How To Trigger A Narcissist in 30 Seconds

5 thoughts on “How To Trigger A Narcissist in 30 Seconds

  1. Asp Emp says:

    This gave an interesting insight to the differences in how the various schools of narcissists ‘respond’ with ignited fury (whether hot or cold).

    I’ll share here – my experiences with past narcissists. The Lesser would be basically ‘instant’ and the aggressiveness depended on what made him pi**ed off ie the level of the ‘fury’. Even though it may not actually have been anything that warranted that kind of response from him. He even surprised others with his ‘reaction’ – they’d appear horrified / appalled / disgusted etc. I do not believe many people actually ‘respected’ him as a person – he didn’t even ‘earn’ it.

    The MRN? Soft as anything. His ‘fury’, if any, would be ‘cold’ and silent treatments (short periods though). I had seen him get annoyed (the heated fury) at other people, ie his line manager. She is a fkg b**ch anyway, another MRN. He is smarter than her yet being his manager, she effectively had more ‘control’ yet she needed his ‘brains’ because they are better than what she ever came out with. In this instance, he would have ‘control’ over her.

    Mother’s fury would always be the ‘heated’ type at home (in private). The ‘cold’ fury would be issued towards her sister and her mother – this ‘fury’ would build up until to the point she would erupt. It would be more likely to do with an argument that was not going to be a short one on her family’s part. She was never violent towards her family, only me and my sister.

    The video also reminded me of HG’s article on ‘If You Leave The Narcissist’.

  2. lisk says:

    Challenging is what you DO. Wounding is what you DON’T DO.

    Not sure why I didn’t get that straight before, but this audio-video makes it crystal clear to me now.

    (I see I wound my boss a lot by not taking her up on her offers of beneficence.)

  3. Asp Emp says:

    I haven’t seen the video – yet. When I saw the title, I thought to myself, ’30 seconds?!’ – surely it would take far less than that?

    OK, ok, HG, I will see the video and then make a comment 😉

  4. WhoCares says:

    “Tudor Treatment”
    Love it!

  5. Foreigner74 says:

    Very funny introduction!!! I can’t stop listening to your audio videos…I think this will trigger my partner soon 😁😁😁!

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