Twas The Night Before Christmas
‘Twas the night before Christmas,
And all through the house,
A narc started scheming
With a click of his mouse
The stockings all hung
With a hole in the heel
Emptied of presents
How low they would feel
The children were nestled
All safe in a bed
But it was not their happiness
That was in the narc’s head
And mom sobbing quietly
As the narc sought his fuel
His words had been caustic
And his actions so cruel
When out on the net
The narc did surf wide
Seeking the playmates
To make him powerful inside
Away to the dating site
He flies in a flash
Creating false profiles
Using someone else’s cash
The moon’s light from the window
Did highlight his mask
As he lied and he boasted
Obsessed by his task
When what to his wandering eyes
Should suddenly appear
But a fresh victim
Who was deliciously near
With a click of the mouse
And the charm running high
He opened his trap
And sent lie after lie
More rapid than eagles
Did his tendrils uncoil
Snaking about her
Dripping with oil
So dashing
And charming
So swift
Began the dance
She was dazzled
Beholden
Enchanted
She stood not a chance
A red flag was flying
From a flagpole tall
Yet she was mesmerised
Taken in by it all
Yes it was late
But how about a beer
He would love to meet her
He knew she was near
So off to the bar
His victim did go
Intrigued and excited
As she strode through the snow
And then in a twinkling
She had a misteltoe kiss
What a marvellous present
It was too good to miss
And there in her head
Which was spinning around
She ignored the alarm bells
Which were beginning to sound
He gave her his fur
As he walked her back home
And there on the porch
His hands did they roam
I know it seems sudden
And I know it is late
But I have to tell you
That you’re my soulmate
She smiled and she gasped
Her heart all alight
As the harpoon hit its target
And her chest did feel tight
She took him inside
And he took her all night
A perfect coupling
It all felt so right
You are amazing
It barely seems true
But I think that I
Have fallen for you
She gazed in his eyes
For he was perfect
And basked in the love
That he did reflect
I will always protect you
He said as she dozed
Her mouth started smiling
As her eyes remained closed
Hours later she woke
The room bore a chill
The window flung open
Boot marks on the cill
She stood at the window
Her mouth open wide
As she recalled with a thrill
And such excitement inside
The mysterious stranger
Who came from nowhere
Who embraced her neck
And showed her such care
Her heart it beat faster
She wanted him so
She would soon see him
Of that she did know
With heart now on fire
And the hooks sunk in deep
She retired still smiling
To catch up on her sleep
Across town the narc was rising
His seeds had been sown
And the day’s first message
Arrived on his phone
He heard the first cries
From down below stair
About vanished presents
Such howls of despair
The narc walked to the mirror
And gave it a grin
For his schemes were now working
He was reeling them in
Already the day
Had started so well
And the ruined Christmas fayre
Would continue the hell
No laughter, no smiles
No pleasure or joy,
He smirked at the thought
Of the next broken toy
His planning bore fruit
The new prey now secure
The hopes of his family
Would soon hit the floor
A day of turmoil
Of drama and regret
With a fresh willing victim
How good would it get?
He smiled at the mirror
And there stared the ghoul
But our narc cared not one iota
He was getting his fuel
So if your night before Christmas
Sounds similar to this tale
You know what to do
And you must not now fail
Gain knowledge, seize power
And become narc free
By reading everything you find
Written by HG
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It’s HG
I’m guessing it’s because the *Ultra* comes in High Definition 😉
Z,
Thank you.
She didn’t believe me at first. She agreed that he had narcissistic traits, even after I left her read HGs books, video’s and all the knowledge that he had out there, I knew there was still doubt in her mind. It wasn’t until I got HG involved that she finally knew what I told her was the truth. I also believe finding others ( two that she works with, and one who is the Mother of a little boy her son plays with) helped her a lot! She knew she was not crazy and was not the only one out there going through this.😘💞
Lickemtomorrow,
My daughter has always been my friend, both of my children are. I was a younger Mother and so as they became old enough going out with them to clubs and dancing was something the three of us enjoyed! We didn’t do it all of the time, usually when we were on vacation or celebrating something. They also knew when being a friend was put on the back burner and Mom was out! Haha.
We don’t live in a big city and I find it interesting just how many people she has talked to that not only knows about narcissism, they know of HG and his work. I will never be able to pay HG for all he has done. My children are and have always been my life!
As for letting her know your wishes for the best for her, thank you very much. I will tell her. She is much stronger then she realized she was.
It’s not out of order at all, we have family on the other side of the pond. If I could that is where I would spend the rest of my life, I love it there! 😘💞
FM1T, it’s lovely when your children are also your friends and you can enjoy experiences together x
The Mom hat is not always on, and mine and I have some quite enjoyable banter as well.
Your comment reminded me of a movie I watched again recently with Melissa McCarthy where she ends up back in college with her daughter after her useless ex dumps her during his mid life crisis. The movie is hilarious and the best part is where she attends a get together with some of the girls in the sorority and inadvertently eats brownies laced with weed :O LOL. It’s the night of her ex-husband’s wedding and she decides she will attend and offer him forgiveness. When they get to the venue the set up turns out to be a real slap in the face to her and so she and her sorority sisters go on a wild ride trashing the wedding venue! I can’t say I wasn’t with her in terms of enjoying what she did … my narcy traits loving every minute of it. Best part was she had at that stage slept with her ex-huband’s new wife’s son who was at college with her 😛 OMG. It was hilarious and verboten on so many levels. She had a brilliant friend cheering her on in her new life as well. But her daughter was one of her biggest cheerleaders and vice versa <3
Licked,
I watched that movie two weeks ago with my daughter and we laughed at some of the parts so hard that are sides hurt!! Haha!
I’m happy to here you and your daughter have a friendship as well! Having my children was the best thing I ever did! 💞
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I just want to give a million <3 to your post FM1T and can't believe you watched that movie recently, too. It is hilarious and great for mother daughter bonding 🙂
Yes, my daughters and I enjoy a special bond, although they will always say my son is the favourite. Sibling rivalry. What can I say! But I'm so glad you feel that way about your children and I would have to agree. Having my children was the best thing I ever did, too <3
Lickem,
Awww, thank you! We not only watched that movie, we also watched The Heat, McCarthy and Sandra Bullock were in that one. My favorite of all that night was Malificent with Angelina Jolene! I think that will go down as one of my all time favorite movies!
My daughter always tells me that my son is my favorite and that he never got in any trouble for anything because he would always make me laugh at him! Even though him making me laugh was always true, ( I just couldn’t help it. Haha ) he was funny! I really didn’t have a favorite, and they both know that! 😘💞
Haha, we seem to have some things in common, FM1T, and I see I’m not the only being accused of favouring a son 🙂 I think they just like to rile us up sometimes!
How sweet that he has such a good sense of humour and mine is the same x
I haven’t seen Maleficent so I’ll have to add that to my list of movies to watch 😉
lickem,
If you do get a chance to watch Maleficent and like it, the second one is just as good! Son’s with a good sense of humor are usually also mischievous, at least mine is. Haha. Oh the things he would do to his sister, as hard as I tried I just couldn’t help but laugh! Haha! ❤️
Thanks for the further heads up on the Maleficent movies, FM1T. I’m going to look forward to watching them with your recommendation 🙂
LOL to your son being mischievous as well. They really do know how to mix things up sometimes, but with a sense of humour that makes it all the more entertaining x
He also knows how to get one over on his mother (me) occasionally!
I will let you know how I go with those movies, FM1T xox
I don’t care about them! Yes, that is there problem. I only care about you!
I cannot wait to read about this adventure HG! Sooner than later I hope?
You’re welcome HG. I’m so glad you are back safe and sound! Xx
Of course. Same cannot be said for them, but then that is their problem isn’t it?
Best interpretation ever!
You’re such a great writer and story teller HG. I wish I just had a tiny bit of your talent! Nevertheless I have a story to tell, but first let me apologize for the typos and all of the other mistakes you will most likely find! I am writing this on my phone and I think I’ve had just a little bit to much alcohol tonight, so forgive me please.
I have a very special friend who is married to a narcissist. I have suspected this for a few years now but was never 100% sure? My friend new that I followed HG and how much I admired him, we talked about narcissists on our walks together. She would tell me of her husband’s narcissistic traits, I would listen and never push the issue. This year things really went south fast! She lost her job, she was collecting unemployment but that eventually ran out. This women always wanted to be a wife and mother more then anything else in the world, she waited and got her degree first. She became an amazing mother! This past summer was more then she could handle and I saw her slowly going under, I didn’t know what to do?! He was killing her beautiful spirit. It wasn’t until he started on there child that she finally had enough! She told me she felt trapped and didn’t know what to do, he had her thinking she was crazy and all of this was her fault! I gave her a few of HGs books to read and a few days later she told me she wished she could afford a narc detector consult. That’s all I needed to hear! I emailed HG and told him about the situation. I wanted her to be my personal angel, he agreed. We started with the Narc detector and when that came back confirming what I already knew, I ask HG for a list of his work that he thought she might need, he was gracious enough to help me not just with the list, he would also allow me to purchase what she needed and would send it to her. Back and forth we went until I finally saw that spark coming to life in her again! Last month she found a job, two weeks ago she bought a new car, last week she was approved for a townhouse that she found for her and her son. This never would have happened without HG and his help! I guess I should probably tell you the rest of this story. My dear friend knew her Father was a narcissist, she also knew she was a codependent, as was her mother and her mother before her! She not only broke the chains that were wrapped around her, she also broke a viscous cycle that had been going on in that family for years! You see, that special angel was my daughter. I am so proud of her and so grateful to HG, I will never be able to thank you enough for what you have done for her, you gave her the most precious gift of all, her freedom! For years I have been telling you that you are not a bad man! You are a very good man that has done some bad things, honestly I believe at this time you have done more good then bad. Somehow just telling you thank you doesn’t seem like enough for all that you do. Yes I will spread your name and your work to anyone that will listen! Hell, I’ll spread it even if they don’t listen! Thank you again my friend!
Merry Christmas everyone!🎅🏻
Merry Christmas HG! 🎄
May your Christmas be filled with fuel,
Peace, and contentment. You are loved very much!💞
Thank you FM1T.
Oh my, what a beautiful story, FM1T, and thank you so much for sharing <3
Your beautiful daughter has made her escape and all with the help of HG.
It is wonderful to hear, and you are an excellent storyteller yourself. I was quite taken by surprise to learn it was your daughter you spoke of at the end. And lovely to know she is also your friend x
Our adult children will make their own choices, just as we did, but armed with the right knowledge there is always hope for a better future for all of us. This is very encouraging as we head into a new year xox
FM1T, what a fantastic story! I am so very, very happy for your daughter, and for you.
I agree with you that sometimes, “thank you” sounds terribly bland when we want to express gratitude to HG for what he does.
Even if your daughter doesn’t know me, and if this doesn’t feel out of order, please let her know that someone on the other side of the pond wishes her all the very best. She sounds like a very courageous angel!
Fiddleress,
Thank you for your kind words. I have no idea how HG does this? I have combined yours and lickemtomorrows
comments to me! I apologise! As you can see if you read my comment to her it ended up being for both of you!!
😘💞
FM1T, no problem at all ! I have read your comment to LET and me: thank you.
Your daughter must be so proud to have realised how strong she is. Xx
Fiddleress,
My daughter still has moments of doubt, he really did a number on her self esteem. She does have a wonderful support team and I’m sure we will get her through this! 💞xx
FM1T: with you and HG on the support team, you will definitely get her through this! xx
Thank you Fiddleress!
The light at the end of that tunnel keeps getting brighter and brighter! With HG on our side it’s a sure thing!💞xx
So wonderful to hear FM1T!
Your approach to not push the issue and just listen until the timing was right was probably the best thing.
All the best to her and her continued forward movement!
WC,
I didn’t push the issue at first because I honestly didn’t know! I had my suspicions but they were dating before I found HG and knew anything about narcissism. The more I learned, the more apparent it became to me. He is text book mid range cry baby pussy!! Oh that felt good to say!! Haha!
Thank you for your kind wishes for her continuing to move forward. 😘💞
That is a very touching story FM1T, also you are lucky that your daughter accepted your intentions and freed herself, I’m happy for the both of you!
X
Thank you for sharing this FM1T, what a wonderful success story! It is very encouraging!
A Victor,
Thank you. One of the reasons I shared this story was to encourage others, I know there are people who doubt HG or his work can help them, I want them to know that he can. They just have to give him and themselves that chance. Xx
FM1T, I agree about HG’s work. Also, your story was meaningful to me as I have a daughter in almost an exact predicament. Getting her degree before marrying, trying for 5 years before having their first child, now due with the second, and we cringe as we watch how her husband treats her. It is heartbreaking. Thankfully, over the holiday I was able to spend some time with her and she was a bit open to what I’ve been learning, not applied toward her situation of course but at least she knows a bit more if the time presents at some point that she may need it. So far her husband has not mistreated their son, we are all waiting for that day to come and concerned about it, hoping she will do as your daughter did and get out. Anyway, your story hit very close to home, it brought tears to my eyes and hope to my heart, thank you again!
A Victor,
I debated whether I should tell that story or not, after I thought about it I knew HG should be given the credit for his work and the time he put into helping us! I also was hoping it would help others realize that what HG teaches really does work.
Please don’t give up on your daughter and her situation. I started talking to her an out HG and his work a few years ago, fortunately when things got really bad and she was definitely in devaluation, she remembered the things we talked about! Her son was not abused physically, he was starting to be abused emotionally. At first my daughter would make excuses for him but as things got worse she finally seen it for what it was. ( HG also confirmed that ).
A Victor I’m sure your daughter will eventually see that what he is doing is wrong, just knowing that you are there to help her through it will give her the courage to ask you for help. When she does you will have all the answers that you need right here. 💞🤣
A Victor when you read my reply to you I am very sorry for the laughing emoji! I had no idea that I hit that until after I hit send!! ❤️
FM1T, no, I would never give up. They are in a respite period now, with the pregnancy, so I believe that is why she was more open to hearing. Word of HG and his work are being spread as much as I can in my circle of influence, I am working on obtaining a book to leave laying around for my daughter to peruse when she visits at some point, a suggestion from another here. Thank you again for sharing, your story was a bright spot in my day!
A Victor,
One thing that I did to share HG with my daughter was show her some of his pictures and adventures on Instagram. It worked out great! Some of the comments he would get would make her laugh, but she also got to read the words of praise that were written. It helped to peak her interest and gave her and I something to laugh about. ❤️
FM1T, that made me smile!! No worries! 🙂
That’s a fantastic idea FM1T! Thank you!
What an absolutely beautiful story! Thank you for sharing. You’re daugher is so lucky to have you and Mr. Tudor. I’m so happy to hear she has escaped and secured her freedom!
Mr. Tudor, you truly are a blessing! Thank you!
Leigh,
Thank you for your kind words.My daughter still has her moments of doubt, ( about herself) but I’m sure in time she will be perfectly fine!
HG is most definitely a blessing to so many, whether he wants to be or not! I remember a few years ago someone questioning me on HG being my hero, I also remember last spring someone telling me that I should stay away from HG because I am a CoD and I see him as my narcissist and that I am attached to him! Well he definitely is my hero then and now, and if I were attached to him I definitely stepped it up!! Bet there’s not to many people who have attached themselves to an Ultra?! Haha!!
For those of you that are reading this, the part about being attached was a joke! Thought I should stop it now before it turns into a shit show.
Thank you Leigh. Xx
FoolMe1Time,its ok, I’m attached to an Ultra too and I’m not CoD, I’m only a standard empath, minority super. Who can blame you for being attached, he gives us clarity and that clarity is priceless! I’ve only done the empath & trait detector, no consult yet and I’m already attached!
Well Leigh, no one does attachment like a CoD! Haha!
I guarantee once you have a consult you will be over the top! He is absolutely professional at all times and there is no one that can come close to his knowledge!!
Foolme1time!
That sounds like a breakthrough. Just getting her out of his house, and approved for her own townhome is a huge deal when it comes to the narc/codependent dynamic. I wish you much more healing as a family. 💜
Anm,
Thank you for your kind words and support. Yes getting her out was a huge step! I could see her ET rising and falling over and over again until she was finally out! She also surprised me last night by telling me she has met with a counselor now on two different occasions. At least the healing can begin. 💞xx
Freedom is SWEET! So much peace and quiet and genuine love from real people this year, including, Empaths United 😉and a HUGE thanks to HG! ❄️
Happy Christmas 🎄
<3
Absolutely spot on!
Thank you, HG,for reminding us
where our thoughts need to be,
here is our safe space
Remaining narc free x
I'll admit I was tempted
and near ran afoul
of the hope for some respite
Oh, how I would howl
To know it's not coming
and then if it did
he'd pass me up for another
for less than a quid
So thank you again
for all that you do
I'm ever so grateful
and Tickety Boo 🙂