Twas The Night Before Christmas

‘Twas the night before Christmas,

And all through the house,

A narc started scheming

With a click of his mouse

The stockings all hung

With a hole in the heel

Emptied of presents

How low they would feel

The children were nestled

All safe in a bed

But it was not their happiness

That was in the narc’s head

And mom sobbing quietly

As the narc sought his fuel

His words had been caustic

And his actions so cruel

When out on the net

The narc did surf wide

Seeking the playmates

To make him powerful inside

Away to the dating site

He flies in a flash

Creating false profiles

Using someone else’s cash

The moon’s light from the window

Did highlight his mask

As he lied and he boasted

Obsessed by his task

When what to his wandering eyes

Should suddenly appear

But a fresh victim

Who was deliciously near

With a click of the mouse

And the charm running high

He opened his trap

And sent lie after lie

More rapid than eagles

Did his tendrils uncoil

Snaking about her

Dripping with oil

So dashing

And charming

So swift

Began the dance

She was dazzled



She stood not a chance

A red flag was flying

From a flagpole tall

Yet she was mesmerised

Taken in by it all

Yes it was late

But how about a beer

He would love to meet her

He knew she was near

So off to the bar

His victim did go

Intrigued and excited

As she strode through the snow

And then in a twinkling

She had a misteltoe kiss

What a marvellous present

It was too good to miss

And there in her head

Which was spinning around

She ignored the alarm bells

Which were beginning to sound

He gave her his fur

As he walked her back home

And there on the porch

His hands did they roam

I know it seems sudden

And I know it is late

But I have to tell you

That you’re my soulmate

She smiled and she gasped

Her heart all alight

As the harpoon hit its target

And her chest did feel tight

She took him inside

And he took her all night

A perfect coupling

It all felt so right

You are amazing

It barely seems true

But I think that I

Have fallen for you

She gazed in his eyes

For he was perfect

And basked in the love

That he did reflect

I will always protect you

He said as she dozed

Her mouth started smiling

As her eyes remained closed

Hours later she woke

The room bore a chill

The window flung open

Boot marks on the cill

She stood at the window

Her mouth open wide

As she recalled with a thrill

And such excitement inside

The mysterious stranger

Who came from nowhere

Who embraced her neck

And showed her such care

Her heart it beat faster

She wanted him so

She would soon see him

Of that she did know

With heart now on fire

And the hooks sunk in deep

She retired still smiling

To catch up on her sleep

Across town the narc was rising

His seeds had been sown

And the day’s first message

Arrived on his phone

He heard the first cries

From down below stair

About vanished presents

Such howls of despair

The narc walked to the mirror

And gave it a grin

For his schemes were now working

He was reeling them in

Already the day

Had started so well

And the ruined Christmas fayre

Would continue the hell

No laughter, no smiles

No pleasure or joy,

He smirked at the thought

Of the next broken toy

His planning bore fruit

The new prey now secure

The hopes of his family

Would soon hit the floor

A day of turmoil

Of drama and regret

With a fresh willing victim

How good would it get?

He smiled at the mirror

And there stared the ghoul

But our narc cared not one iota

He was getting his fuel

So if your night before Christmas

Sounds similar to  this tale

You know what to do

And you must not now fail

Gain knowledge, seize power

And become narc free

By reading everything you find

Written by HG


45 thoughts on “Twas The Night Before Christmas

  1. Priceless just priceless happy New Year HD

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It’s HG

      1. lickemtomorrow says:

        I’m guessing it’s because the *Ultra* comes in High Definition 😉

  2. FoolMe1Time says:

    Thank you.
    She didn’t believe me at first. She agreed that he had narcissistic traits, even after I left her read HGs books, video’s and all the knowledge that he had out there, I knew there was still doubt in her mind. It wasn’t until I got HG involved that she finally knew what I told her was the truth. I also believe finding others ( two that she works with, and one who is the Mother of a little boy her son plays with) helped her a lot! She knew she was not crazy and was not the only one out there going through this.😘💞

  3. FoolMe1Time says:


    My daughter has always been my friend, both of my children are. I was a younger Mother and so as they became old enough going out with them to clubs and dancing was something the three of us enjoyed! We didn’t do it all of the time, usually when we were on vacation or celebrating something. They also knew when being a friend was put on the back burner and Mom was out! Haha.

    We don’t live in a big city and I find it interesting just how many people she has talked to that not only knows about narcissism, they know of HG and his work. I will never be able to pay HG for all he has done. My children are and have always been my life!
    As for letting her know your wishes for the best for her, thank you very much. I will tell her. She is much stronger then she realized she was.
    It’s not out of order at all, we have family on the other side of the pond. If I could that is where I would spend the rest of my life, I love it there! 😘💞

    1. lickemtomorrow says:

      FM1T, it’s lovely when your children are also your friends and you can enjoy experiences together x

      The Mom hat is not always on, and mine and I have some quite enjoyable banter as well.

      Your comment reminded me of a movie I watched again recently with Melissa McCarthy where she ends up back in college with her daughter after her useless ex dumps her during his mid life crisis. The movie is hilarious and the best part is where she attends a get together with some of the girls in the sorority and inadvertently eats brownies laced with weed :O LOL. It’s the night of her ex-husband’s wedding and she decides she will attend and offer him forgiveness. When they get to the venue the set up turns out to be a real slap in the face to her and so she and her sorority sisters go on a wild ride trashing the wedding venue! I can’t say I wasn’t with her in terms of enjoying what she did … my narcy traits loving every minute of it. Best part was she had at that stage slept with her ex-huband’s new wife’s son who was at college with her 😛 OMG. It was hilarious and verboten on so many levels. She had a brilliant friend cheering her on in her new life as well. But her daughter was one of her biggest cheerleaders and vice versa <3

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        I watched that movie two weeks ago with my daughter and we laughed at some of the parts so hard that are sides hurt!! Haha!
        I’m happy to here you and your daughter have a friendship as well! Having my children was the best thing I ever did! 💞

        1. lickemtomorrow says:

          <3 <3 <3

          I just want to give a million <3 to your post FM1T and can't believe you watched that movie recently, too. It is hilarious and great for mother daughter bonding 🙂

          Yes, my daughters and I enjoy a special bond, although they will always say my son is the favourite. Sibling rivalry. What can I say! But I'm so glad you feel that way about your children and I would have to agree. Having my children was the best thing I ever did, too <3

          1. FoolMe1Time says:


            Awww, thank you! We not only watched that movie, we also watched The Heat, McCarthy and Sandra Bullock were in that one. My favorite of all that night was Malificent with Angelina Jolene! I think that will go down as one of my all time favorite movies!
            My daughter always tells me that my son is my favorite and that he never got in any trouble for anything because he would always make me laugh at him! Even though him making me laugh was always true, ( I just couldn’t help it. Haha ) he was funny! I really didn’t have a favorite, and they both know that! 😘💞

          2. lickemtomorrow says:

            Haha, we seem to have some things in common, FM1T, and I see I’m not the only being accused of favouring a son 🙂 I think they just like to rile us up sometimes!

            How sweet that he has such a good sense of humour and mine is the same x

            I haven’t seen Maleficent so I’ll have to add that to my list of movies to watch 😉

          3. FoolMe1Time says:

            If you do get a chance to watch Maleficent and like it, the second one is just as good! Son’s with a good sense of humor are usually also mischievous, at least mine is. Haha. Oh the things he would do to his sister, as hard as I tried I just couldn’t help but laugh! Haha! ❤️

          4. lickemtomorrow says:

            Thanks for the further heads up on the Maleficent movies, FM1T. I’m going to look forward to watching them with your recommendation 🙂

            LOL to your son being mischievous as well. They really do know how to mix things up sometimes, but with a sense of humour that makes it all the more entertaining x

            He also knows how to get one over on his mother (me) occasionally!

            I will let you know how I go with those movies, FM1T xox

  4. FoolMe1Time says:

    I don’t care about them! Yes, that is there problem. I only care about you!

    I cannot wait to read about this adventure HG! Sooner than later I hope?

  5. FoolMe1Time says:

    You’re welcome HG. I’m so glad you are back safe and sound! Xx

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Of course. Same cannot be said for them, but then that is their problem isn’t it?

  6. December Infinity says:

    Best interpretation ever!

  7. FoolMe1Time says:

    You’re such a great writer and story teller HG. I wish I just had a tiny bit of your talent! Nevertheless I have a story to tell, but first let me apologize for the typos and all of the other mistakes you will most likely find! I am writing this on my phone and I think I’ve had just a little bit to much alcohol tonight, so forgive me please.

    I have a very special friend who is married to a narcissist. I have suspected this for a few years now but was never 100% sure? My friend new that I followed HG and how much I admired him, we talked about narcissists on our walks together. She would tell me of her husband’s narcissistic traits, I would listen and never push the issue. This year things really went south fast! She lost her job, she was collecting unemployment but that eventually ran out. This women always wanted to be a wife and mother more then anything else in the world, she waited and got her degree first. She became an amazing mother! This past summer was more then she could handle and I saw her slowly going under, I didn’t know what to do?! He was killing her beautiful spirit. It wasn’t until he started on there child that she finally had enough! She told me she felt trapped and didn’t know what to do, he had her thinking she was crazy and all of this was her fault! I gave her a few of HGs books to read and a few days later she told me she wished she could afford a narc detector consult. That’s all I needed to hear! I emailed HG and told him about the situation. I wanted her to be my personal angel, he agreed. We started with the Narc detector and when that came back confirming what I already knew, I ask HG for a list of his work that he thought she might need, he was gracious enough to help me not just with the list, he would also allow me to purchase what she needed and would send it to her. Back and forth we went until I finally saw that spark coming to life in her again! Last month she found a job, two weeks ago she bought a new car, last week she was approved for a townhouse that she found for her and her son. This never would have happened without HG and his help! I guess I should probably tell you the rest of this story. My dear friend knew her Father was a narcissist, she also knew she was a codependent, as was her mother and her mother before her! She not only broke the chains that were wrapped around her, she also broke a viscous cycle that had been going on in that family for years! You see, that special angel was my daughter. I am so proud of her and so grateful to HG, I will never be able to thank you enough for what you have done for her, you gave her the most precious gift of all, her freedom! For years I have been telling you that you are not a bad man! You are a very good man that has done some bad things, honestly I believe at this time you have done more good then bad. Somehow just telling you thank you doesn’t seem like enough for all that you do. Yes I will spread your name and your work to anyone that will listen! Hell, I’ll spread it even if they don’t listen! Thank you again my friend!

    Merry Christmas everyone!🎅🏻

    Merry Christmas HG! 🎄

    May your Christmas be filled with fuel,
    Peace, and contentment. You are loved very much!💞

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you FM1T.

    2. lickemtomorrow says:

      Oh my, what a beautiful story, FM1T, and thank you so much for sharing <3

      Your beautiful daughter has made her escape and all with the help of HG.

      It is wonderful to hear, and you are an excellent storyteller yourself. I was quite taken by surprise to learn it was your daughter you spoke of at the end. And lovely to know she is also your friend x

      Our adult children will make their own choices, just as we did, but armed with the right knowledge there is always hope for a better future for all of us. This is very encouraging as we head into a new year xox

    3. Fiddleress says:

      FM1T, what a fantastic story! I am so very, very happy for your daughter, and for you.
      I agree with you that sometimes, “thank you” sounds terribly bland when we want to express gratitude to HG for what he does.
      Even if your daughter doesn’t know me, and if this doesn’t feel out of order, please let her know that someone on the other side of the pond wishes her all the very best. She sounds like a very courageous angel!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Thank you for your kind words. I have no idea how HG does this? I have combined yours and lickemtomorrows
        comments to me! I apologise! As you can see if you read my comment to her it ended up being for both of you!!

        1. Fiddleress says:

          FM1T, no problem at all ! I have read your comment to LET and me: thank you.
          Your daughter must be so proud to have realised how strong she is. Xx

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            My daughter still has moments of doubt, he really did a number on her self esteem. She does have a wonderful support team and I’m sure we will get her through this! 💞xx

          2. Fiddleress says:

            FM1T: with you and HG on the support team, you will definitely get her through this! xx

          3. FoolMe1Time says:

            Thank you Fiddleress!

            The light at the end of that tunnel keeps getting brighter and brighter! With HG on our side it’s a sure thing!💞xx

    4. WhoCares says:

      So wonderful to hear FM1T!
      Your approach to not push the issue and just listen until the timing was right was probably the best thing.
      All the best to her and her continued forward movement!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        I didn’t push the issue at first because I honestly didn’t know! I had my suspicions but they were dating before I found HG and knew anything about narcissism. The more I learned, the more apparent it became to me. He is text book mid range cry baby pussy!! Oh that felt good to say!! Haha!
        Thank you for your kind wishes for her continuing to move forward. 😘💞

    5. Z - zwartbolleke says:

      That is a very touching story FM1T, also you are lucky that your daughter accepted your intentions and freed herself, I’m happy for the both of you!

    6. A Victor says:

      Thank you for sharing this FM1T, what a wonderful success story! It is very encouraging!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        A Victor,
        Thank you. One of the reasons I shared this story was to encourage others, I know there are people who doubt HG or his work can help them, I want them to know that he can. They just have to give him and themselves that chance. Xx

        1. A Victor says:

          FM1T, I agree about HG’s work. Also, your story was meaningful to me as I have a daughter in almost an exact predicament. Getting her degree before marrying, trying for 5 years before having their first child, now due with the second, and we cringe as we watch how her husband treats her. It is heartbreaking. Thankfully, over the holiday I was able to spend some time with her and she was a bit open to what I’ve been learning, not applied toward her situation of course but at least she knows a bit more if the time presents at some point that she may need it. So far her husband has not mistreated their son, we are all waiting for that day to come and concerned about it, hoping she will do as your daughter did and get out. Anyway, your story hit very close to home, it brought tears to my eyes and hope to my heart, thank you again!

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            A Victor,
            I debated whether I should tell that story or not, after I thought about it I knew HG should be given the credit for his work and the time he put into helping us! I also was hoping it would help others realize that what HG teaches really does work.

            Please don’t give up on your daughter and her situation. I started talking to her an out HG and his work a few years ago, fortunately when things got really bad and she was definitely in devaluation, she remembered the things we talked about! Her son was not abused physically, he was starting to be abused emotionally. At first my daughter would make excuses for him but as things got worse she finally seen it for what it was. ( HG also confirmed that ).
            A Victor I’m sure your daughter will eventually see that what he is doing is wrong, just knowing that you are there to help her through it will give her the courage to ask you for help. When she does you will have all the answers that you need right here. 💞🤣

          2. FoolMe1Time says:

            A Victor when you read my reply to you I am very sorry for the laughing emoji! I had no idea that I hit that until after I hit send!! ❤️

          3. A Victor says:

            FM1T, no, I would never give up. They are in a respite period now, with the pregnancy, so I believe that is why she was more open to hearing. Word of HG and his work are being spread as much as I can in my circle of influence, I am working on obtaining a book to leave laying around for my daughter to peruse when she visits at some point, a suggestion from another here. Thank you again for sharing, your story was a bright spot in my day!

          4. FoolMe1Time says:

            A Victor,
            One thing that I did to share HG with my daughter was show her some of his pictures and adventures on Instagram. It worked out great! Some of the comments he would get would make her laugh, but she also got to read the words of praise that were written. It helped to peak her interest and gave her and I something to laugh about. ❤️

          5. A Victor says:

            FM1T, that made me smile!! No worries! 🙂

          6. A Victor says:

            That’s a fantastic idea FM1T! Thank you!

    7. Leigh says:

      What an absolutely beautiful story! Thank you for sharing. You’re daugher is so lucky to have you and Mr. Tudor. I’m so happy to hear she has escaped and secured her freedom!

      Mr. Tudor, you truly are a blessing! Thank you!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Thank you for your kind words.My daughter still has her moments of doubt, ( about herself) but I’m sure in time she will be perfectly fine!
        HG is most definitely a blessing to so many, whether he wants to be or not! I remember a few years ago someone questioning me on HG being my hero, I also remember last spring someone telling me that I should stay away from HG because I am a CoD and I see him as my narcissist and that I am attached to him! Well he definitely is my hero then and now, and if I were attached to him I definitely stepped it up!! Bet there’s not to many people who have attached themselves to an Ultra?! Haha!!
        For those of you that are reading this, the part about being attached was a joke! Thought I should stop it now before it turns into a shit show.
        Thank you Leigh. Xx

        1. Leigh says:

          FoolMe1Time,its ok, I’m attached to an Ultra too and I’m not CoD, I’m only a standard empath, minority super. Who can blame you for being attached, he gives us clarity and that clarity is priceless! I’ve only done the empath & trait detector, no consult yet and I’m already attached!

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            Well Leigh, no one does attachment like a CoD! Haha!
            I guarantee once you have a consult you will be over the top! He is absolutely professional at all times and there is no one that can come close to his knowledge!!

    8. Anm says:

      That sounds like a breakthrough. Just getting her out of his house, and approved for her own townhome is a huge deal when it comes to the narc/codependent dynamic. I wish you much more healing as a family. 💜

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Thank you for your kind words and support. Yes getting her out was a huge step! I could see her ET rising and falling over and over again until she was finally out! She also surprised me last night by telling me she has met with a counselor now on two different occasions. At least the healing can begin. 💞xx

  8. BC30 says:

    Freedom is SWEET! So much peace and quiet and genuine love from real people this year, including, Empaths United 😉and a HUGE thanks to HG! ❄️

    Happy Christmas 🎄

  9. lickemtomorrow says:


    Absolutely spot on!

    Thank you, HG,for reminding us
    where our thoughts need to be,
    here is our safe space
    Remaining narc free x

    I'll admit I was tempted
    and near ran afoul
    of the hope for some respite
    Oh, how I would howl

    To know it's not coming
    and then if it did
    he'd pass me up for another
    for less than a quid

    So thank you again
    for all that you do
    I'm ever so grateful
    and Tickety Boo 🙂

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