Fuel
Are you involved with someone whose behaviour makes no sense to you? Does this person treat you with kindness one moment and spiteful hatred the next? Does this individual flirt with others despite being in a relationship with you? Is he or she boastful, arrogant and always fishing for compliments?
Does this person seem to revel in provoking other people, angering them or upsetting them, yet you cannot work out why this person acts in this way? The answers lie in this book. The driving force behind these strange and upsetting behaviours all comes down to fuel.
Read about what fuel is, how it makes that person feel, why they need it, how they get it and what your role is in supplying them with fuel. Learn all about fuel and you will question his or her behaviour no longer and you will be armed with information to do something about it and protect yourself and those you care about.
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Holy Shit!
I’m stuck for words to describe how insightful this book is.
I’m new to all of this, but I’ve read some very ‘out there’ literature; I had to stop for a breather during chapter two because it’s so much to take in – the concepts aren’t difficult to understand – it’s that the writing and the subject are very highly emotive to me.
Thus far I’ve observed that it’s well-written with classic English understatement and humour enough to make me chuckle even during the less-savoury parts.
First class reading.
HG the God, my ET is bad. Women always flirt with him and the whole time he has preferred me. But we know why. It’s because I give the most fuel.
It’s not because he loves me.
I *JUST* realized why my colleague refuses to end the battle that’s escalated to the national level of our organization—challenge fuel.
Eddie keeps escalating it and asking me and another colleague for our “advice” on the situation and updating us. I’m Eddie’s biggest cheerleader (as a practical matter, I think Eddie’s position is correct) because I like being painted white.
I’m a dunce! 😂 How did I not see this?
A brilliant book, very informative to assist understanding about narcissism.
Agreed, it’s the very first book that I have read. HG has a very high fuel matrix. I highly reccomend it