  8. Caity says:

    Brilliant, HG! Loved how you read the short story and the writing was flawless. The warning was so well doved in the conversation between all characters. I had to chuckle at the end for my own reasons…..damn cats, fuckin’ cats. haha

    Such a good cause and any donation, a kindness.

    Thank you, for offering us (who are able, as I know many are not) the encouragement to help those who need your assistance but have not financially ability (because of circumstances often due to a narcissist). We need to help each other, and in the blog we do, but if we can help with a consultation, for so many, that is their golden ticket to freedom.

    Donations to Angel Assistance is a wonderful way to help someone so much in need but unable to help themselves, no matter how much they want to.

    Thank you HG, for providing this wonderful service.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome.

  9. blackcoffee30 says:

    What does this mean? All donations receive a special BRAND NEW AAF Donor Bonus which is accessed once your donation has been made.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It means you make a donation and you receive a bonus.

      1. blackcoffee30 says:

        Oh, I thought it was a match, but this makes more sense.

  10. FYC says:

    HG, I’m so glad you reignited your AAF donation drive. Every empath needs to know they can make an enormous difference in the life of someone who is suffering greatly by a narcissistic entanglement. Your work saves lives. It is an honor to support you and your remarkable and transformative efforts for these deserving Angels.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome and thank you for your donation, FYC.

      1. FYC says:

        HG, You are most welcome.

  11. FoolMe1Time says:

    What a great bonus! This is HG at his best!! Haha! Thank you HG for putting a smile on my face today!

    Thank you for taking care of all of the angels that desperately need your help!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome FM1T.

    2. NarcAngel says:

      Hi FM1T

      Being the angel that you are, I thought this might bring you out to say hello. So hello!
      Hope all is well with the new job and with you in general.

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Hello NA

        I’m far from being an angel, that’s for sure! Ha ha
        Everything is going well with me and I hope it is for you also. I’ve been busy raising Monarchs, in fact I had my first one break free of its chrysalis today!
        Stay well my beautiful Sista! 😘💞

        1. K says:

          That is so cool!!! Years ago, I planted milkweed in my yard for the Monarchs so they could have food and a place to lay eggs.

          1. FoolMe1Time says:


            I started last year just collecting the caterpillars. When I researched and found out how much the odds were against them, and how there numbers were decreasing every year, I had to do something!

            The developers and farmers are killing off large amounts of milkweed all of the time. Without the milkweed there will be no eggs, no caterpillars, and no more Monarchs! There really isn’t a lot of time or hard work involved in raising them and they are absolutely beautiful to look at.

            K, I better stop with the Monarch talk now. I could go on and on about them but I don’t want to upset the man up above. 😘💞

        2. k says:

          Precisely why I planted the Milkweed. The Monarch and the Monarchs look-a-like*, the Viceroy, are beautiful.

          *Mimicry is a defense mechanism, as I’m sure you’re aware (narcissism in nature).

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            Yes you’re correct. They are very similar. The Viceroy are somewhat smaller in size and have a black line drawn across the hind wing.

        3. k says:

          Very Good! That’s how you tell the difference.

          They are both majestic, however, I prefer the look of the Viceroy over the Monarch.

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            Of course K, the narcissist ( Viceroy )and his facade won out over the true specimen ( Monarch ) once again! Haha! 🥰

  12. truthseeker6157 says:


    I didn’t realise you have previously matched donations. I would normally say, “That’s very sweet.” I won’t though as that would go down like a lead balloon. Instead, I’ll say, “I can feel the power emanating from you today HG. You are truly resplendent.”

    Thank you for the bonus material. Hurrah, audio!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome.

  13. MB says:

    I love me some fresh HG! 🥰

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Fucking A!

  14. k says:

    I will bump my monthly donation to tomorrow so someone can get help sooner rather than later.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Good work, K, thank you.

      1. k says:

        My pleasure HG!

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