In order to understand your narcissist opponent (and let’s not avoid recognising the fact that we regard you as our opponent) it is essential that you realise that we adopt two lines of defence. It is imperative that our kingdom remains intact, that our rule over you is not impeded, hindered or diminished in anyway. […]

    You think about me every day. You wait for those teasing and tempting text messages which come through repeatedly during the day and then dry up around 6pm when you know that I am home with her. Once in a while there might be a sudden text at 9pm telling you that she […]

  . False memories of childhood abuse represent one of psychology’s most contentious topics, often called the memory wars of the 1980s and 1990s and beyond. These involve individuals developing vivid, emotionally charged recollections of sexual or physical abuse that never occurred or that did not happen as remembered. Now, invariably, when somebody mentions being […]

    Number One Well, I wouldn’t describe her as a bad person. Not bad per se, but I suppose she just was unable to handle my popularity. After all, I cannot help the fact that people are drawn to me can I? Naturally I always reassured her. I suppose being so young she was […]

  The dead eyes of the narcissist are often commented upon. Whether it is someone you know personally or a photograph you have seen of somebody else, you will, in all likelihood have come across the presentation of dead eyes. It is especially the case where this has occurred in a personal interaction, this particular […]