Your help is needed for those in need. Here are just a few people have been helped

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I lost my role due to narcissists at work and felt at a loss for over a year, until I accidentally came across the KTN website. I got support from the Angel Assistance Fund, and received a book and two of the Assistance Packages. Along with HG Tudor’s posts, the generous support from the AAF will help me understand more about narcissism and find ways of working with narcissists in the future. A great thanks to HG Tudor for providing this fund and for those who have so kindly donated. Thank you – Kristen, United Kingdom”

“Yes, I’m still battling with cPTSD, anxiety, agoraphobia and depression and yes, I’m still in this hell house, living with my narcissist mother with no income, no job, but… from the moment that I talked with you something changed in me… I don’t have suicidal thoughts as much anymore and I know (thanks to you) that I need to leave from this house and go no contact without feeling guilty.  I am so grateful to the AAF giving me the chance to consult with you. – AG Cyprus.”

I am an Angel Assistance Fund recipient, through the gracious donations of other readers and from HG himself. I was in a position where I absolutely could not afford to have it, and I absolutely could not afford NOT to have it. The process to apply was so simple, and I have been able to get the consultation needed to get back on my feet. To me, it wasn’t important to know whether I was dealing with a narcissist or not – my life was in true danger, and I needed to focus on myself.  – E, United States.”

Many more have been helped. Many more need help.


Knowing the Narcissist is a world leading resource for the provision of information and insight that promotes true understanding and enables people to gain control from often seemingly hopeless situations and achieve freedom.

I have provided hundreds of articles, hundreds of videos, moderated in excess of 350 000 comments and answered email queries all without charge and provided repeated help to those who felt helpless.

Through my articles, my books, the answers I provide each day on the blog and especially the content of my various consultations, logic defences and assistance packages hundreds of thousands of people have beaten their narcissists and achieved freedom and embraced all associated with gaining such an accomplishment.

Following numerous suggestions from empathic readers I  created “Angel Assistance” which is a fund specifically created to help those who may not be in a position to obtain bespoke assistance, so that they can then do so using assistance either in full or in part. Some readers are left in a parlous financial state by the very individual they are seeking assistance in regard to.

There are many success stories arising from the generosity of readers which I have matched by in effect, doubling the donations, resulting in many people being able to engage in consultations and receive relevant Assistance Packages to enable them to achieve freedom the narcissist. 

I have continued the scheme in recent months, albeit on a more discrete level, with the assistance of particular generous individuals. The demand for help has not only remained but increased and therefore I have decided to make a general request for assistance.

Readers may donate a sum, no matter how small or large to this fund for the purposes of it being used by other readers to utilise my highly effective assistance. The money is used for applicants (who are properly vetted) to access the services. You will see the testimonials for this service on the blog.

If you wish to donate, please do so and specify the amount you wish to donate.

Thank you in advance on behalf of all those who need help and find help.

You may donate here

All donations receive a special  AAF Donor Bonus which is accessed once your donation has been made.

If you wish to access the AAF and receive help, please email me at and head your email “Angel Assistance Fund” and I will send you the application protocol.

52 thoughts on “The AAF

  1. Fiddleress says:

    As the comments on the Autumn – Distraction thread show, this season is a sensitive time of year for many of us. These comments are just the top of the iceberg, so to speak: many will not comment although they will probably feel the same about Autumn. ET rising. More need for support. Therefore more need for the Angel Assistance Fund. Christmas time might be even worse for some, and Spring is no better for many – another ‘in-between’ season, like Autumn.

    As one who was raised in a family where we never knew if there would be enough money available to feed everyone for the rest of the month, I can understand how people might think twice about donating even $10. And I would feel awful about making anyone feel guilty for not donating at least that amount.
    So I thought it could be an idea to tell everyone who is currently in a difficult situation moneywise that they should NOT feel bad, mean, embarrassed or ridiculous, about donating $1. Given the high number of readers here, if everyone donated just one dollar, it would mean that tens of thousands of dollars could go to the AAF, and this would mean that many, many empaths could be helped!

    How about making one particular day in the month, every month, the $1 Donation Day? Let’s say the 18th of each month (just to spite my ex-narc for a start, since the 18th October is a bad anniversary for him!).
    Regardless of how much everyone CAN donate the rest of the time, and preferably on a regular basis, I suggest we call on ALL readers, including those who do not comment, since they are the majority as I understand, to donate just one dollar on the 18th of each month, starting tomorrow.

    We are all getting invaluable information for free through everything that HG posts on this blog, and all the questions he answers here. One dollar is surely within everyone’s means. It costs less than a coffee anywhere – even in a French bar (1,30 euros), and much less than in any of those famous takeaways whose brands I will not advertise.

    In a nutshell: IF you are in a situation where you cannot donate more, you ought to know that your $1 donation will be appreciated and will go towards helping those, maybe even you at some point, in need of direct help from HG. Which really is life-changing, as many (including myself) have already testified to.

    Thank you for reading: you can really help make a difference.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Well stated, Fiddleress.

      1. Asp Emp says:

        How about a calendar and the profits go to The AAF?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Are you trying to get me to pose naked behind teapots and currant buns?!

          1. WhoCares says:

            Pahaha! Oh, please do.

          2. Asp Emp says:

            I know what you’re doing Mr Tudor – it won’t wash with me – putting words in my mouth and then making out I am the one who is being naughty 😉 In response to your comment, you can do whatever you like, however, it is not a bad image – you don’t have to use any teapots or currant buns LOL.

          3. Truthseeker6157 says:

            Well if you’re asking.
            Black and white with puppy? Ha ha

          4. Asp Emp says:

            Would the puppy be trusted? 😉

          5. Renarde says:

            Surely you just?

            A small, cucumber sandwich would suffice?

          6. NarcAngel says:

            Not behind. Your spout and buns will suffice.

          7. HG Tudor says:

            I feel so objectified.

          8. Truthseeker6157 says:

            There’s always one spoils it for the others isn’t there Asp Emp?

            * Takes off puppy costume. Stomps out.*

          9. Asp Emp says:

            LOLOL. Oh, TS – so sorry – thought you meant a real puppy, you know! LOLOL. I’m crying with laughter. Oh, thank you for that. Good to have your ‘cheeky’ side back 🙂 x

          10. blackcoffee30 says:

            HG — “I feel so objectified.“ Welcome to the club!

          11. Asp Emp says:

            LOL. Yeah, ‘quid pro quo’ 😉

          12. WhoCares says:

            I don’t really want to see any spout, buns or bells.
            I just wanted to see if HG could break the internet before we see the end of 2020.

          13. NarcAngel says:

            I don’t need to see them either (it would be akin to seeing my brother naked). I just put that forward for MB haha.

        2. Truthseeker6157 says:

          Haha Asp Emp, cheeky service resumed 😉

      2. Asp Emp says:

        RE: the calendar – there could be different themes ie Narc Tale style; inspirational / motivation style and so on – there are some wonderful images on KTN site’s articles.

        1. NarcAngel says:

          Advent calendar. A jolt from HG everyday haha.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Are you after my jingle bells again!?

          2. Asp Emp says:

            Manipulation at it’s best……

          3. NarcAngel says:

            No, but I do love your reindeer games.

          4. HG Tudor says:

            Ha ha.

          5. Asp Emp says:

            The suggestion I made was suppose to be taken with a clean mind LOL

    2. Truthseeker6157 says:

      Great idea Fiddleress! The sheer number of people accessing the site could make a huge huge difference to so many. If we could mobilise the troops with just a dollar, everyone donating exactly the same amount on the same day to the same cause, think of what we could achieve! Can you set it up for us please HG? Do you have time?

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Asked and answered. Watch for the next blog post.

        1. Truthseeker6157 says:

          You are so good with us HG, you really are. Thank you x
          Fiddleress, I have a good feeling about this. 😎

  2. Cup Cakes says:

    I have contributed in the past to AFF which is good for those in need.

  3. njfilly says:

    Now I miss Michael.

  4. FoolMe1Time says:

    I hope my donation went through HG? My phone has been acting up lately.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Received, thank you FM1T. Keep them coming readers, you can see the impact it has and there are people waiting.

  5. FoolMe1Time says:

    I will send what I can today HG. Thank you for taking care of the angels!

  6. truthseeker6157 says:

    Happy to sponsor someone in need. Just let me know.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Most kind, there are many people waiting so do, hit that button!

      1. truthseeker6157 says:

        Done. Thank you for doing what you do.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You are welcome, thank you for your generous donation, this will be immediately applied to assist those waiting.

          1. truthseeker6157 says:

            That’s great to hear HG.

        2. K says:

          Thank you so much truthseeker6157, FoolMe1Time and Kim!!! The thought of people waiting is awful…

          1. truthseeker6157 says:

            Same to you K! Agree, it is awful.

            We’ll sort it as a group. HG will get the right material to them I’m sure.

          2. Cup Cakes says:

            He always does!

        3. K says:

          Yes, HG will and we will help so they don’t have to wait a minute longer than necessary.

          1. Cup Cakes says:

            We need to help as one network to help as much as possible.

          2. K says:

            Cup Cakes
            Absolutely, we have to help as much as possible and we can do it collectively. The thought of people suffering is unacceptable and that can be easily remedied by donating-small or large-it all makes a difference.

  7. Kim says:

    Monthly donation back in budget. Also available for urgent requests 💕

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Great work Kim E

  8. Asp Emp says:

    It’s a great cause.

    Goes to show another narcissistic (the rescuer, completely unconnected to the other narcissists – the victim’s perpetrators) could actually be the saving grace of individuals seeking guidance to a way forward.

    Hence the need for the AAF & it’s angels for their donations & time to those in need.

    I’ll donate when I can. Thank you HG.

  9. K says:

    I should be able to make a donation on the 10th.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Great work K. Time for others to step up and make their mark also, alongside those like you who regularly assist those in need.

      1. K says:

        Thank you HG!
        Every bit helps. Ten or twenty dollars, here and there, adds up and means another Angel gets the help she/he so desperately needs.

        1. Truthseeker6157 says:

          I’ve been thinking about this. Just throwing this thought out there.
          When people donate to the RSPCA for example, it’s anonymous. So you could donate x or y and really you feel that no one knows how much you donated. Here, that’s not quite the case as readers know who the administrator of the fund is and they interact with him.

          As K said, donations mount up. It’s about giving what you can afford when you can afford it, taking into account also the materials people feel they want to purchase for their own recovery too. If some readers hold off donating because they think their gift doesn’t make the grade then let’s just set the record straight there. Every gift is important. It’s the gift, not how much it cost that is appreciated here. This site has a huge number of readers, sheer numbers of smaller regular donations could make an amazing difference. We, as a group, can make a difference.

          1. K says:

            I am a single parent and I understand budget constraints so no one should feel pressured or guilty if they cannot donate.

            For those that can afford to give, every cent matters. If twenty people donated twenty dollars monthly, that’s $400.00 each month, which could potentially help 4-5 people. It is doable; $20 dollars a month is not a lot of money.

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